Category Archives: Average Frustrated Chump (AFC)

“I Feel Like I Should Be Much Better With Women”

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student, The other day, someone left this comment on my blog as well as emailing it to me.  I am going to reproduce it here for you to read and quite frankly do nothing other than ask … Continue reading

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So You Don’t Want To Sarge In The Clubs?

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans, Everybody has their own “Sarging zone.” For some guys, it’s the bars and clubs.  Others lay their mack down at the bookstores and coffee shops. I have students who go grocery shopping every day, … Continue reading

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Going The Distance: Do Long-Distance Relationships Work?

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans, Today, the movie Going The Distance opens in theaters. For those who haven’t heard, it’s a “romantic comedy” (yet another attempt by the romance industry to turn smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps or … Continue reading

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“This Dude Is ALWAYS Hanging Around Her…”

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, In past editions of this blog, I’ve delved into how to Sarge when you’re out somewhere without a wingman and you’re trying to “break in” to the circle when everyone else seems to be … Continue reading

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