Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

P.S. I am seriously contemplating designing an on line program dedicated to the topic of different ways to quickly sexualize your interactions with wonen: verbal, vibe and touch.  What say ye to this?  It would probably run about 5-7 video modules, plus, when I create it, some live video broadcasts with Q and A. Maybe sell it for $97.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine shared with me a situation he was in with an HB9 he was Sarging.  He found she had many qualities that appealed to him.  The “diamond in the rough”, the “needle in the haystack.”

One thing:  she had a ‘borefriend’ and, so she claimed, she had never been “in love.”

His initial approach was to explore with her the values she needs to see in herself in order to be in love, and among these she listed “vulnerability.”

Now, one of the mistakes in his thinking was he was going to try to give her an experience she never had before…being in love…in order to get her away from her current “borefriend”.

I asked him…

What if he just had to be a bit more tempting… a bit more exciting… a bit more tasty… a bit more aggressive than her borefriend?

I took an approach counter-intuitive to what my student was thinking… and that is, first focus on turning her on, opening her to a place where she could have feelings and responses she’d never had before.

Thing is, “vulnerability” is not an end value. VULNERABILITY is only valuable in that it would allow her to experience emotions and BODY FEELINGS she wasn’t having with her borefriend.

She THOUGHT she had to have that experience in the context of being “in love” and in going along, my student was buying into HER limit.

Bad thing.

Instead, I suggested he say this… “If you could imagine being totally vulnerable to this person… because for whatever reasons you knew that this person had all the qualities that let you FEEL THAT WAY…  what do you imagine being vulnerable would allow you to experience and feel… that you know you’ve always wanted?”

And once he said that, to be ready to anchor the responses and feed back her words.

So, let’s say she would reply, “Swept away… enraptured… totally taken and out of my own self”.

My student would need to be sure he anchored this… do something… tap on a packet of sugar or on the table with the intent he was anchoring the state.

Then say to her, “Wow… so if you could have THESE feelings… where do you imagine you’d first recognize on the inside… what is the first signal on the inside that would let you know… these feelings of swept away… enraptured… totally taken…are even now… beginning to flow through you?”

Get what I told him?

You want to be able to produce the feelings, anchor them and not get caught up in HER limited view that she has to be in love first.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. One of the things I’m teaching in the “Hyper-Response” model of Speed Seduction® is that 80% of the seduction is going to be powered by the information and responses SHE gives you.  To learn more and delve deeper, click here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

An interesting thing, this.

Through the media, the “romance industry” tries to create an “ideal” for how guys should look, act, and be in order to “fall in love” and “find their soul mate.”  To summarize: it atttempts to “program” us into resorting to the “5 Bs” (bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze… and biceps… alright, someday I’ll start calling it the 6 Bs.)

But then this same media shows you examples of guys who are not all that bright, not all that good looking and with “issues”, and really just plain, who successfully use the same techniques that got Finch his show-stopping home runs with Stiffler’s Mom.

Okay: today we’re going to talk about real life.

What would it be like when instead of jumping through hoops, playing the waiting game (eh, I mean dating game – but same thing), and having to agonizingly process every step until she “lets you” in… your girl-getting experience looked a little more like this:

• You effortlessly approach a “bitch pack”, without a wingman or even a specific plan, and not only have them all hanging on your every word, but the choicest of these choice females finds herself irresistibly drawn to you so much that even if her friends were to try to cock-block you, it wouldn’t work;
• Instead of your credit card getting all the action (from floating all those lavish dinners, ski trips, expensive show tickets, and other forms of bribery), YOU were getting all the action, in many cases without spending a blessed penny;
• While those other guys at the party are showing off trying to “impress” the ladies, you’re huddled in a quiet spot, and soon will be heading out with, the very chick these other guys will later say at the after-party (where likely no women will be present) “dude…that one chick…in that red dress…man, I would have NAILED her!” While YOU are nailing her back at her place.

And most of all:

• Women who, until recently, would have had it with you at “hello” because on first sight you didn’t meet their “ideal man” criteria, are now saying “You’re not the kind of man I’m used to…. I don’t even know why I like you… but I really, really do!”

