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  • A M October 25, 2011, 4:12 pm

    a wonderful attitude, it improves inner game and put the world inside the comfort zone
    just avoid trying new things with your boss’ wife…

  • Miki Berkovich October 25, 2011, 6:06 pm

    Hi Ross, nice post but I have a question about this: When I do a ritual before Sarge, I can put myself into a realy useful state: focused ,relaxed and positive. I can also approach girls during the day on random occurences, but I sometimes i’ll be off-state, either because of tiredness or after a hard day of work, I’ll find it hard to focus or be concentrated and then even if I approach my choice of words will could be weak, won’t be able to notice things the girl gives me, and in general I won’t be in a realy useful state. What can be done about this?

  • confidencemagnet seduction October 25, 2011, 10:28 pm

    Always Be Sarging…It’s kinda like a pick up game that you play to improve your skills. I think that this is one of the missing elements that I need to apply. I talk to women but I don’t try to pick up women wherever I go. I think that’s one of my sticky point. Still confident talking to women, but not super confident picking up 10s.

  • Rheo October 26, 2011, 1:35 am

    This is so right. When you go out exclusively to meet babes, its a kind of an ametuer mindset, but meeting women when you are going about the activity of living and being your life feels like freedom. When you come from this attitude, it is truly giving these women an opportunity to meet an amazing person like you, and furthermore you know this and feel this in your guts, and if she can’t see that it doesn’t even matter that much.

    Also Ross, I’m almost reacahing the end of Shinzen’s sereies that you recommended in NYIG and its amazing. It truly staggers my imagination that you want your students to not only have power and choice with women but you alo have a vision for them far beyond that. You are trying to open their eyes and spirits to a happiness that is truly independednt of conditions and as a teacher I salute you! Happy Diwali!

  • John McLean November 17, 2011, 6:01 pm

    More good stuff from Ross! I invested in his Speed Seduction training years ago and it literally changed my life. It’s time for a review of his material and so I’m likely going to attend his live event in 2012!

  • Leslie Piper February 26, 2012, 2:31 pm

    Mighty Ross. Great Teacher…thanks. I went thru your checklist and copied it by hand…when I have been at my most effective in times before I used…sometimes…similar approaches. This time, with a clear shock of recognition, I copied it…and will turn it into flash cards to memorize it…you know it will get used often in MANY different areas of life…

    Thanks again for your work and sharing so much. My life’s better because of you.
    all the best, Leslie Piper

    • Ross Jeffries February 27, 2012, 9:37 am

      @Leslie. Always a pleasure to help out a fellow old man!


  • Aaron April 21, 2013, 8:07 pm

    I agree and perhaps one exception to this rule is if you specifically go to a place to sarge as a warm up with the mindset you will sarge throughout your normal day.

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