She Cancelled At The Last Minute….
Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Show of hands, guys. How many of you have ever set up what you thought was going to be a hot, action-packed meeting with a woman, even touched base with her once or twice just to confirm that “it’s on,” and then …
… just when you’re getting ready to head out to meet her, she cancels?
Was it something you said or did? Something you didn’t say or do? Assuming you were using Speed Seduction®, is she just a flake – or is there more to this story? The questions come rushing. Check out this question I received:
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I met a woman (a college student) two weeks ago. Things went well and a few days later she sent me text messages saying she likes my company and hopes to see me soon. I texted back and challenged her to meet for a fun time together. She accepted and I told her to come over for a video and some wine. She said yes. Yesterday she texted to confirm the meeting was still on. I texted back yes.
Today she cancelled. She sent a text message saying she had to study that afternoon. We’d made arrangements to meet about 5 days earlier. I texted back “I need to know a day in advance if you can’t make it. Remember that and we can spend more time together.” I wanted to make my rules clear to her in a non-rude way, as you teach. Did I do the right thing here? I didn’t want to seem desperate or weak by offering another meeting to her, after the way she cancelled on me 3 hours before our scheduled meeting.
Should I make myself scarce and make her wait for awhile before agreeing to a meeting? Do you think if I’d talked on the phone instead of just texting, she might not have flaked?
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First of all, you can’t calibrate to where she is really coming from if you can’t hear her voice! Stay off the text messages!
The next step HAS to be on the phone, and if she won’t get on the phone, forget her. That being said….
I think this girl’s actions showed that she is a bit nervous and fearful. She’s young. For all you know, she’s never gone “all the way” with a man, and suddenly she is going to come over to your house for a bottle of wine, alone with you? You don’t know…what has happened in her past that makes that a red flag for her!
The possibilities for why she is flaking are as endless as the possibilities for hot, wild, passionate fun with her, once you help her overcome the barriers that stand between where she is now, and her being in your bed. But the next step is up to you, if you are really interested in her.
In the meantime, are you using Speed Seduction® to meet other scandalously hot women who might leap at the chance to have some wine … and leap on you?
Peace and piece,
- RJ
P.S. Once you master understanding of the “operating system” and “machine language” of the female body and mind, you will easily sort out the “flake” from the woman who is genuinely interested in you and just needs to find her way to you – with your help.
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