You think you could “like” that?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. How about if you had the ability to not only powerfully get the women you really want, but also take many of those same skills and apply them to everything else you do – work, business, sports, friendships, family – and have other people wondering why they’re THRILLED to do your bidding, even though they’re not quite sure why?  Click here to learn more about this.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Let me address the naysayers.  As some of you pointed out, by e-mailing or commenting the various student questions I’ve shared in this week’s “mail bag” series, the answers would SEEM simple.

I won’t quote a specific e-mail here, in this (the last installment of the “mail bag” series for now) because I’ve gotten a handful over the course of the year that say substantially the same thing – someone actually tried to call bullshit on me.  Yeah.  Really.

Now, in some of the cases we’ve studied this past week, there are a couple different ways the situation could have gone (like with the chick who told my student after-the-fact that she has a boyfriend).  But for seasoned, experienced students, the answers seemed, to some of you, almost Captain Obvious.  Yeah, I get that, except…

…There Are Some Additional Ingredients (Literally) Causing A Volatile Brew In Men’s Brains Right Now

Look: here in the States, a lot of energy is spent debating whether marijuana should be legalized.  FORGET Mary Jane for a minute… and let’s discuss the impact of consuming Debbie’s pu@@y, which is a much more potent and mind-altering substance than the grass-like stuff they also use to make paper, rope, and shirts.

Here is just a PARTIAL list of the chemicals that various scientific research studies show get released in your brain every time your ride in the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle reaches its destination: adrenaline (aka epinephrine), dopamine, endorphins, testosterone, oxytocin, serotonin, prolactin, norepinephrine, vasopressin, phenylethylamine, and the list goes on.  (Plus, don’t forget the impact of your ego when the hottest chick you’ve ever nailed tells you “wow, I’ve never actually SQUIRTED before…” as you hope you remembered to pick up the other set of bedsheets from the laundromat.)

These releases do everything from make you want to take a nap right after you finish, to causing a flare-up of Oneitis, and everything in between.  Over time they lead to the eventual transition in relationships where the passion seems to die off even while fondness and long-term attachment grows.

These are also the reasons why you’ll often find that “Exit, Stage Left” is suddenly easier-said-than-done even though it’s “obvious” you need to move on, and “intellectually” you GET it but you can’t seem to DO it.  When your friends starting singing in-chorus that “you can do a lot better than that tramp”, look to your brain for the reasons why you aren’t heeding their advice.

By the way, same thing when you wrestle with Jimmy while thinking about a chick you haven’t had sex with yet.  The chemicals still flow through your brain at the “peak” of your thoughts even though she’s not actually there, and now it’s associated with her every time you think about her or see her.  This leads to Oneitis, which more often than not leads to celibacy.

It’s also the reason why you find yourself highly attracted to women you see in real life who remind you of your favorite porn star (and why you like porn featuring chicks who look like women you really enjoyed f@@king, or want to f@@k but haven’t yet).

Pu@@y needs to be recognized as a controlled substance, I tell you. But even if it was, if getting some was wrong, I wouldn’t want to be right.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Now you know: part of why you might not always use your UPPER head when it comes to women is…due to what’s going on in your brain.  As a logical person who seeks the best life has to offer, doesn’t it make sense to acquire a greater understanding of women’s operating systems and “what’s going on” so you know the playing field and can score more? Click here to take the first step, right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Whenever I hear someone is in a relationship, my first question: is it a relationship, or a real-hate-shun-ship by default?

Before we go any further, let me be clear: if you’ve found that special someone, and it’s truly right for both of you, GOOD ON YOU!

However, about 50% of all marriages are doomed to divorce.  They say it’s because “values are changing” or “people don’t respect the sanctity of marriage anymore”, etc.  Whatever.

No. NOT true.

Why do guys stay in “real-hate-shun-ships by default?”

