Dear Seeker of Success,
Has a woman ever slammed the brakes on because she doesn’t want to get hurt again?
She needs to know if you’re “serious” about a long-term relationship – and if she senses you’re not, in about 45 minutes from now she and her gal pals will all be in agreement you’re the latest case study that proves “all men are pigs“….
…..just like that ass of an ex whose shadow has cast over your dealings with her from the jump, who now she’ll be convinced you’re “just like.”
Too bad, because things are developing nicely, and you hate to see it crash and burn after just six weeks when it’s looking so promising.
To avoid getting hurt again, she’s about to shut the whole thing down and consign you to the pig sty.
Word-For-Word Language Pattern That
Avoids The “Hurt” Trap By
Being Artfully Vague
News flash: she’s going to get hurt.
It’s up to you to not be piggish about it and show her you’re not going to throw her heart in the mud like those other jerks did.
Her: “I’m tired of getting hurt. My last boyfriend really hurt me when he broke up with me.”
Me: “Yes, there always is the possibility of getting hurt. I guarantee at some point we’re going to hurt each other. If you’re worried about me hurting you, stop worrying. I promise you I am going to hurt you and you’re going to hurt me. That’s part of being vulnerable. When you’re vulnerable and you love even when you don’t mean it, even if it lasts, there’s hurt and there’s pain. Rather than worry about that, let’s see how it unfolds. We only do what feels right for both of us.”
Three Ways This Gets Back Your
Control And Stops Her From
Tossing You In The Pig Sty
First, notice I said nothing specific in my response. Re-read the above.
Second, because I was artfully vague, she’ll fill in the blanks with her imagination. It’s pretty f@@king clever is it not?
Third, compare this to what other guys have told her: “No baby, I’m different. I’ll never ever hurt you.”
And you wonder why chicks say all men are pigs?
Do different. Be better.
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