Comments on: Can You Actually “Go Back”?

By: hearts

hearts — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 13:28:27 +0000

Theres a good chance that any girl in your past you were crushing on you self hypnotized yourself, so why would you want to go back and connect with her when there are 34,000 other HOT girls out there waiting for you!

Hearts.

By: Me

Me — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 02:02:15 +0000

I reconnected with a gf I hadn’t seen in 30+ years (thanks, Facebook!). A lot had changed in our lives but the sex was still great. I still felt something for her, but I had to change my feelings when I realized we weren’t really compatible anymore. She understood and I’m moving on, but we will still be friends and I can call her up when the need “arises”.

By: Travis

Travis — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 06:29:29 +0000

This post really hits home for me. I’ve been a devoted student of Speed Seduction for about five years now, and it has made my life better in so many ways I can hardly imagine. Last year, I fell hard for a girl–a model, highly intelligent, sweet as can be to everyone in the world but me (who turned out to be something of an immature head case, even at 30. I’m 40.). Harder than anyone ever and that’s saying something. She initially sent me tons of mixed signals, then rejected me for like six months, and then about a year after we had gotten to know each other, one night threw herself at me (an opportunity I did not take because she had just spent 20 minutes driving the porcelain bus). I tried for two more months to land her in the boat, without success. In spite of the fact that I have enjoyed awesome relationships with handfuls of amazing women throughout this time, one of whom I am now sleeping with, two or three others of whom I could be, this ONE still haunts me. The Great CouldaBeen. I can look back and point to all my mistakes, the kind Ross warns against, and I can enjoy the hell out of the women I DO have in my life, but that doesn’t stop me from thinking about her sometimes.

By: Clifftoken

Clifftoken — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 05:48:29 +0000

It’s just not worth it. When there is so much more,better out there….

By: ASexyNerd

ASexyNerd — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 04:29:41 +0000

I swear ross sometimes its like you are in my head and then I get an email from you about the very issue that i am having which then completely breaks my supplication state. Thx bro i love you LOL

By: Art

Art — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 01:53:49 +0000

so simple but true, iv hypnotized myself many times before. Just knowing what your doing helps tho, thanx for putting this into words

By: Zarathud

Zarathud — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 00:30:38 +0000

I’ve recently reconnected with a number of women from my past, both shorter and longer term, and while there has been some experience to be gained from it, here’s the bottom line. If you’re in the process of significant life change, someone who already has long ingrained expectations of who you “are” (or are not), is generally not going to speed you down your new path and you probably don’t have so much in common anymore anyway. There are so many more fish in the sea and fresh fish is much better than the other kind!