Peace and piece,
RJ
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Damn, I wish I could get to a seminar. Ross, I have one issue. Just one and it’s the biggest problem I can imagine. I know all your stuff. I bought the BHSC in 2000. I’ve been following you on the list for most of the past 10 years. I read, listen, learn and I think I understand it pretty well. Everything is in my head somewhere. The tools, the attitudes, the beliefs, perceptions, my own ideas based on your stuff and a lot more. I just can’t use it. I have no idea why or how, but somehow it doesn’t come out. That’s my obstacle which has been getting in my way all these years. What can I do?
intresing as i believe bein able to shift into diferent personas and project a certain attitude or behaviour to a woman at any givven time depending on whats shee needs at that time is most definatley very powerfull and will definately work as it makes total sence. i think if we as men need to do this to get a woman then arent we really manipulating her an the situation, therfore is it realy genunie, or do we convince ourselvs thats what she wants because she responds to it and it makes her feel good. does it make it right is my question.
I remember in one of your programs you were discussing the subject of vibe, and how it is something, that once you learn, no one can take from you, you cannot be AMOGGED out of it, you cannot be out gamed of it, as it is something you just have. And having the ability to bounce seamlessly among the four vibes, Command, Playfulness, Authority, and Vulnerability, and a fifth if you count Lust, creates an energy that is very attractive. Couple that with awareness of the communication of the energy that women are sending you and the ability to utilize the various ways of using process language, and make all this a part of who and what you are daily and Speed Seduction ceases to be something you do, but a Speed Seducer is someone you are.
double t
Man! I wish you would come Downunder, get in the faces of our Aussie males and say exactly that. I heard one of your students say that Aussie males are all natural Alphas. Be that as it may, Aussie males have suffered from the constant tyranny of Post Modern deconstruction of the male. We have suffered from a great tragedy when it comes to girls. A cab driver who was giving me a lift home burst into tears the other day because one, his wife of 20 years won’t back him anymore, and two, a younger more attractive woman is showing an interest in him. Men were lied to Ross. And it starts the day we get into public school. Society hammers us into the shape of raw supplication, and then women complain because we’re boring. And keep saying there are no good men. Well we are good. And totally willing to live life balls-to-the-wall once we’re given the right information. Your information.
Geoffrey Gibbons
Clinical Hypnotherapist
To Hans:
Pickup is really a numbers game. Pick your school (in this case, I guess your school is Speed Seduction) and go out and approach women simply for reference points. It’s the general consensus in the community that it takes about 2,000 approaches before you get good at pickup. So the first 2,000 or so women don’t even matter; just have fun with the process. The more you approach and get rejected, the more you de-sensitize yourself to rejection.
Just go out and think of it as these women helping you towards a new goal. It really took me eleven months before I even got my first phone number.
2,000? That’s nonsense. Just bullshit.
I may just take a trip downunder.
Damn street, Double T!
I meant in the year 2000.
Yo ross, I think you’re right for the most part, but fractionating the different vibes/attitudes works fantastic I think not because it’s so much suprising or unpredictable, although that is good stuff, but because eventually you’re going to hit the right button, you’re going to say something that will make her go, WOW this guy really is fantastic. But again it could be wrong because you might hit the worse button ever :\.
Yes but anyway you slice it, it works.
Ok
Ross
I’m middle 50s and one of the pleasant surprises of middle age is being hit on by women in their 20s and 30s. Everyone’s first response is daddy fixation or money, so normally I don’t even bother to respond. On the off chance someone will “get it” I’ll toss it out there.
I use some of your material and it seems to create the states you speak of, naturally in natural flow of conversation.
Out of curiosity I kept asking questions and “LISTENING” until I got the answer from several women. Their answer was (and I quote) ” I’m not that”. Some had spent 4years partying with frat boys , some had spent time hanging in sports bars Etc Etc.
It is that simple…… use your (Ross’s) stuff with flexibility and be congruent, which will make you unique. They’ll approach you for their own reasons.
Not sure I understand the “I’m not that” response. They aren’t WHAT, exactly? RJ
Oh, I think that I understand. It is like being a cameleon and having control of the sorroundings. You become what the others person wants you to be at that instant. You are a power machine my friend. It is just amazing.
These women were in periods of personal transition in their lives. Example: one young lady had been doing the college fraternity party scene, had graduated and was consciously looking for something else.She picked up on the vibe you talk about and was intrigued. Her response to her previous life was “I’m not that.”
Looking back it seems there can be a flow to conversation and if you learn to listen listen, they tell you what they want and the state changes,vibe changes and language patterns naturally create a trance. Make sense?
C. It’s possible this woman has been uniquely vulnerable to you(or given that appearance) or has somehow allowed you to be more vulnerable, more sharing of your pain, sorrows, dreams, etc. This is a powerful bonding mechanism. Just be aware of that desire to have that in your life. Sit with it. Watch it. Then recognize you can screen for this and find it in women who are available to you.
This is all my intuitive and educated “guess” but please answer back here on the blog and tell me if I am right. You see that the structure of HOW process works-seeing activity rather than “thingifying” our world-is deeply liberating. And FUN TO TEACH!
Anyone want to hear more about this?
I’d like to hear more about this. Seems like im in this C. option, is that so bad?
Hello Ross,
Late entry, nonetheless its my point of view.
I was once lost so much into a girl who emmited a combination of vibes towards me in a very short time. It was second nature for her to act that way. She went from being a little giggly girl singing from being overwhelmingly sexual into being a confident grown woman!
So, it is the case that we function in a womans cycles of emotions when we emmit a combination of vibes that are so natural for them. What more special can you possibly be if you can reach into a womans emotional way of life when we demonstrate our masculine dominance and still display an anventurous child-like attitude All the more emotionally powerfull and sexually overwhelming by demonstrating vulnerability by being open and being funny at the same time!!
Its so easy even a caveman can do it!!!
But it does take practice, practice, practice!!!!!
Sarge on!!!
Texan
You’re right on Jeff. I think that when you are coming from deep laughs, you say something extremely sexually inuendous and then you work on bringing it back to a peaceful place, then go at it again, causing tension.
But I love being a girls counselor, then adding sexuality to the remedy, because most girls (or anyone for that matter) can be very unsure of themselves.
Then, when I’m cocky, I susally do it in an “over the top” way.
But, then I’m all hands, and if she says something, I might put the blame back on her.
You’re riz-ite Jeffries. You’re right again.
I have this podcast about Pickup… #6 in itunes “sexuality” catagory, I give you props all the time on my podcast and I would love to have you on there for 15 minutes.
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