Dear Seeker of Success,
One of the biggest questions we get from students once they actually start going into the field and getting experienced using the tools and mastering the skills has to do with anchoring.
How do you capture her vibe, figuring out what moves her and motor-vates her, so that with just one gesture, word or suggestion you can bring it back at will?
One student of mine shared a story about a lunchtime meet he had with a woman who made a point of taking him to her favorite cafe and buying him a slice of their “famous” cheesecake.
She wanted him to experience the cheesecake and know how good it was. (AHA!)
He asked her to tell him how she felt when she ate it.
She Got Extremely Excited, Trying To
Get Him To Feel The Feeling
Challenge: he couldn’t quite figure out how to “anchor” that excitement so he could draw upon it at will.
Actually, it’s pretty simple:
Just tap something; tap your fork on the table or against your other hand.
But then LEAD the conversation: “I think you learn so much about people by learning where you FIND YOUR PLEASURES-me…it teaches you so much more when you learn how a person WANTS TO INDULGE…Debbie.
See how we put in suggestions and commands?
“Like, my friend likes to ask people; if you could go somewhere, where no one knew who you were…and nothing you did would get back to anyone who DID know…what kinds of things could you PICTURE YOURSELF DOING…me…I can’t help but THINK OF THAT QUESTION, from time to time.”
Etc etc etc.
See how easy this can be when you know where you want you and her to be going?
Peace,
RJ
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Tha tapping is a good one, a ritaul etological connection for future , a rubbing of salts, please get the vatch on a front
fab – I totally agree…RJ is ……Ofcourse He Is…
…I’m not sure if it’s normal, maybe it is, Maybe it isn’t but I found when I first started anchoring with women I found it gets a bit of getting used to (Even though it’s so simple)…in the sense that I was so shocked by her response….I could’nt find it in myself to continue because I was so suprised/pleased by her response. They just immediately stop whatever they are doing and glue there eyes to you…Is this normal?
Honestly…I’d do the twin brothers, tap my chin…And No shit….I’ve had waitress in Starbucks pouring hot coffee…Stop in time ….Staring at my intently..Like I have the most important news in the world.
…I found it to be actually quite scary when it happens first of all…That’s what I found anyway…
rus
P.S. I must remind myself not to do this on a pilot….Ha ha