Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

P.S. I am seriously contemplating designing an on line program dedicated to the topic of different ways to quickly sexualize your interactions with wonen: verbal, vibe and touch.  What say ye to this?  It would probably run about 5-7 video modules, plus, when I create it, some live video broadcasts with Q and A. Maybe sell it for $97.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the tricky things when you get good with Speed Seduction® is the thorny problem of having women fall for you and fall for you hard, when all you want is a little bit of fun.

As guys, we have to be aware that even the most bitter, cynical, hardened woman can have her heart burst wide open and her feelings of wanting to be loved really come to the surface when she is properly seduced.

Let’s face it: sex can make all of us feel very vulnerable, and most especially so with many, if not most women.

To illustrate my point, let me share a note from a student facing this situation:

Dear Ross and Bros:

Went out with a young lady I met on the internet on Saturday.

Any way, one Twin Brothers pattern led to another and we ended up back at her place.  No need to go into the details, but when I left we both had big grins on our faces.

The reason I feel a little guilty is that I haven’t called her since.  I’m pretty sure that it won’t do her too much harm, but also pretty sure that it won’t make her feel too good and won’t do her self esteem too much good either.

Although I’m not that interested in developing a relationship with her, I would prefer to be able to  walk away knowing that, at the very least no damage has been done, however small that might be.

Now, I was pretty honest with her and didn’t promise her anything other than an interesting evening.  I did say that I would call her, and  later in the week I shall.  But what would be interesting from you guys would be any thoughts on how to set her up on the date so that they see the evening as a fun, exciting event and are happy not to expect too much after it.

RJ: The key here is to be honest about your intentions if she asks.  The second thing is, if you are not looking for an incredible connection, but just a roll in the hay, don’t use “connection” patterns.

I teach there are 4 doorways into any woman’s mind and emotions:

1. Getting her visualizing vividly.
2. Getting her to feel strong emotional connections
3. Getting her to feel strong, pleasurable body sensations
4. Getting to her core value structures

If you sense a woman wants too much from you, commitment–wise or is looking for than what you want, do not use doorways 2 and 4. They create a very strong emotional bond with most women.

You can use them, lightly, but mostly I’d lean on doorways 1 and 2. There are plenty of patterns to pretty much guarantee you can get in without creating deep emotional bonds.

Of course, if a girl is desperate and needy enough, she will CREATE those bonds, even though you never used any patterns at all! That’s when we can get into some trouble even though we proceeded with care. The problem isn’t with us, but with our “subject”; she’s just too friggin’ needy to deal with it.

If you sense you have a girl who is on the needy edge like this, it might be better to just let her slide and NOT have sex with her.

How’s that for having a life of real choice: you actually have so much variety and choice with women that you can feel great being able to say NO to a girl instead of it being the other way around! Imagine that!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Emotional connection patterns are VERY powerful. They do to women what high heels, push up bras, and boob jobs do to use men; they make the subject loose control!  Use them with caution.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

This video is a clip from an interview I did with a German PUA site.

I’ll post a few more over the coming days.

Tell me what you think….

rjonapproachanxiety

Piece and peace,

RJ

P.S. My new 3-Day seminar schedule for 2011 is up! I’m coming to LA, Chicago, New York City, Germany, Denmark, England, Canada and Australia!

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

On Friday I posted the first of two e-mails from actual students who have successfully applied my teachings to succeed with women.  If you missed it, you can check it out here.  (This will open in a separate browser so you can come right back here afterward).

I promised the second e-mail today.  Without further ado, here it is:

Hi Ross, Could use a bit of assistance here… I’ll try to be brief but that’s not my strong-suit – LOL!

Background – I seem to be having a lot of success with neighbors. 1st night closes with both the woman who lives on top of me and the one in front (my complex is a target rich environment!). (Oh, and Ross – the second one happened days after I got back from LA. Thanks again for your time while I was there, and yes, I know she’s also “geographically undesirable”, but oh so desirable in every other way!)

The fling with the girl on top lasted a few weeks; we’re still friends. She was fun and I enjoyed her, but not what I’m looking for long term. The one in front is another matter. She’d be an HB11 on my uncle’s scale (a 9 with money!). She’s the topic of this post.

