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		<title>7 Tips To Supercharge Your Speed Seduction® Success!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 20:56:25 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/7-tips/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,</strong></p>
<p>Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students <strong>master</strong> the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a<strong> shorter amount of time.</strong></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1326" title="ca_30402870_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/ca_30402870_180.jpg" alt="ca_30402870_180" width="180" height="270" />Remember</span>, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>Capture and Lead A Woman&#8217;s Imagination and Emotions!</strong></p>
<p>As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be <strong>her own thought</strong>, and thus will not be resisted.</p>
<p><strong>Women especially like </strong>to be led by their <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>imagination and emotions</strong></span>! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.</p>
<p>Remember, women <strong>want good feelings</strong>, and my <strong>tools and language patterns</strong> are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.</strong></p>
<p>Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won&#8217;t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren&#8217;t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you&#8217;ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.</strong></p>
<p>So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong&#8230;a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her! <span id="more-1325"></span></p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!</strong></p>
<p>The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can&#8217;t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!</strong></p>
<p>Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You&#8217;ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1327" title="ca_35316342_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/ca_35316342_180.jpg" alt="ca_35316342_180" width="180" height="270" />One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven&#8217;t done that&#8230;DO IT NOW!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!</strong></p>
<p>Patterns are hard to use if you don&#8217;t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!</strong></p>
<p>So many guys have told me they&#8217;ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you&#8217;ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!</p>
<p><strong>Peace and piece,</strong></p>
<p><strong>RJ</strong></p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1195" title="SpeedSeductionDeluxe200" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/SpeedSeductionDeluxe200.jpg" alt="SpeedSeductionDeluxe200" width="200" height="200" /></a>P.S. </strong>Since enjoying damn near <strong>ridiculous</strong> levels of <strong>success, satisfaction and pleasure</strong> with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then don&#8217;t wait another second.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Claim your success, satisfaction, and pleasure</strong></span> with my <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank"><strong>Speed Seduction 3.0® System</strong></a> TODAY, and master your girl-getting game.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank">Claim your copy now!</a></strong></p>
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		<title>Speed Seduction® Axioms</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 18:29:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Thou shalt not waste time texting. Get them on the phone and a meet up ASAP. Thou shalt not over-validate. Thou shalt do as much as possible as soon as you meet them. Thou shalt be &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/speed-seduction-axioms/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Thou shalt not <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/why-txt-msgs-sck-dck/" target="_blank">waste time texting</a>. Get them on the phone and a meet up ASAP.</p>
<p><img class="alignright" title="ca_63290814_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/ca_63290814_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="270" />Thou shalt not <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/get-that-smoking-body-back/" target="_blank">over-validate</a>.</p>
<p>Thou shalt <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/you-hesitate-you-mastur-wait/" target="_blank">do as much as possible</a> as soon as you meet them.</p>
<p>Thou shalt be challenging <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/unexpected-gets-you-more/" target="_blank">and fun</a>; thou shalt not be overly sincere.</p>
<p>Thou shalt not <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/dominance/" target="_blank">hesitate to be sexually forward</a>.</p>
<p>Thou shalt not <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/crushes-crush-your-game/" target="_blank">get excited about a woman</a> as a serious prospect until thou hast jizzed on or in her.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,</p>
<p>RJ</p>
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		<title>The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success (Part 2)</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 11:00:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Yesterday in Part 1, we looked at various aspects of mental training and behavior rehearsal that constitute the first part of Speed Seduction®. So now, let us delve into the second part.  These next Pillars have &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seven-pillars-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Yesterday <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seven-pillars-1/" target="_blank">in Part 1</a>, we looked at various aspects of mental training and behavior rehearsal that constitute the first part of Speed Seduction®.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3648" title="pillars-of-seduction-success-2" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/pillars-of-seduction-success-2.jpg" alt="" width="350" height="233" /></p>
