Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Many of you have heard me explain the concept of using language and patterns to seduce women, all the while making it seemingly a perfectly ordinary conversation.

Watch this video where I give you a specific question you can ask that helps you seduce her, using your curiosity:

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  The video clip you just watched is ripped straight out of the Speed Seduction® Total Immersion 2011 Seminar Footage Collection which becomes available tomorrow (Friday, August 12, 2011) at 12:00 Noon Pacific.  We’ll announce it to everyone who’s on our mailing list.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As I’ve said before, on more than one occasion in fact, one of the lessons I teach is that you use the information, vibe, and feedback a woman gives you to craft your patterning and banter to connect YOU with her erotic desires, wants and needs.

Part of what gets you this information is your ability to be observant and be curious.

Now, note I said BE curious. Not SEEM curious. This student understands the distinction but is still struggling:

> I understand how to SEEM curious, I want to BE curious. I find that 9 out of 10 times when speaking to people (not just women) I couldn’t care less about what they are saying even though I do care about them as a person. My mind starts to go into overdrive thinking about everything else I have going on in life. I find this isn’t helpful at work, with family, friends or SS. I think people can definately see this when talking with them.

Ok: here’s some food for thought…

For me, curiosity is about wanting to know how things REALLY work, beneath the surface appearance. It’s about looking for the large rules, controlling principles, hidden dynamics in ALL of life.

You can’t easily get curious only about women. Get curious about EVERYTHING.

Get curious about the inner processes that drive people that they themselves aren’t even aware of.

I think you’ll find you’ll see a whole ‘nother picture and have a much different (stronger) level of clarity that will boost your success with women, not to mention other areas where your current reality falls short of the potential you know you have.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

More than once, I’ve heard from men who were scared to use my patterns for getting women irresistibly aroused (i.e. “And as you sit there looking at me, thinking about what I’m saying, you can remember what it felt like…”)

There are a number of reasons – fear of “getting caught”, worry about her laughing so hard her drink comes out her nose and the mood is ruined, concern she might think “he’s trying to get me in bed, no dice fella”.  Other reasons too.

Here’s what’s important: just because you fear doing it, doesn’t mean it won’t work.

And, if you really tune in with clarity, it isn’t fear that stops you.

It is the internal sense of suffering that is produced when two conflicting desires – the desire to say it and the desire to keep your mouth shut – bump up against each other and create tremendous internal noise and friction.

You are going to have to let go of your need for certainty and guarantees BEFORE you open your mouth or I GUARANTEE you will never make any progress AND never know what works.

“You must let go of the NEED to know.”

Nothing wrong with PREFERRING to know.

But it’s only a preference.

And if any individual woman laughs at you or asks why you are talking funny, your world won’t shake apart. Even if wave after wave of humiliation should wash over you, don’t resist it or tighten up or turn away. Relax into it and it just turns into energy.

But she may just jump your bones and beg to be fucked.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Has a woman ever pulled “The Great Disappearing Act” on you?

It goes something like this.  A woman you meet appears highly interested.  You spend time together, then there are e-mails, phone calls, texts, and then perhaps you meet again.

But then, all of a sudden, it’s like she no longer exists.

When you call, her phone rings but it always goes to voicemail.  She never calls back (yes, pal, YOUR voicemail is working, you can stop calling your phone company to ask, she hasn’t left you one lately).  The e-mails you send her aren’t bouncing back, but you’re not getting replies either.  (She’s not in your spam or junk mail either.)  Those places where you used to see her?  Not there either.  Without a trace.

So what happened?

Sometimes it might leave you wondering if you said or did something (came on too strong, didn’t come on strong enough, said/did something that overwhelmed her) that scared her off.

There could be MANY reasons for her (sudden lack of) behavior, other than her having caught a borefriend…or a bad cold (same difference).  Consider the following…

Hint: how much of your attractiveness is based on your belief that you have to demonstrate these super-powers of deep understanding?

Hint: there are FOUR attractive vibes. What proportions are you mixing?

Hint: if you had incredible sexual confidence, how would what you are doing change? Not just in terms of behavior, but also, in addition to that, with your vibe?

Hint: are you being at all physically forward? At what point do you seek to test for physical openness and readiness?

Hint: do you think that you need the woman to make the first move? (Meaning, she got tired of you waiting on her and just “Exit, Stage Left”-ed YOU.)  Do you think you require an engraved invitation from these girls before YOU make a move?

Hint: How is touching and being physical intergrated into your Sarging from the very beginning – as opposed to being something you only do when you are ready to “close”?

Ok, think about these items as they might “hint” you in the right direction.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Let’s get into that age-old saying “Nice guys finish in their hand.”

Is it true?  How often has the phrase been spoken: “I would treat her like royalty, why does she keep going back to that jerk after how he treats her?”

After a while, some guys get jaded and think, “hey, if being a jerk is going to get me the girl, then I’m going to start being a jerk.”

A student of mine asked a provocative question: can he use the skills in such a way where he would be “hard” on her at first (which is what she expects from men) and then slowly change her comfort zone to reach for good feelings, open up her heart, and blow her mind?

Briefly, because this is territory fraught with pitfalls:

First, foremost, UPPERMOST, MOST importantly:

DETACH from the outcome. “I like this young lady, but then again, I like a lot of people, and I have to detach from the outcome; turn down my desire to bang her, make a difference, etc. It is basically an experiment, take it or leave it. I am not attached, but nor am I disinterested.”

Second, and this is key: it is NOT enough to give a person a new/better/more pleasurable experience, because THEY WILL NOT KNOW HOW TO INTEGRATE IT.

So, be careful to ALWAYS, when you demonstrate something to her, to have her VERBALLY ratify that she has enjoyed it and have her VERBALLY ask for more.

Why is this seemingly (SEEMINGLY) inane bit of dialogue SO important?

By ratifying..by SPEAKING out loud how much she is enjoying it, sometimes measuring on a 1-10 scale, by having her RATIFY it and SPEAK that she likes it…

…SHE IS MAKING IT REAL FOR HER!

Not just a passing experience, but something REAL.

By having her ratify… what is accomplished?

She is reaching for more of what you have. Naturally, her conclusion is, it MUST be something of value, since she has to reach for it to get it!

I’ll say it again. SHE CONCLUDES IT MUST BE SOMETHING OF GREAT VALUE SINCE… SHE HAS TO REACH FOR IT TO GET IT!

Have you ever noticed you seem to want the things you can’t immediately have?  That you spend lots of energy working for it, if you really want it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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