Category Archives: being nervous

When You’re Feeling Anxious And Nervous

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, If you experience those butterflies-in-the-stomach when you’re about to make some approach or move toward a woman, you’re not alone.  You’re anxious and nervous about what comes next. Maybe it’s the worry of how she’ll take … Continue reading

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Has Forbidden Fruit Become Low-Hanging Fruit?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, A student of mine recently shared an interesting problem he’s been having with picking up women. During his AFC days he frequently faced rejection by women who outright said, in various words, that they’d never condescend … Continue reading

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A Peck On The Cheek Is Not A Win – It’s A Sargy Sin!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, The other day, I shared with you the story of the student who decided to implement a “friends first” policy in his girl-getting game.  I can think of a few F-words that go along with this … Continue reading

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Is Your Fear Of Falling In Love Stopping Your Sarge?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Let’s talk about a fear of something that many might consider a tad ironic. What happens when you do such a great job of mastering your girl-getting game, that you find yourself with a woman who … Continue reading

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