Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever heard of a magnificient palace – or even a shack – that stood erect on a flexible foundation?

Didn’t think so.

Mastering your girl-getting game is not one iota different.

Achieving ultimate success with the women you truly desire is like living in a magnificent Palace of Poon, its vast, sumptuous chambers replete with vaginal victory.

To support such a palace, we need a firm foundation.

This foundation is formed by…

…The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success

PILLAR #1: Mental Training

First and foremost, we need to be able to do some mental training.  This requires witness consciousness – the ability to notice our patterns of thinking, feeling, and interpreting the world as they’re arising gently, before they arise with so much momentum and force that they drag us back down the learning curve into our old ways of doing things.

I can assure you, when you go to any area of life that has a lot of repetition and a lot of emotional charge to it, the old stuff will come back. Having this skillset where you see these old patterns arising before they have enough momentum to block you, drive your behavior, and distort your perception is profoundly powerful. That’s the first part of the mental training.

PILLAR #2: Rehearsing New Behaviors

This includes tapping into your intuition and being able to do rituals like the magickal self ritual, where you take on the four vibes that attract women using affirmations and your language in the right way.  We call this creative consciousness.

These first two Pillars constitute a powerful part of the mental training. So, the mental training can be considered the first part of Speed Seduction®.

Now, meet me back here tomorrow when we reveal the rest of the Pillars.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Recently on this blog, I touched on the idea that some guys seem to be able to get any woman, any time, without even trying.  Using the example of the gentleman who seemed to be able to seduce a woman by just touching her hip, I pointed out that there’s more to the story.

Without knowing this, however, it makes sense that some guys wonder: is it possible to be succesful with women like the so called “naturals” – meaning without using embedded commands, anchors, etc. etc.?

By natural, I mean: a man who is not always consciously aware of what he is doing to attract and seduce women.

Here’s a thought / teaching point for you:

“Naturals” don’t fight themselves or second guess what they want to do or have done.  ZERO internal struggle.

Every “natural” I’ve known or modeled never, ever worries about the results once they’ve taken action.

They don’t wonder, “What if this doesn’t work?”

Or “Maybe I should have said something else.”

Or “I probably shoudn’t have walked away”.

They also don’t fight themselves in the moment. That means that when they want to talk to a woman there isn’t another part of their mind pulling in the other direction saying “Wait! Don’t! She probably has a boyfriend.” Or “Wait til you think of the right thing to say!”

A natural may not even be “confident” in the traditional sense of knowing he’s going to get the girl. But he IS confident in the sense of having zero internal struggle. When he moves, he moves with both feet instead of one foot staying stuck.

This is important whether or not you are consciously doing patterns, commands, and anchors.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Some people are loners who for reasons of their own, can’t or won’t let anyone in their lives.  They feel better without anyone around.

Some people choose the “single life” as a proactive choice for how they go through life.  There’s a whole movement around this.

And some people feel they can’t be happy if they don’t have someone in their life.  Sometimes they enter or put up with real-hate-shun-ships by default rather than be single.

A student of mine reported the following:

> I cant seem to be happy on my own, theres always a part of me thats a little lonely and a little upset all the time. When I have success with a girl the feeling is replaced with joy, but when i screw up and things don’t work out it really gets to me.

RJ here again.  Look at how you are languaging it. 

If you had a dear friend, who was having trouble with women, would you allow HIM to keep repeating to HIMSELF, “I can’t seem to be happy on my own.”

How many times have you fed your mind that suggestion?

If you mind accepts that suggestion, on a deep level, what do you think will happen to your attempts to be happy on your own?

You need to un-tangle these two things:

“I feel lonely” and “I can’t seem to be happy on my own”

One of them is true, sometimes. The other one is a belief that you are adding power to every time you say it. It’s actually making the problem more acute, not worse.

Look: every human has a need for human company and connection. It’s totally ok to have that need/desire/want DIRECT your behavior.

The problem is when that need/desire/want gets tied in with self-programming commands like, “I can’t seem to be happy on my own”.

So how could you go about separating the raw feelings of loneliness from the story you are attaching to it?

Hmmmm…

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.  There’s a reason why I hear it.

One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other):  a) She’ll pick up on it and give back non-receptive vibes, b) He’ll choke and beat a hasty retreat, c) he’ll find himself in a place where he has to psyche himself up each time he approaches a woman.

It gets worse.

