Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

It’s New Years’ Eve and I’m reading all this stuff about the “resolutions” people are making – lose weight, get a new job, go back to school and get that MBA, start saving more money, plan that magic cruise, whatever.

You know what?

“New Years’ Resolutions”
are bull*#%t.

Look: what are you accomplishing by waiting until an arbitrary date on the calendar to begin taking the actions necessary to claim your skills, results, and future?

Say you want to meet more women. So you wait until Friday, January 1 and from that date set a firm resolution that you’re going to start approaching a lot more women and upping your girl-getting game.

What makes New Years’ Day somehow so magical and special that actions taken that day will be so much more impactful? Consider that in many places in the world, where they use a different calendar than ours, tomorrow isn’t even New Years for crying out loud.

Question: what is the difference between two weeks ago (December 17) and right now?

Answer: Two weeks. 336 hours.

… 20,160 minutes.

That’s right – 20,160 minutes you COULD have already been spending taking the necessary actions to get the women you truly desire. Since we’re in this world for a finite amount of time, that’s 20,160 minutes that COULD have been filled with orgasmic joy.

You will NEVER get back those WASTED 20,160 minutes.

Unlike in the movies, you don’t get to go back in time for a “do-over” if you waste time. Those 20,000+ minutes are gone, pal… GONE… along with all the results you COULD have had if you weren’t waiting around twittling your thumbs (or having your thumbs up your a$@) for New Years’ to get here before taking charge of your world.

All of this is a BIG part of the purpose behind Speed Seduction®, not to mention the core of my beliefs when it comes to getting the women.

First of all, Speed Seduction® gets smart guys like you the women you really want without resorting to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze.

But it goes WAY beyond that. It gives you the mindset as well as the tools, techniques, and strategies to pick up on the “vibe” that a woman sends you and use it to reach her right where she lives. So, instead of the “dating rituals” that really amount to no more than lame-a$$ excuses to “wait” rather than claim your results today, you quickly find out:

• Which women are receptive to who you are and what you give the world and are more likely to go on a carnal carousel ride with you (so you spend your Sarging energy on them), versus
• The women who will flirt and tease and string you along but will never actually join you for this ride (so you can quickly “Exit, Stage Left”) and move on to more promising opportunities

When you go through life with the mindset and skills that help you screen the best candidates for your love shack, you will experience more success with women – more flirtations, more make-out sessions, more “dates” (if you must), more nights (and mornings, and afternoons) of steaming hot, no-holds-barred sexual passion with the hottest women you encounter – precisely because your energy and efforts are focused in the right places.

And, if you haven’t made the “resolution” to start your journey toward more success with women, do it NOW. Don’t wait until tomorrow just because tomorrow is New Years’ Day.

You know what tomorrow is? One day… 24 hours…and 1,440 minutes away. Getting laid takes less than 1,400 minutes. For some people, it takes less than two minutes… so what’s taken YOU so long?

The women are waiting – what are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece, and much more, not next year but RIGHT NOW,

- RJ

P.S. When you master the principles in my Nail Your Inner Game System, you walk like a giant where other people fear to step!

It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “It’s my New Years’ Resolution so I’ll start then” crap – and get moving right now in the PRESENT with the success you’ve always wanted!

Claim yours today!

Learn EVEN MORE Of My Best Seduction Secrets With Me Live, In Person, On Sunday, November 22!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries” event that we held on October 25 was such a smashing success that we’re ABSOLUTELY doing it again.

So join me on Sunday, November 22, 2009 from 1:00 PM to 5:00 PM Pacific. Details below.

If you attended on October 25, you’re absolutely invited, welcomed, and encouraged to attend the next event too. Because the content is driven by student questions and will contain breakthroughs and fresh girl-getting material that I develop on an ongoing basis, it will be different content each time and well worth the investment.

For about the cost of dinner for two, I will work with you, in person, to learn how to apply Speed Seduction® to skip the artificial “dating rituals” of “coffee, dinner, dancing, and mucho dinero out of your pocketo” and instead powerfully claim the women you truly desire.

Too good to be true?

Listen: I love teaching. I love it so much that nothing else in the world I can think of makes me more happy (well nothing else I can do with my clothes on). I’ve landed on a great opportunity for you to learn directly from me in a focused, intimate, and regular setting in addition to my regularly scheduled 3 day events and my Speed Seduction® Coaching Program.

The next “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries” is

Sunday, November 22nd, 2009
1:00 PM-5:00 PM Pacific, at the
Creative Chakra Spa in Marina del Rey, California, USA.

Don’t Miss Out! And just like last time …

A few lucky participants will even have the opportunity to “take the stage” and experience live changework, at the hands of the master seduction teacher, with over 5,000 hours of experience in proven NLP strategies and 20 years of girl-getting success.

There are only 55 seats available for this event. Once they’re gone, you’ll have to wait till December – IF and when we open up the next session.

So you need to claim your seat now.

Click here to get the full scoop and register now:

http://www.seduction.com/RJafternoon

See you on the 22nd!

RJ

P.S. If you can’t make it to Marina del Rey, CA (which is about 15 minutes from LAX) on November 22, but want to get your hands on the teaching I will offer in this session, you can pre-order the DVD recording of the event.

