Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”

I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.

Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”

For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.

Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy

I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.

Let me re-frame the conversation: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?

What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?

Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever had it happen where for some reason, you just can’t stop thinking about a particular chick?

Like, you spend hours visioning what your next meeting (or even phone call) will be like, exactly what you’re going to say?

Then, you find yourself agonizing over the right time of day you should call her? Suddenly worried that she might see what you put on your Facebook wall and fretting that she might interpret your status a certain way (that keeps your willy dry)?

Normally I ask, when I get questions like this I ask, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most,

Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman
on the whole freaking planet???

However. in this case I think you realize that she isn’t. It’s just that there’s something inside of you keeping you fixated on this one chick.

First, you’re probably placing too much importance on this one chick. Have you f@@ked her yet? (It’s a yes or no question; either your Junior Explorer has explored her woman cave, or it hasn’t.)

Next, define “importance”. Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect with.

A lot of times guys find their “stuckness” can be exacerbated by being confused by that woman’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other deeply frustrating and seemingly (to you) irrational actions. Sound familiar?

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. RIGHT NOW is the time to leave all that behind, to get “unstuck,” and instead gain a comprehensive understanding of women that helps you put it all perspective.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

OK, so it’s time to hit the town… but you’re sitting home alone.

Maybe all your pals are married or in committed relationships (or perhaps “real-hate-shun-ships by default”) so you don’t have a wingman to help you approach the “b#%ch-packs.”

Could be you have no one to go out with (did you actually try asking people, or are you ASSUMING everyone’s busy or not interested?) and you feel awkward going out alone. Maybe you’re out of town and it feels weird going out alone.

Any way you look at it, you’re not out there meeting women. Instead you’re doing something else, involving a word that sounds like “meet.”

The (Likely) Real Reason You’re With Rosie And Her Sisters Tonight
Instead Of Making Out With Dazzling, Delicious Debbie

Perhaps you’re tried Sarging on some hotties, but having gotten the brush-off more often than you expected, you’re coming up with any dang ol’ excuse to stay planted on your Seduction a$% instead of taking to the field.

The easiest one is “I hate going out alone.” Well, join me as I show you …

… Three Surefire Places To Find And Flirt With Fine Women,
Without A Wingman Or A Pu#$y-Pulling Posse

Here are three places you can start looking, right now:\

• Street / store sarging. The best places to meet women are not “meat markets.” Get into the Sarging zone by talking to everybody. Before you know it, approaching a hot woman, anytime, anywhere, will be just a day in your life, not an “event” that you prepare for.
• Organized Social Events. What do wine tastings, dance classes, cocktail parties, party cruises, and networking events all have in common? Lots of hot, exciting women. You already have an “if all else fails” ice-breaker because you know you have at least ONE thing in common.
• Plan Your Flight, Hotel… And Sarging Zone. If you’re going to be out of town, do some advance research before you travel so you know the hot spots to hit while you’re in a new town. Are there organized social events in that town that strike your fancy? Get on Google and let your fingers do the walking. You’ll find something.

  Let me do the math for you… New City + New Women = New Adventures.

Get good at mixing it up and talking to everybody when your friends aren’t around. Then, when you meet cute, available women, your social wheels will already be turning and you’ll be the master of your girl-getting game.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Smart guys like you who study my girl-getting teachings on how to overcome fear, powerfully approach women, and then get them excited about taking the next step with you, know that you might not succeed every single time with every single hot babe. However, Speed Seduction® DOES increase the odds that you WILL succeed with women a much greater percentage of the times.

So, what to do when it seems that there are “no good women left out there”? I hear this complaint all too often. This frustrated student is asking the question:

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I’m officially beyond frustration to the point of absolute disgust with today’s women. I’m a compassionate, honest, good-hearted man and am so sick of getting hammered by women. I do my best to stay positive and “keep the faith” but every woman I meet or even hear about seems to be a friggin monster! Why is it always “I’m afraid of getting hurt, you’re a wonderful guy but I just don’t know where I’m going in life” and “I really do want to be married and be a mom” then they’re out all weekend with “friends”. Come on!

I’m sooo sick of trying and getting s#&% on here! Here I am, 35, alone, beyond frustration and on the verge of tears… again! I don’t know what to do or where to turn but I’m really over this whole thing! It’s been way too long and I’m done! I’m reaching out here, man.

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Do you know how many women I know who constantly complain that the men they date can’t make up THEIR minds? How these guys are in love one minute and don’t want to be involved the next? WELCOME TO HUMANITY, DUDE!

Let me ask you a question. It is perhaps the most important question you can hear right now:

What is your SYSTEM / METHOD for dealing with frustration/anger/confusion/sadness, extracting the maximum learning from the situation, redirecting the emotional energy into the qualities of personality and energy you want, then getting right back out in the field with the new insights, actions/behaviors/timing etc to get you what you want?

Here’s a metaphor to illustrate my point about functioning without a SYSTEM:

“I’m a boxer. I know how to throw a right cross better than anyone in the world. I throw a right cross better than Mike Tyson or Joe Louis ever did. Why is it that everyone keeps blocking my right cross? I GIVE UP ON BOXING. THE OTHER BOXERS ARE ALL CHEATERS AND THE REFS HATE ME! ALL THE FIGHTS ARE FIXED ANYWAY!”

Here’s another question: what are the more “aggressive” aspects of being male: taking the lead sexually, setting firm limits, putting yourself first, sexual confidence-that you are not confronting and are not comfortable with… yet?

It is THOSE gaps you need to fix, as opposed to railing against women for not responding as you like. You’ll have to take on a bit of the discomfort of learning to display these atrophied or ignored aspects of being male, if you want to STOP having the massive discomfort of getting your a$% consistently kicked and dumped.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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