Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever had it happen where for some reason, you just can’t stop thinking about a particular chick?

Like, you spend hours visioning what your next meeting (or even phone call) will be like, exactly what you’re going to say?

Then, you find yourself agonizing over the right time of day you should call her? Suddenly worried that she might see what you put on your Facebook wall and fretting that she might interpret your status a certain way (that keeps your willy dry)?

Normally I ask, when I get questions like this I ask, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most,

Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman
on the whole freaking planet???

However. in this case I think you realize that she isn’t. It’s just that there’s something inside of you keeping you fixated on this one chick.

First, you’re probably placing too much importance on this one chick. Have you f@@ked her yet? (It’s a yes or no question; either your Junior Explorer has explored her woman cave, or it hasn’t.)

Next, define “importance”. Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect with.

A lot of times guys find their “stuckness” can be exacerbated by being confused by that woman’s emotional 180s, fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other deeply frustrating and seemingly (to you) irrational actions. Sound familiar?

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. RIGHT NOW is the time to leave all that behind, to get “unstuck,” and instead gain a comprehensive understanding of women that helps you put it all perspective.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

What’s worse than being in that “not so sweet spot” where you’ve met a woman, and you don’t know what to say to her? There she is – right in front of you, this incredibly sexy hot babe who, up until now, you never in a million years DREAMED would be sitting right next to you, hanging on every word you say. Yet…

… you can’t find the friggin’ words!

Rather than dazzling her with smooth banter, you’re internally going berserk while hoping she doesn’t notice the 24-pound giant cat that has sunk his claws into your tongue and stretched it all the way to the floor like a flaccid fruit roll-up.

Later the “right words” will come to you, all right. While you’re back at your place, alone, imagining what it would have been like to score with her.

Well, all that’s about to change. Effective immediately, I hereby declare a “State of Sarge” because it’s time to …

… Get Into The State For Conversating, So You Don’t End Up M*****bating!

Many guys find they don’t have a lot to say when she’s right there, because he’s “been there” before. Say the wrong thing, or even say the right thing but with the wrong pitch, and she’ll drop you faster and harder than an 18-pound bowling ball comes crashing when dropped off an 18-story building.

When you find yourself internally whining to yourself about girls who “shot you down” on the playground in third grade, you’re not going to be in the state of Sarge that gets you to home base with the woman who’s here, right now.

Instead, close your eyes, relax, and alter the “shot down” state you’re in. Visualize the results you’ll be getting when having the right conversations with women. Focus on how you WANT things to be and the way you WANT things to go, and the chances are you’ll get there a hell of a lot faster.

Have you recently had a Sarge that went horribly wrong? Does it seem like your overall “batting average” with the ladies is in a slump? Do you find yourself so wrapped up in what went wrong, that you can’t vision things going right?

When you find yourself reflecting on “Sarges gone bad,” I challenge you to focus on what went RIGHT. Then, release any worry or angst about the “dumb things you said or did” and the moment when she gave you a dirty look and walked out on you. Because now, it doesn’t matter.

Stay focused on where you WANT to go (that being, back to your place for a night or weekend of “screaming with ecstasy ’till the neighbors call the cops, mind-blowing” sex)… and with that vision as your guiding force, you’ll get there faster.

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

OK, so it’s time to hit the town… but you’re sitting home alone.

Maybe all your pals are married or in committed relationships (or perhaps “real-hate-shun-ships by default”) so you don’t have a wingman to help you approach the “b#%ch-packs.”

Could be you have no one to go out with (did you actually try asking people, or are you ASSUMING everyone’s busy or not interested?) and you feel awkward going out alone. Maybe you’re out of town and it feels weird going out alone.

Any way you look at it, you’re not out there meeting women. Instead you’re doing something else, involving a word that sounds like “meet.”

The (Likely) Real Reason You’re With Rosie And Her Sisters Tonight
Instead Of Making Out With Dazzling, Delicious Debbie

Perhaps you’re tried Sarging on some hotties, but having gotten the brush-off more often than you expected, you’re coming up with any dang ol’ excuse to stay planted on your Seduction a$% instead of taking to the field.

The easiest one is “I hate going out alone.” Well, join me as I show you …

… Three Surefire Places To Find And Flirt With Fine Women,
Without A Wingman Or A Pu#$y-Pulling Posse

Here are three places you can start looking, right now:\

• Street / store sarging. The best places to meet women are not “meat markets.” Get into the Sarging zone by talking to everybody. Before you know it, approaching a hot woman, anytime, anywhere, will be just a day in your life, not an “event” that you prepare for.
• Organized Social Events. What do wine tastings, dance classes, cocktail parties, party cruises, and networking events all have in common? Lots of hot, exciting women. You already have an “if all else fails” ice-breaker because you know you have at least ONE thing in common.
• Plan Your Flight, Hotel… And Sarging Zone. If you’re going to be out of town, do some advance research before you travel so you know the hot spots to hit while you’re in a new town. Are there organized social events in that town that strike your fancy? Get on Google and let your fingers do the walking. You’ll find something.

  Let me do the math for you… New City + New Women = New Adventures.

Get good at mixing it up and talking to everybody when your friends aren’t around. Then, when you meet cute, available women, your social wheels will already be turning and you’ll be the master of your girl-getting game.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A crush, according to Dictionary.com is “an intense but usually short-lived infatuation.”

Almost every guy has had one. Maybe it’s on a woman he just knows a little, here and there. Maybe she’s a co-worker. Could be she’s that amazingly hot bartender who works at the happy-hour joint every Thursday night and is sometimes flirtatious toward him.

Maybe he’s gone out with her a few times and has had fun hanging out with her so far. Or, she’s someone he walked up to and Sarged on, found she was open to who he is and what he gives to the world, and took a high-speed ride on the carnal carousel.

No matter what, he’s got her on the brain. All the time.

He thinks about her constantly… creates scenarios in his mind of how his next interaction with her will be so he “gets it right.” Constant, relentless, thoughts of her will keep him from being productive at work and unable to enjoy hobbies and interests, or even hanging out with his pals.

Here’s a note from a student who reports he’s “got it bad” for a chick:

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Too often, though I know logically it makes no sense, I find myself falling into the trap where I place too much importance on one particular woman. Like, I get a crush on her and it make me unable to think or focus on anything else.

What are some ways I can moderate myself when my interest in a particular woman causes me to become uselessly intense about that woman. Are there specific methods to help gain perspective when I find myself becoming too hot and heavy about someone, as I find myself now doing?

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First of all, define “importance.” Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect in, and it can be confusing.

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Next time you feel the pangs of your crush on a woman, answer the question of what her actual “importance” is to you. It’s the first (and critical) step toward busting free of the vice-like grip of your crushes on women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Within the 3 DVDs and 3 CDs of my powerful Nail Your Inner Game System, you learn techniques to quiet and clear your mind, for maximum learning and empowered perception without the “static” of misdirected “importance.” That, and so much more.

Claim your copy – and your emancipation from “crushes” – today!