Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever heard of a magnificient palace – or even a shack – that stood erect on a flexible foundation?

Didn’t think so.

Mastering your girl-getting game is not one iota different.

Achieving ultimate success with the women you truly desire is like living in a magnificent Palace of Poon, its vast, sumptuous chambers replete with vaginal victory.

To support such a palace, we need a firm foundation.

This foundation is formed by…

…The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success

PILLAR #1: Mental Training

First and foremost, we need to be able to do some mental training.  This requires witness consciousness – the ability to notice our patterns of thinking, feeling, and interpreting the world as they’re arising gently, before they arise with so much momentum and force that they drag us back down the learning curve into our old ways of doing things.

I can assure you, when you go to any area of life that has a lot of repetition and a lot of emotional charge to it, the old stuff will come back. Having this skillset where you see these old patterns arising before they have enough momentum to block you, drive your behavior, and distort your perception is profoundly powerful. That’s the first part of the mental training.

PILLAR #2: Rehearsing New Behaviors

This includes tapping into your intuition and being able to do rituals like the magickal self ritual, where you take on the four vibes that attract women using affirmations and your language in the right way.  We call this creative consciousness.

These first two Pillars constitute a powerful part of the mental training. So, the mental training can be considered the first part of Speed Seduction®.

Now, meet me back here tomorrow when we reveal the rest of the Pillars.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The same energy that drives negative thoughts and feelings can be redirected to motor-vate you toward success with the women you truly desire:

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I want to talk about a subject that is a bit more broad – that is, how does a person choose to move up the success-with-women learning curve?

When you have lots of new elements (patterns, techniques, etc) to focus on learning, which are the ones that, for you, in your unique situation with any particular woman or women, and given what you have experienced and mastered UP TO NOW, will really make the difference for you?

Changes CAN take place and DO take place on multiple levels.

Now, technically, when you use Speed Seduction® tools and you start enjoying success with women unlike anything you’ve managed up until now, you know you’re spot on. Well done. You’ve obviously put good work into mastering these tools and skill sets.

Now, I encourage you to use them with EVERYONE, everywhere you go, so you really OWN them, so they become part of your IDENTITY, rather than a context specific skill set that you turn on and off when you see some chick who is “hot”.

Of course, you don’t sexually ramp up the guy who takes your order at Fatburger (duh!), but you can ALWAYS practice getting rapport, calibration, tuning into your intuition, practicing shifting your intent and state, practice shifting other people’s states, etc.

So, the question is, if you have good technical proficiency, what is the ENERGY you want to wrap the skills around? What is the energy going to convey about the PERSON who is allowing the skills to be made manifest?

Is it a person who is sexy, challenging, knows how to tease, pull back, ready go take her behind the bushes and give her the f@@king of her life, etc? What are the energies at play behind the skills?

What if you could look at the skills through a filter that doesn’t say, “I wonder if this really works” or “I’ve GOT to make this work” but instead a filter that says, “Of course this is going to work… now who do I wish to ENJOY being as I allow the skills to flow forth?”

Looking back at the “Worth” you were feeling during your latest Sarge, do all the feelings/energies you had please YOU?

Points to ponder.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my 20+ years of teaching smart men like you how to get the results you want with the women you desire, I’ve found when people are stuck, their natural tendency is to push harder within the system they are using. That seldom works.

When I want to help people change, I look for leverage, and it is almost never obvious to the person seeking help.

Think of it as a “cold shower loop” keeping them on ice:

Feels lousy about failures with women————>is entangled up with—————>natural healthy desire for love, sex, fun, companionship, touch————->leads to running bad feelings and failure memories in mind———–leads to bring entangled, painful emotion, limiting sense of possibility along with legit desires, into interactions with women———>leads to freezing or little or limited actions/interactions with unsatisfying results————–>Feels lousy about failures with wome

And on and on the arrows go…

So my first thought is, if you’re caught in this loop, stop thinking of it as an inferiority “complex”.