Here are some of the stunning reasons I’ve heard over the years, often from guys who otherwise seem to have life handled:

• “It’s cheaper to keep her.”  (He fears having to pay up in a divorce settlement, so he endures a living hell and possibly finding the REAL woman of his dreams, simply to avoid writing a check which might be his ticket to lifetime happiness.)
• “She was my high school sweetheart, and our families have been friends for generations.  It would upset a lot of people if we broke up.” (So, WHO ARE YOU MARRIED TO, pal???)
• “We stay together for the kids.” (Yeah, the kids who live in a miserable home because your real-hate-shun-ship ain’t workin’.  Kids DO see what’s going on.)
• “I was taught: you’re supposed to be married by the time you’re 30, and you have a responsibility to provide grandchildren for your parents.” (So, everyone in your family has ALWAYS been HAPPY and has made PRODUCTIVE CONTRIBUTIONS?)
• “Man, I’ve never had a girl as fine as she is.  And hey, nothing’s perfect.  I can deal with her spazzing out on me because I probably won’t find one THIS hot ever again.” (Correction: I calculate there are 34,000 women at least as hot as she is.)
• “Happiness is what they put in the movies.  This is REAL LIFE, Ross, not some fairy tale.  I don’t play games.” (No XBox for you, huh?)

Let me add: Speed Seduction® ain’t just about getting laid.  Want a girlfriend?  Looking for a wife?  Great!  Then use my teachings to cut through the bull***t “dating rituals” and “social programming” and you’re MORE LIKELY to find a life partner who will satisfy you in every way.  In fact, my teachings also help guys who are married and in relationships keep the “spark” burning hot.

Look: it’s your life.  You deserve the opportunity to create the results and the happiness with the women you truly desire.  Are you living a life of fulfillment, or a life by default?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Are you fed up having to settle for low quality, average women, or worse – being alone?  Well, if you CHOOSE to live a life by default, it really is your fault.  Because you don’t have to.  Click here for a solution that skips over the nonsense and gets you the women you REALLY want.

Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,

Society has taught us that we need certain things, such as status, looks, and money, to be considered “attractive”.  But who really benefits when we believe this?

Click the Play button to watch this video, then leave a comment to tell me what you think…

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. In Speed Seduction® 3.0, I’ll show you how to to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure, whether or not “society” says you are “attractive.”

CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Speed Seduction® is the system, the strategy, and the skillset that gets smart guys like you more success with the women you truly desire. And it’s not just for those who are looking to get laid, either.

When you are looking to get laid and have lots of hot, sizzling action with incredibly sexy women, Speed Seduction® gives you the the tools to get her irresistibly aroused so you get what you want, faster, and more often. (Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better… NOW!)

If you’re looking to find a girlfriend or life partner, Speed Seduction® cuts through the “dating game” so you get there faster (life’s too short for bulls#&$ games, pal) by quickly identifying and succeeding with the women (and ultimately the one woman) who is most compatible with who you are and what you give to the world.

Does Speed Seduction® work for married couples too? This student is asking…

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I am having a hard time having sex. With my wife. I’ve been married for a while, we have kids and are busy raising a family. We used to f@@K like crazy when we first got married, but with time, things have cooled off a little.

I want to have the crazy wild sex with her again like we used to have… before one of your students gets to her and has sex with her that is! How can you help me?

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A few things to keep in mind. (This is for everyone, not just you guys who are married or in committed relationships.)

First of all, attraction, romance, and love don’t “just happen.” People don’t just “magically” find their “soulmate” and live happily ever after. If you believe this, stop watching sappy romantic movies and get your a@% out in the field Sarging on real, live women. NOW, before it’s too late.

Mutual attraction, chemistry, and “romance” are generated by the interactions between people and the way they react to sensory inputs. A Seduction master uses the vibe and feedback that women give him to tap into her psyche and guide her responses toward the results he wants.

Second, people change. In the years you’ve been married, since the kids have been born and are now growing, things have changed. You’ve changed. She’s changed. She’s not the same girl you married – even if she’s just as hot (or even hotter) than she was the day you first created attraction with her. Believe it.

View the changes (in you, in your wife, in the world, in your lives) not as a challenge or a detriment, but as an opportunity. A chance to do something new… explore exciting new avenues of carnal pleasure. Approach her (and your sex life) from angles you’ve never tried before.

The results will sure beat a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Better yet, what if you could have HER do most of the work to get there?

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