Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
There’s a song by Eddie Money that goes “I wanna go back, and do it all over…but I can’t go back…” Actually, this raises a good question. CAN you go back?
Maybe there’s a hottie from your past whose “friend zone” you got caught in, or she’s that former classmate you didn’t (at the time) have the balls to pass a “love note” to.
Maybe she’s a former co-worker you seriously had the hots for, but you didn’t want to dip your ink pen in the company well. You don’t work there anymore and she still writes on your Facebook wall from time to time… and (per her latest profile pic, anyway) she’s still as hot as she was back when you couldn’t focus on your work for an hour after she walked by your desk, with a current “status” of “Single” to boot.
Or maybe she’s someone who rejected you, and you totally blew it (or you rejected yourself by never making a move) and….ohhh…if ONLY she could experience the new, Sargy you….what could happen?
No matter what, she’s on your mind. A lot. So the question becomes…
Can You Bring This One Back To Life…
Or Is It Time To Move On?
Well you have two choices.
Choice one, stop fretting and make your move.
Or, you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.
Actually, as I look at this, the reason you think about her is you invested lots of feeling in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.
Now listen, and listen up: Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it. It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.
In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.
No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.
I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, fantasizing about this salacious co-worker throwing herself on your desk and cooing “Hey big guy, I thought we were scheduled for a ‘staff’ meeting…here it is… (looks at watch)…. about six after nine in the morning… we have some ‘hard topics’ to cover…”
In the case of the chick you “blew it” with… you replay it in your mind, except you imagine the version where you didn’t trip on your Johnson or whatever else happened that things didn’t progress.
Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.
Remember: you never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve taken a ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle and experienced “blast-off”.
Peace and piece,
P.S. Sick and tired of letting sexy, beautiful women pass right in front of you while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to meet them? Knowing later on, you’ll WISH it had been otherwise? Click here to learn how to make it happen THIS time, instead of (in your mind) later….