Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In a recent newsletter, I described the experiences of a student, where a hottie he desired shied from his advances for a long time…until finally, she was begging him to f@@k her. He studied my teaching and applied it to his own situation in the way that worked best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize.

But sometimes, it might feel like success doesn’t come fast enough, or that you have been persistent and you’re still not getting the women you want.

In one of my recent twice-monthly “Ask Me Anything” calls, a student posed this dilemma. Here goes:

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Ross,

It’s like I’ve turned off the whole thing. I have this sense that, “Yes, I know Speed Seduction®, but what the hell?” I’m trying to figure out why I’m feeling burned out about meeting hot women.

I live near a university. The women are all pretty young. There’s nothing wrong with that on a certain level. But I find that after talking to them for a while, I run out of things to say. I don’t seem to be able to engage them on levels that excite them.

Age-wise, I’m between Between George Clooney and Sean Connery. What do I do?

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Great question, indeed. Here is my answer:

The first thing I ask is, what is going to satisfy you? What is the need in you? What are you craving? Burning out or not wanting to be with a certain group of people may just mean there are other needs you need to figure out.

As for engaging them on levels that excite them, that’s damn easy. Just use of the 6 conversational topics I teach step by step in the Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course.

I’ll give you one for free right here: connections.

Women are fascinated by this topic/conversational theme.

You can get her talking about:

• How people connect with their desires and fantasies.
• How we connect with someone we are really attracted to.
• How we connect with deeper places in our minds.
• How we connect to the needs we’ve been suppressing.

Any one of these topics is ripe with opportunities to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, the core principle of my Speed Seduction® material.

There are 5 other conversational themes and topics, equally loaded with opportunities to get her smoking hot and bothered. Find them here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. No shit guys: getting a woman talking in the right direction, and knowing how to use those responses is THE key to rocketing the hottest hotties right into your bed. Kiss the “friend zone” good-bye forever; your passport to p*ssy is right here:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/

Dear Speed Seduction Student,

If you are an “older” guy then trying to “date” younger women is the dumbest, dumb-ass, idiotic thing you could even attempt to do.



Listen: I just got this email from a guy who likes younger gals. Read on:

“Like you I am a middle aged man who very much appreciates younger women, may I dare say even some of the coeds at my old alma mater (USC), simply because they are more visually appealing to me as well as having less emotional baggage. But I am worried they will think I am a bit of a pervert for following through on pickups due to the age difference. Too bad, I think they miss out on the pleasures of being made love to by a mature man. (Amazingly, I hear about a lot of twenty year old guys who fantasize about having sex with middle aged women!) Do you have any techniques to overcome their initial resistance to dating a man that is old enough to be their father? Mike”

Now, the problem with this guy is he is thinking in terms of “dating” instead of getting sexual without dating. The problem with “dating” is that young women are going to put him through all of their checklists and social approval requirements-what will her friends think, etc etc.

Never ask a young woman out on a “date”. Instead intrigue her with how you capture and lead her imagination and emotions, how you understand her inner world of desire, fantasy, her need to surrender to powerful experiences, escape etc. Learn how here:

http://www.seduction.com/products/RJ187.php

Hang out, meet for coffee-no problem. Ideal. But get the image of picking her up, driving to a restaurant etc out of your mind.

I currently have a 19 year old and a 23 year old in my rotation. I’ve not spent $5 aggregate total. Neither should you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Your Home Study Course is your key to capture and lead the fantasies, imagination and emotions of smoking hot women of any age. Get it here:

http://www.seduction.com/products/RJ187.php