Make sure to lock in your pre-order now, and we’ll do everything in our power to have it in the mail to you within three weeks of the session (December 15) once we get it edited, formatted, burned, and in the envelope.

Go to http://www.seduction.com/RJafternoon and you’ll see the options for pre-ordering the DVD (a discount is available if you register to attend live AND pre-order the DVD).

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day I decided to screw around and broadcast live for an hour on my Ustream TV channel. I related some interesting personal seduction stories, talked about my students’ challenges, and took questions from viewers.

One of those questions really struck me as something I’d like to discuss with you today.

The question was this, “Why does it have to be so hard to succeed with women? I try and I try everybody’s stuff and I still feel I’m barely getting anywhere?”

Has this ever felt like you? Have you ever felt like this?

Listen: if we’re honest, we’ve all felt this way. Felt confused. Felt that somewhere, some-when, in some distant and untouchable reality, there is a version of ourselves who is doing so well. Who gets it all. Who has fulfillment and satisfaction instead of confusion and “almost there”.

In reality, however, success with women doesn’t have to be that difficult. Sure, it requires some work and some effort. But it does not require struggle when you know how to come at it systematically.

It all breaks down to three elements:

1. A good working model of how women think, feel and behave. If you want to get somewhere, you have to have an accurate map. Speed Seduction® provides that by letting you peer deep into the operating system of women; how they create their emotions and behaviors. And once you get that, they become understandable, guidable, and very very seduceable.
2. A good way to control your state of mind, create a new sense of possibility, a new set of beliefs and attitudes that serve your progress, your success and your ability to learn and improve (and find fun) in every situation. Remember 1/3 of Speed Seduction® is teaching you how to build, maintain and grow a better you.
3. A good technology for getting results in the field, in the real world, with real live women. 1/3 of Speed Seduction is teaching you the actual steps with women: how to use your language to evoke their deepest emotional states, their strongest desires. How to get them talking in a way where they reveal everything you need to catapult them right into your bed (or the hood of your car or the desk, or wherever!)

Listen: when it comes down to it, any challenge, no matter how daunting, is solvable and winnable when you look at it in terms of systems and procedures, rather than isolated and disjointed “problems’.

You can have clarity instead of confusion. You can have luscious pink pleasure instead of lonely longing. You can have succulent success instead of settling.

And you can understand and enjoy the whole process along the way.

Let me show you how, right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Since I started teaching in 1991, I’ve had thousands of students, and many of them-about 40%-have been engineers of one kind or another. These brilliant fellows have taught me an appreciating of thinking in a systematic way-I’m naturally far more wildly creatively and artistically minded.

So if you happen to be a process-oriented kind of guy-information tech, attorney, engineer, scientist-I’d really love to talk to you through my Coaching Program. Check that out here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.

Listen: the other day, I was doing my monthly office hours for my Speed Seduction® Coaching program.

The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.    He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.

He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”

(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).

Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:

1.    You meet her and chat her up.

2.    You get some kind of contact number.

3.    You attempt to make contact with her again.

4.    You get her on the phone, make plans

5.    You hang out with her another time.

6.    You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.

Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.

Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction(R) to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..

…She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!

Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men  when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it.  We just assume that is the way things work.

The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology. It’s a major, core part of it.  It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.

Peace, piece and remember:

Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!

RJ

P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.   If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or booze, go here.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video(which is #1 of 10 in a new series), I talk about how key your attitude is for success with women.

For most guys, there are 4 wrong attitudes they take on when it comes to approaching women.  They rocket back and forth among them, usually settling on one or two as their default “favorites”.

1. Desperation-I’ve got to make this work.

2. Despair-I hope this works

3. Anger-Damn bitches. This had BETTER work.

4. Lust-I can’t wait to work this big pink steel into her.

In this video I outline the right attitude, which is not what you might expect at all.

Please give it a good viewing and comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. To get unshakeable and workable confidence with women that matches what feels right for you, check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.

P.P.S. Already got confidence but want to bat way out of your league(or what you USED to think was out of your league?) Check out my Speed Seduction 3.0 program here.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In today’s episode of of this month’s ongoing “Swipe File” series from my coaching program, I offer this video answer to EricNYC who wanted to know how to notice a woman’s responses(including trance) and utilize them to seduce her.

Notice how I tell him how to notice the different states of absorbtion, fascination and trance-all good indicators, in my experience, that her pussy is lubricating and her mind is descending into the gutter! These include the “Mini-o” lip and the “eye scan”.

Peace, piece and tell me if you want to see more.

RJ

P.S. You can check out my coaching program right here.

P.P.S. Goddamn it, comment below on what you think of this videos. What did you enjoy?  What are your questions? Should I do a live video broadcast on this topic?

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Fans And Students,

Whew.

You guys really are loving my last two videos in this series, so it is clear that you want to more than double your dating success, go way beyond pick up lines, pick up tips, dating tips for men, dating advice for men, online dating tips for men, online dating advice for men, how to get women tips and all the other keyword terms that make my SEO guys cream in their pink panties.

So here is part III. Pay attention here, because I talk about the two very bad alternatives most guys engage in when they find they aren’t making progress with women: diminishing and deluding.

Keep on watching; the responses to this have been grand!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want to get right to the straight goods, check out my Nail Your Inner Game program, which covers this in massive and powerful detail.