I’ve known her casually for some time. She’s very reclusive and hard to get to know; she’s lived in front of me for over a year and a half… Does travel a lot with work, but most of the time you’d never know ‘cuz when she is home she’s rarely seen. Over the past few months I’d seen a bit more of her. She came out with her niece and nephew to play with my dog one day and we had a good conversation.

A couple of weeks later, I was out detailing my car and she again came down to chat (very unusual for her!). The following weekend, she was out cleaning HER car and we started chatting, among other things she said that I’d inspired her (one good sign!). She also asked if I knew who lives above her, because they were up all night partying and having sex she couldn’t get any sleep. I blushed, smiled sheepishly and said “That was probably actually us” (the other neighbor had been over the night before, and my bedroom is directly behind this one’s…).

She replied that if was me she wouldn’t complain to the complex, but to get on the floor next time ‘cuz my bed squeaks. I ended up trading a wax job (on the car, not her – LOL!) in exchange for her taking me to happy hour. A few days after that I left town for a while so didn’t get a chance to take her up on the happy hour for a while.

Two days after I got back from my trip (I did some one-on-one counseling in LA with Marilyn Sargent and spent an afternoon with Ross) I ran into her out front. She invited me to come by later to watch a movie, and I countered with her coming to my place since I’ve got a nice home theater. She agreed and showed up a bit later. We decided just to talk & get to know each other
a bit instead of the movie, which culminated in a late night visit to the Jacuzzi and spending the night at her place (hot sex, pussy breath and all!!!). Only two moments of last minute resistance; on the way to the pool I started holding her hand and she said “Wait a minute. We’re holding hands! What about Jeannie (other neighbor)?”  I replied, “Jeannie said she wants to see other people.” which is true, by the way. That settled that.

Then, just as we were getting into bed, she goes, “Hold on, we’re neighbors! Doesn’t that pose a problem for … wait, I guess not. Nevermind…”

~ Brother BB

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Every time a smart guy like you steps up to the plate and claims his results with the women he truly desires, without resorting to the 5 Bs (bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze … and the 6th B, biceps), the first thing I ask is: who will be next?

Right now, I’m asking YOU… will YOU be next?

I was rummaging through some of my “greatest hits” and ran across two of my all-time favorite e-mails, Sarge reports from students who were reporting their incredible results with women, using my system.  It’s possible some of you may have seen these at one point, but I know a lot of you haven’t.  So I am going to share them with you (again).

As you read them, and imagine enjoying these results for yourself, you will notice that these guys give SPECIFIC descriptions of the techniques they used from my courses (and also give some juicy details about what the women did to and WITH them as a result!)

I want you to get excited as you read these two emails and wonder, WHEN WILL I STEP UP AND CLAIM MY GIRL-GETTING GAME SO I CAN ENJOY THESE RESULTS AS WELL?

Here’s the first of the two e-mails.  I’ll share the second one on Sunday, so stay tuned.  (Call me a tease if you want!  Ha Ha Ha)

Hi Ross and Everyone,

An amazing story for me. I met this girl who I went to elementary and middle school with through the Internet. We both used to live in Monterey and grew up around each other, but then I moved to another town and 8 years later we meet in another town.

Story- I instant message girl online, talked for a little while and met the following night. (QUICK NOTE FROM RJ: Notice that he didn’t spend endless time on instant messenger typing into her naughty box.  He moved her quickly to the in-person meet.  That’s how you get in her box FOR REAL, guys.  I don’t recommend meeting women online, but if you do, remember this.  Anyway, back to the story…)

She came over here, I introduced cube game to her, then I talked about how I was learning to be a “blissnotist,” but I didn’t go into detail about it until she came over. I think that made her really curious to meet me. Then I read some poetry and used the loop technique from a newsletter that was sent out before. The we started having wild passionate sex.

Well after we had sex she had mentioned Monterey and how she used to live there and I told her I used to live there, then I asked her what school she went to and the school she named was the same school I went to, then I asked her what her name was again and she said it and I told her I knew someone by that name that went to the same school I went to and that the girl I knew by that name had invited me to go to a special birthday celebration she had for her 15th birthday, where she had to dance at the thing.

