Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Show of hands, guys. How many of you have ever set up what you thought was going to be a hot, action-packed meeting with a woman, even touched base with her once or twice just to confirm that “it’s on,” and then …

… just when you’re getting ready to head out to meet her, she cancels?

Was it something you said or did? Something you didn’t say or do? Assuming you were using Speed Seduction®, is she just a flake – or is there more to this story? The questions come rushing. Check out this question I received:

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I met a woman (a college student) two weeks ago. Things went well and a few days later she sent me text messages saying she likes my company and hopes to see me soon. I texted back and challenged her to meet for a fun time together. She accepted and I told her to come over for a video and some wine. She said yes. Yesterday she texted to confirm the meeting was still on. I texted back yes.

Today she cancelled. She sent a text message saying she had to study that afternoon. We’d made arrangements to meet about 5 days earlier. I texted back “I need to know a day in advance if you can’t make it. Remember that and we can spend more time together.” I wanted to make my rules clear to her in a non-rude way, as you teach. Did I do the right thing here? I didn’t want to seem desperate or weak by offering another meeting to her, after the way she cancelled on me 3 hours before our scheduled meeting.

Should I make myself scarce and make her wait for awhile before agreeing to a meeting? Do you think if I’d talked on the phone instead of just texting, she might not have flaked?

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First of all, you can’t calibrate to where she is really coming from if you can’t hear her voice! Stay off the text messages!

The next step HAS to be on the phone, and if she won’t get on the phone, forget her. That being said….

I think this girl’s actions showed that she is a bit nervous and fearful. She’s young. For all you know, she’s never gone “all the way” with a man, and suddenly she is going to come over to your house for a bottle of wine, alone with you? You don’t know…what has happened in her past that makes that a red flag for her!

The possibilities for why she is flaking are as endless as the possibilities for hot, wild, passionate fun with her, once you help her overcome the barriers that stand between where she is now, and her being in your bed. But the next step is up to you, if you are really interested in her.

In the meantime, are you using Speed Seduction® to meet other scandalously hot women who might leap at the chance to have some wine … and leap on you?

Peace and piece,

- RJ

P.S. Once you master understanding of the “operating system” and “machine language” of the female body and mind, you will easily sort out the “flake” from the woman who is genuinely interested in you and just needs to find her way to you – with your help.

With what I teach you about this principle throughout my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation. Get yours now:

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

I know you want to get women hot, bothered and ready to get into bed without bullying, begging BS or booze.

As I tell my students: “when you know Speed Seduction(R), dating is for women you are already sleeping with.”

Anyway, in this video, I show how to rapidly accelerate the sexual response once you create those feelings using your touch.  Sexual escalation at its best and most efficient.

Please share what you learned and what you’d like to know more about below. Your comments are most welcomed.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Get your copy of my flagship course, Speed Seduction 3.0, and make guessing, games, dating and trying to buy a woman’s favor a thing of your past.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This is the final video of the 10 part video series: How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

This one goes over one of my favorite methods to meet women and make any pick up line work 10 times better: the implied compliment.

Implication works because it by-passes conscious resistance.  When you imply the compliment, rather than directly stating it, the woman has to use her imagination to find the meaning of what you said. And that process feels exactly like it is her own thought, and therefore what you say is NOT resisted.

This is really a powerful, yet simple method, and I urge you to check it out.

Once again, it’s titled How To Pick Up Women Anywhere Using The Indirect Compliment.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, there is an entire 5 part Speed Seduction(R) Sexual Language course waiting for you here

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Fans And Students,

Whew.

You guys really are loving my last two videos in this series, so it is clear that you want to more than double your dating success, go way beyond pick up lines, pick up tips, dating tips for men, dating advice for men, online dating tips for men, online dating advice for men, how to get women tips and all the other keyword terms that make my SEO guys cream in their pink panties.

So here is part III. Pay attention here, because I talk about the two very bad alternatives most guys engage in when they find they aren’t making progress with women: diminishing and deluding.

Keep on watching; the responses to this have been grand!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want to get right to the straight goods, check out my Nail Your Inner Game program, which covers this in massive and powerful detail.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is the opinion of many men, that women, by and large, are crazy.

I do not share that opinion at all.

For the most part, most women I’ve met and been with have been pretty sane and healthy, and maybe just a bit nutty enough to be interesting (as I myself have been described).

But one of the more common complaints I get from students is something along the lines of, “Why do I only seem to attract the crazy ones?”

For example, the other day, one of my students who is a member of my exclusive clients-only discussion group, for owners of my Home Study Course, posted a story about a young woman who he had been chatting up.

It seems this young lady had been discussing how she wanted to lose her virginity but also seemed to be quite afraid of men.

How did she let my student know about her fear?

Well, she invited him back to her dorm room to get some help filling in some school related paperwork. But as they were headed there she said, “I just want you to know I keep a really large switchblade in my room that I always show to guys. So please don’t be scared of my knife-it’s normal to keep one when you’ve been abused as a child, right?”

I kid you not.

Now, I have nothing but sympathy for any human who has been abused. But it isn’t this guy’s job (or yours) to do what I call “emotional dentistry”-if a woman is already sexually hung up or emotionally shut-down, trying to get past all that and only after that, trying to get her attracted to you is like pulling teeth. Just too much damn work and not your job.

The answer to “why do I keep attracting the crazy ones?” is, “because up until now, you thought that was your job and that the crazy ones were all there were”.

With the tools and methods of Speed Seduction® you can screen for and attract the women who already love sex, love intimacy and love men.

It beats the hell out of knife-wielding co-ed teenaged-virgins…although on second thought that sounds kinda hot.

Piece and peace,

Ok guys,

One of you students on my members-only Yahoo group was bitching about being an older guy who wants hot young women, but these young lassies keep asking him, “How old are you?” and he can’t get past the question.

Here is my answer to this dilemna, on video

P.S. Please feel free to pass this video around to anyone!RJ