<p>So now, let us delve into the second part.  These next Pillars have to do with mastering some simple introductions to women – having two or three things you can always say in any situation to open women, two or three basic ways to open women in any situation.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>PILLAR #3: Creative Ways To Engage Women</strong></span></p>
<p>Once the mental training is down pat, we begin to develop two or three ways to engage women in a more creative and imaginative way once you do open that first conversation. So just have two or three different ways of doing that.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>PILLAR #4: Ability To Sexualize</strong></span></p>
<p>You can memorize all the patterns in the world &#8211; Discovery Channel, Twin Brothers, Snack Quiz, Blow Job, Boyfriend Destroyer &#8211; but these don&#8217;t amount to a can of beans until you are able to sexualize – to use sexual metaphor, to use her own responses, to use your touch, to use these various Speed Seduction tools to get her hot and horny.  <span id="more-3647"></span></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3649" title="pillars-of-seduction-success-3" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/pillars-of-seduction-success-3.jpg" alt="" width="233" height="350" />PILLAR #5: Escalation</strong></span></p>
<p>At the appropriate time, you must know how, and have the tools, to escalate physically. This works in conunction with&#8230;</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>PILLAR #6: Her Responses</strong></span></p>
<p>With Speed Seduction®, knowing how to deal with women’s autopilot responses effectively and powerfully is critical.  Remember: part of the mastery involves knowing how to calibrate.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>PILLAR #7: Motivation</strong></span></p>
<p>Pulling it all together, you need a really good way of keeping yourself motivated and learning from every situation, learning effectively and powerfully.</p>
<p>Because even though you won&#8217;t instantly and automatically get laid every time, EVERY situation with a woman gives you something you need to succeed with the next ten women.</p>
<p><em><strong>The more you have it made, the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">more you&#8217;ll get laid</span>.</strong></em></p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S. </strong> The tools and techniques you gain when you <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank">claim your instant access to Speed Seduction® 3.0</a></strong> will transform you into a powerful, confident man who gets into the minds, hearts and beds of beautiful women!</p>
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		<title>Signal Recognition Process: An Introduction</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Jan 2012 10:00:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Any sequence of mental thinking that you go through, starts with a flow of energy in the body that kickstarts the thought process.  That&#8217;s the Signal Recognition Process. Click here to learn more: Peace and piece, &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/signal-recognition-process/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Any sequence of mental thinking that you go through, starts with a flow of energy in the body that kickstarts the thought process.  That&#8217;s the <strong>Signal Recognition Process</strong>.</p>
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<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/powerpack/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3634" title="PowerPack100" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/PowerPack100.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>P.S.</strong> This video clip is taken right out of our Fear Into Charisma module, which is one of the three laser-focused, nuts-and-bolts contained inside the Speed Seduction® Power Pack.  <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/powerpack/" target="_blank">Get your copy today!</a></p>
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		<title>Building A Fun / Learning Frame</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Dec 2011 06:42:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Whether you&#8217;re getting back in the game after a long absence, coming off the short end of a real-hate-shun-ship, or just really getting focused on mastering your girl-getting game, the frame you approach with makes all &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/fun-learning-frame/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Whether you&#8217;re getting back in the game after a long absence, coming off the short end of a real-hate-shun-ship, or just really getting focused on mastering your girl-getting game, the frame you approach with makes all the difference.</p>
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<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S.</strong> Are you ready to experience profound personal trance-formation while you learn exactly what it takes to <strong>breakthrough with women</strong> and <strong>get the success you want</strong> and deserve in 2012?  <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seminars" target="_blank">Click here to find out how I can help.</a></p>