Well, I told her I remember telling the girl I knew that I wouldn’t go to her birthday celebration cause I was supposed to dance with her but that I didn’t know how to dance Spanish music. So I never went.

She then paused and looked shock and then she asked me what was the girls last name that I knew and I told her. She suddenly looked even more shocked and then I was kinda shocked by her shockness. She asked me what my name was and well I use a different name when I meet woman from the Internet, but then I told her my first name and last name and she repeated it and said slowly, with a still shocked look on her face “Oh My God, you’re so and so”

Then I pulled out pictures and yearbooks and there we were as youngsters in the yearbooks, me looking like a dork, I always thought she was hot being a cheerleader all throughout the whole time we went to school together. So the mood changed from passionate to being really aware.

We both lived on the same street in Monterey too. She lived just a few houses down from mine. I even described her house to her I, what her yard looked like. I went so far back that I took her to a time when I rode by on my bicycle stopped in front of her house as she was walking towards her front door and smiled at her as she stopped for a second and smiled back. I remembered and described what she was wearing that day. Now we’re seeing each other. I’ve elicited her most important values and they just so happen to match mine which is really good.

Thanks, Ross!

There you have it guys: this is how it’s done.  Check back on Sunday as I’ll have the second e-mail posted then.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Reading this e-mail, you saw how this student naturally applied Speed Seduction® to his ACTUAL girl-getting situation.  It’s so much more than a set of patterns – it’s the mindset, skillset, toolset, and every-other-set you need to master your girl-getting game on EVERY playing field.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

The terms in which we’re programmed from early on to think of “dating” is what’s tripping so many smart guys up.

Click the Play button below to learn more and then comment to tell me your thoughts:

5bsandglobalresponses

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day I decided to screw around and broadcast live for an hour on my Ustream TV channel. I related some interesting personal seduction stories, talked about my students’ challenges, and took questions from viewers.

One of those questions really struck me as something I’d like to discuss with you today.

The question was this, “Why does it have to be so hard to succeed with women? I try and I try everybody’s stuff and I still feel I’m barely getting anywhere?”

Has this ever felt like you? Have you ever felt like this?

Listen: if we’re honest, we’ve all felt this way. Felt confused. Felt that somewhere, some-when, in some distant and untouchable reality, there is a version of ourselves who is doing so well. Who gets it all. Who has fulfillment and satisfaction instead of confusion and “almost there”.

In reality, however, success with women doesn’t have to be that difficult. Sure, it requires some work and some effort. But it does not require struggle when you know how to come at it systematically.

It all breaks down to three elements:

1. A good working model of how women think, feel and behave. If you want to get somewhere, you have to have an accurate map. Speed Seduction® provides that by letting you peer deep into the operating system of women; how they create their emotions and behaviors. And once you get that, they become understandable, guidable, and very very seduceable.
2. A good way to control your state of mind, create a new sense of possibility, a new set of beliefs and attitudes that serve your progress, your success and your ability to learn and improve (and find fun) in every situation. Remember 1/3 of Speed Seduction® is teaching you how to build, maintain and grow a better you.
3. A good technology for getting results in the field, in the real world, with real live women. 1/3 of Speed Seduction is teaching you the actual steps with women: how to use your language to evoke their deepest emotional states, their strongest desires. How to get them talking in a way where they reveal everything you need to catapult them right into your bed (or the hood of your car or the desk, or wherever!)

Listen: when it comes down to it, any challenge, no matter how daunting, is solvable and winnable when you look at it in terms of systems and procedures, rather than isolated and disjointed “problems’.

You can have clarity instead of confusion. You can have luscious pink pleasure instead of lonely longing. You can have succulent success instead of settling.

And you can understand and enjoy the whole process along the way.

Let me show you how, right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Since I started teaching in 1991, I’ve had thousands of students, and many of them-about 40%-have been engineers of one kind or another. These brilliant fellows have taught me an appreciating of thinking in a systematic way-I’m naturally far more wildly creatively and artistically minded.

So if you happen to be a process-oriented kind of guy-information tech, attorney, engineer, scientist-I’d really love to talk to you through my Coaching Program. Check that out here.