The Mathematical Formula That Multiplies Acceptance Confidence

Dear Seeker of Success,

Here’s something for you to consider when you think about how your life can change when you accept and make real for yourself the Speed Seduction® Credo: “When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.”

A student of mine made this comment:

“Many guys think (and a number of teachers advocate) that you have to get in these powerful, confident, upbeat states to sarge properly. That’s fine, in the right context, once you’ve developed some skill. But I think it’s more useful to just work on being ok with not knowing how things will turn out. Just having a relaxed frame of mind that say, “I’m just gonna give this a go and however things turn out is ok.”

Now: combine the power of what he just said, with this:

Holding space for the other person to have whatever initial response they have.

Walking through the world being ok with not knowing how things will turn out is VERY attractive. It’s a kind of acceptance of yourself and of life that so many people long to have, and it’s not based on any circumstances (that might change) or skill level (that might have to be built up first).

Combine that with having NO expectations that the other person respond positively to your approach, give them FULL permission to have whatever response, at first, that they have.

Let’s do the math.

YOUR ACCEPTANCE OF LIFE, THE UNKNOWN, AND YOURSELF = 100 points of attractiveness

YOUR ACCEPTING AND BEING OK WITH WHATEVER FIRST RESPONSE THEY HAVE = 100 points of attractiveness.

Now, these two don’t add. THEY MULTIPLY.

That gives you…

10,000 Points Of Attractiveness.

I can’t put this adequately into words, but there is just something there in that magic of the two combined. It opens gateways of possibility that multiply.

Stepping into the unknown and being willing to do it, without “steeling yourself” is very, VERY powerful. That willingness (as opposed to “will”) is very charismatic and attractive.

Offering people RADICAL (meaning, “down to the root”) acceptance of their first response, not requiring or expecting their support of your new moves is very, very unexpected and very attractive.

It just makes things possible on so many levels.

Add in then being able to notice what you need to notice to LEAD THEM SOMEWHERE BETTER THAN THEIR FIRST RESPONSE and the skill to lead them there…

(Multiply initial attractiveness x 10) =

100,000 Points Of Attractiveness.

I’ll take that out of the gate.

Peace,

RJ

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