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		<title>Free Your Mind, And HER Ass Will Follow</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Time and time I&#8217;ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.  There&#8217;s a reason why I hear it. One (or more) &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/free-your-mind-and-her-ass-will-follow/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Time and time I&#8217;ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who <strong>approach women</strong> with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.  There&#8217;s a reason why I hear it.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3480" title="ca_63290464_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/ca_63290464_180.jpg" alt="" width="166" height="250" />One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other):  a) She&#8217;ll pick up on it and give back non-receptive vibes, b) He&#8217;ll choke and beat a hasty retreat, c) he&#8217;ll find himself in a place where he has to psyche himself up each time he approaches a woman.</p>
<p><em>It gets worse.</em></p>
<p>The now-despondent male will often seek the advice of friends or heed the &#8220;conventional wisdom&#8221; and buy into the beliefs such as &#8220;Just be yourself,&#8221; &#8220;Love will happen as soon as you stop looking for it,&#8221; and (it pains me to say I&#8217;m not making this up) &#8220;You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.&#8221;</p>
<p><em>OK, enough. </em></p>
<p>Please, hear this:  <span id="more-3476"></span></p>
<p>This is why I say there are NO &#8220;answers&#8221; or &#8220;information&#8221; or &#8220;one right way&#8221;. There are only POTENTIAL answers and information that <strong>only become actualized by your testing, experimenting and ACTIONS</strong> in the world.</p>
<p>A huge piece of the puzzle is that guys have a severely restricted and slowed method of learning <strong>what works with women</strong>.</p>
<p>The ratio of worry/thinking to acting is way, way off and the primary method of learning is not experimenting in the world, but thinking about things.</p>
<p>Remember: <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Free your mind, and HER ass will follow.</strong></span></p>
<p>Free your mind means looking deep into the code of how you&#8217;ve been keeping yourself stuck.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-3481" title="ca_63291290_325" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/ca_63291290_325.jpg" alt="" width="325" height="217" /></p>
<p>If the real structure of &#8220;stuck&#8221; is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, then putting MORE or different thinking through that system won&#8217;t give you much change.</p>
<p>And you won&#8217;t get far with just a little pocket change.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
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		<title>How To Approach And Seduce Younger Women</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, A lot of you ask me questions about how to approach younger women and get them interested in you. To begin with: if you are sufficiently intriguing, fascinating, fractionating, etc. she will almost NEVER bring it &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/seduce-younger-women/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>A lot of you ask me questions about <strong>how to approach younger women</strong> and get them interested in you.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3374" title="ca_9831304_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/ca_9831304_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="270" />To begin with: if you are sufficiently intriguing, fascinating, fractionating, etc. she will almost NEVER bring it up if she is the <strong>adventurous, curious, sexually open kind of girl</strong>. (What kind of girl at any age would you want who does NOT have these qualities?)</p>
<p>Part of solving this <strong>younger woman thing</strong> is knowing the type of energies you need to have and communicate with and through. EQUALLY IMPORTANT is the proper selection of the right kind of girl.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">BOTH</span> have to be there and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">you have to be willing to pass</span> on younger women who, although juicy to look at and desirable physically, JUST WON&#8217;T GET IT.</p>
<p>Sorry, but some younger women can NEVER bridge that age gap. You can learn to very quickly spot them, nod your head and move on.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Now all that being said:</span> I again say that age is not an impossible barrier, but age DOES dictate a different INITIAL approach, at least for me. <span id="more-3373"></span></p>
<p>I am far less likely to walk up to a 21 year old and tell her directly I find her attractive. I&#8217;m going to use a comment/observation/question combined with humor.</p>
<p>I WILL be <strong>direct with a younger gal</strong>, but not up front. That just scares crap out of them, in my experience.</p>
<p>Also, GENERALLY SPEAKING, <strong>younger girls require more leading</strong> and have less knowledge of what they like or want.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The larger issue is:</span></strong> what is it that <span style="text-decoration: underline;">YOU</span> are offering to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">ALL</span> women, regardless of age? What is that &#8220;something&#8221; in the way in which you communicate, use your energy, vibe, knowledge of her and her world to <strong>create an irresistible attraction</strong> layered inside a fleeting opportunity that <strong>she MUST reach for NOW</strong> or forever miss out?</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-2771" title="img_Vaultsecrettraining150" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/img_Vaultsecrettraining150.png" alt="" width="124" height="124" /></a>P.S.</strong> You&#8217;ll find a lot more on this topic, including a 10-minute video module chock-full of specific teaching on how to seduce younger women, inside the <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank">Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection</a>.</p>
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