Category Archives: Average Frustrated Chump (AFC)

Going The Distance: Do Long-Distance Relationships Work?

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans, Today, the movie Going The Distance opens in theaters. For those who haven’t heard, it’s a “romantic comedy” (yet another attempt by the romance industry to turn smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps or … Continue reading

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“This Dude Is ALWAYS Hanging Around Her…”

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, In past editions of this blog, I’ve delved into how to Sarge when you’re out somewhere without a wingman and you’re trying to “break in” to the circle when everyone else seems to be … Continue reading

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Why Women Can Make Men SO ANGRY…

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training, Ever heard the term “woman hater”?  It’s the first thing that comes to mind when I relate this story about a student of mine: The problem: he was prone to use terms like bit*h, sl*t, and … Continue reading

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If You’re A Nice Guy, Are You Finished?

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training, Another so-called “axiom” that I can’t STAND… yet another example of how smart men nonetheless get socially programmed into Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs) is this: “Nice guys finish last.” So, if I’m following this, women claim … Continue reading

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