The now-despondent male will often seek the advice of friends or heed the “conventional wisdom” and buy into the beliefs such as “Just be yourself,” “Love will happen as soon as you stop looking for it,” and (it pains me to say I’m not making this up) “You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.”

OK, enough. 

Please, hear this: 

This is why I say there are NO “answers” or “information” or “one right way”. There are only POTENTIAL answers and information that only become actualized by your testing, experimenting and ACTIONS in the world.

A huge piece of the puzzle is that guys have a severely restricted and slowed method of learning what works with women.

The ratio of worry/thinking to acting is way, way off and the primary method of learning is not experimenting in the world, but thinking about things.

Remember: Free your mind, and HER ass will follow.

Free your mind means looking deep into the code of how you’ve been keeping yourself stuck.

If the real structure of “stuck” is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, then putting MORE or different thinking through that system won’t give you much change.

And you won’t get far with just a little pocket change.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

More than once I’ve heard from students who have been learning the skills, gaining knowledge of the techniques, but yet, they’re still not moving forward with women like they want to be.

They get pumped up about going out and Sarging, yet somehow nightfall comes and each flip of the TV remote brings up another hourlong excuse to say “Let me just catch this one last episode, and then it’s up and at ‘em!”

Before you know it, you may be “up and at ‘em” but everyone else has gone home.

“Shucks…maybe next weekend.”

If your a$$ feels like a giant magnetic field inexorably held onto your couch while you find every non-excuse possible to avoid going out and getting some a$$, read this:

1) First, bear in mind that learning skills can be a matter of breaking the task down into smaller pieces.

So why not just break the task down into seeing if you can approach ten women and the only goal is to make them laugh? You don’t even have to introduce yourself. Just make them laugh and walk away.

Try this, “Excuse me… but I was just wondering what you are doing to keep the guys away… cuz it’s not working on me. My name is Charles.”

Then walk away. That simple.

2) When you talk to yourself about it, acknowledge and them take ownership.

Like this, “I feel stuck and I claim my ownership and management of this stuckness to the point where I find my ways to get moving and enjoy getting moving.”

3) Give yourself a larger penalty for not acting than acting.

Think of an organization you hate. Like Greenpeace or PETA or the NRA or the Republican or Democratic Party.  Whatever DOESN’T float your boat.  I personally hate televangelists, so I’d make out a $1,000 check to Geronimo Goo-Gargle Ministries. Give the check, dated 10 days from today to a trusted friend. Tell him if you can’t return to him within 10 days, and honestly tell him that you’ve spoken to 10 women, he’s to mail it to the cause you hate.

This way your mind will say, “Ok, there is no totally 100% pain free solution, but the pain I’ll get from not acting is far worse than acting, so I’ll act!”

This takes advantage of the fact that our mind uses comparison. Compared to a guaranteed way to be 100% comfortable and 100% certain you’ll succeed easily with every approach, the pain of approaching women might seem like a lot (until you claim your ownership and management). But compared to sending $1000 to an asshole like Rev. Goo-Gargle, the pain is NOTHING.

A better way to watch TV on Saturday night…AFTER sharing
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These are just some ways to get yourself moving.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Oh yes, here is one more. Try going out of town to another city where no one knows you and do your practicing there for a weekend.  Let me know how this helps.

P.P.S. If you are still stuck, check out my Nail Your Inner Game system, designed for situations exactly like this.

I care what happens. Once you get moving, you’ll breakthrough fast.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here is a screen shot of a testimonial I just got:

Just in case it isn’t clear enough I am also copying the text for you right here…

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Hey, the name’s Melvin Cedeno. And I’ve been studying seduction for a few years, and I’ve read practically every other book in the community and all that. I can honestly say your Unstoppable Confidence course did more for me than everything else combined. I’m from Manchester, New Hampshire in the united states, and it’s a tiny city. I wasn’t 21 so going to bars to meet women didn’t work but we did have some of the top party colleges in the country so we went to those instead.

You helped get my mentality to the practical place it needed to be every night I went out. You became a part of my rituals, my Anthony Robbins for the ladies, and just helped me feel ok with being the best possible choice any woman could make.

I’m currently with my dream girl and before her I slept with 9 woman thanks to your advice. And you haven’t just helped me, I pass on your wisdom to my close friends and I can tell you if you combine all our scores it would tally up to well over 40. I hope this wasn’t too long, I could go on forever.

Thanks again Ross, you truly changed a life here for the better.

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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