Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Getting a crush on a woman is not unusual.
Now listen up: it doesn’t make you a bad person, it doesn’t mean you lack impulse control, and it doesn’t have to be permanent.
There’s a good chance you have a crush on her because you themed her.
If that’s the case, it might help you understand this other phenomenon – the one where a guy can have a crush on one woman while having no problems Sarging other women and even giving them rides on the baloney poney yet not getting crushes on them, too.
OK: it happens. Now you know. Let’s fix it.
How To Change Your Feelings About A Woman Or
Break Your Crush On Her In 9 Easy Steps
Just do this:
Step 1: Picture this girl in your mind. Make it an image of her at her most juicy, amazing, fantastic. She’s puckering up her lips about to go down on you or whatever you like.
Step 2: Freeze the image and imagine your are spraying a canister of liquid nitrogen on the image so it is being cooled down to absolute zero (the temperature at which all molecular motion STOPS). If it helps you can actually stand up and imagine you’ve got that canister in your hands-actually act out the actions of holding it and spraying the hose at the image, which you now imagine is about 3 feet in front of you.
(Note: to make it even more realistic, imagine the sounds of the spray and the the sounds of the image icing up, perhaps making a “ccccrrrrrrackkkkk” sound as it gets colder and colder.
Step 3: Now imagine you’ve got a huge sledge hammer in your hands. Summon up all of your energy and bring the sledge hammer down on the image, shattering it into a billion pieces.
Step 4: If it keeps coming back, keep smashing it until it fades or cracks and doesn’t re-constitute itself.
Step 5: Now it’s time to reclaim all the energy and enthusiasm you invested in this girl. So I want you imagine all of that focus and mental energy and enthusiasm forms a flow of color that is now floating around the shattered pieces of the picture.
Step 6: Extend your arms out to your sides. Now to yourself say, “I now reclaim all the energy and enthusiasm I invested in this person back for myself, stripped clean of any and all of their influence. This energy is now MINE.”
Step 7: Imagine it all flowing back into you as you breath deeply.
Step 8: Close it all by laughing at the shattered pieces of the picture, now drained of the energy they used to hold. Point at it and laugh out loud as hysterically as you can.
Step 9: Go for a walk, take a shower, get the f@@k out of there for a while and notice how cleansed and fresh you feel.
Do it and let me know how it works. You’ve got a world of women to f@@k.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. At next weekend (July 28-29)’s Magick, Meditation, And ‘Non-Local’ Influence” Seminar, we will do live, interactive exercises that deconstruct deeply hidden patterns so they no longer bind you, distorting your perception and driving your behavior.
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Thanks! Outstanding technique. The energy and enthusiasm part, is quite helpfull. As men, conservation of emotional energies and their investment should be prudent. This is more than being about, “how to hustle”, quite helpful!
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I wish I had this when I was 13!
Thanks PR !
I have done it and love this playful technique. For me personally it’s a lot easier to project this visualization when I imagine myself as a character from a fighting game who had very similar freezing abilities. Then it feels even more real.
Regards,
Hendrik
I used this for the second time today, this time in-the-moment at the gym.
She got on machine in front of and one to the right of me and started wiggling her ass like she wanted me to look. I obliged and she pulled her shirt tail over it.
I Didn’t get offended like I have in the past, just figured we’d established that level of communication and went back to my workout until I got bored and started looking again.
At that point I realized I was already over the line so I did the 9 easy steps above right there, which I’m now calling The Ice-Breaker and then I did ignore her until we both finished our workouts at the same time and walked down the isle of machines shoulder to shoulder.
Sorry if my progress is not up to your wall-of-proof standards, but at this point just holding space with her completely neutrally, without getting angry about the “lost opportunity” is an improvement. Not to mention her walking right along with me!
I had actually developed a line this morning to use when a woman enters my “personal space” like at the super market checkout, and completely spaced it out at the gym, but I still count it as a win to have worked with where I’m at and acquired a real-world reference experience to rehearse with so next time my line is automatic, or at least automatically there.
It probably won’t feel “natural” until I’ve actually done it a few times, but that’s step three by my count above.
Thank you PR.
Energy work is something many men find difficult, even though we are energy beings like women are!
Once you discover the energy and it’s flow paths in your body you can master your state and succeed in any area of your life, not just with women.
Richard Bandler introduced me to internal spinning energy states and the attendant colours, sounds and feelings, and I teach this awareness to all my clients as a first step to doing work together.
Thank you so much for this. I have been needing this for a while.
Hi Paul,
Amazing.
I notice you have a number of methods for similar/same or different senarios… Would I be right in thinking when we totally understand turning difficult areas into metaphors and taking control of them, you can create your own? Similar to language patterns?
rus x
@Rus Exactly correct. And you can apply it to yourself.
For example, if a woman breaks up with you, you can frame it as, “She dumped me. I’m fucking crushed”.
These are metaphors. She didn’t literally toss your physical body into a trash heap(I hope not). And you are not literally “crushed”.
And even the term “breaks up” is a metaphor. You don’t literally have a “thing” called a relationship that is literally broken.
“Fuck. It really hurts right now that she ended the relationship with me. I feel confused, angry etc etc. SHIT!”
That’s a better way of being accurate without being totally disempowering and it leaves you with the possibility of making new connections with others.