Instead, look at the PROCESS you continue to run. If I took that process and dropped it into the head, body and energetic field of anyone, they’d be fucked up badly within a few months, even if they previously would be doing swimmingly.

BTW, even the loop I laid (ha ha) out isn’t complete. Most likely there are physiological things going on; when you don’t feel good about your life or significant portions of it, chances are you don’t take proper care of your diet, exercise, sleep etc and then your body feels even worse. A body with poor or limited energy etc is likely to lead to a mind that searches for reasons why you feel bad, when it fact, you may feel bad because your body is tired, undernourished, etc!

So into that loop I would probably put

——–> because one feels bad about this area of life, one doesn’t take proper care of physical health———> which predisposes mind to put negative interpretations on events to match the bad feelings in body

So, stop looking at yourself as having a “complex” and instead look at the process.

This is my first step, because it shows you how to start finding leverage to feel better physically and emotionally OUTSIDE of your interactions with women.

I’m not saying to shift your focus permanently off getting good skills with women. I’m saying, temporarily, put a lot more focus in other areas that might be tripping you up and holding you back.

This gets you leverage over the loop, however, there is also a gap: the effects may not show up for a few weeks or months.

But given that, all the more reason to get on it and decide that making a change is something you will do, starting right now.

The women are waiting; so what in Francesca’s flannel nighties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the most frequent questions I get is, “What happens if she x’s when I run a pattern?”

X could be “laugh” or “look bored” or whatever “negative” response you might think of.

A fundamental principle of any kind of persuasion (and seduction IS a sub-set of persuasion) is,

“USE WHATEVER RESPONSE SHE GIVES YOU”

To put it more clearly, I have a set of beliefs I come from:

1. I never take her first response as written in stone. It’s just a reflection of what she is thinking feeling or believing in THAT moment(or the part of her mind she is coming from) and it is always subject to change.
2. Anything she offers me is just a toy for me to play with.
3. Anything she offers me is just information I can use
4. Anything she offers me is just energy to be redirected
5. She can do whatever she wants: I CONTROL WHERE MY ENERGY GOES.

So let’s say a woman “laughs” at you or with you when you run a pattern.

The first thing to realize is, they are NOT laughing it off.  They are laughing it IN. Oftentimes, what you are getting is the laugh of recognition, not the laugh of resistance.

But let’s say she IS resisting a bit. Remember this: resistance is just a sign she is responding strongly to what you are offering and is scared of how strongly she is responding.

What she is seeking is some safety and a measure of feeling a bit more in control.

In that case, simply change the subject.  If you are describing an incredible connection, and you see she is in to it, but suddenly she does a 180 and looks a bit uncomfortable, BACK OFF.

Simply change the tone to something lighter or something funny.  Point out something going on in the environment around you, “Oh my God, did you see what your cat just did?” Give her a chance to regain some comfort, then go back to the direction you were going.

We call this “fractionation” in traditional hypnosis. Each time you go into a trance and then are brought back out, you go progressively deeper in the next time and the time after that.

The other aspect of this is self-control: keeping your state solid and steady and grounded, even when she APPEARS to be unresponsive or responding “negatively”.

Remember, it is the meaning and interpretation you give things, along with how you direct your body’s energetic flow that determines what will happen. The more you can stay relaxed in the immediate present, without referencing your past or worrying about the future, the more you can bring your power and skills to bear in even the diciest situations.

Now, things will not always work out as planned; you will still find situations that don’t go as you like, but you will have stretched yourself into new areas of learning and be more capable for the next wonderful woman(or whacked out witch) who comes your way.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

As a decent, caring person, many smart guys will find themselves wanting to help and support the women they care about.

Yet, there’s that balance, between being strong and supportive, versus becoming her therapist, or worse, her emotional tampon.  Let’s say she is going through a really tough time.  In empathy, you want her to really open up and share everything in her life with you.

Be careful though.  When we care about someone, we can get pulled into their stuff so deep that it colors who we are and our own energy and sense of possibility and approach to life.  It will certainly affect the energy she feels coming from YOU.

Let me say this: some issues are best resolved ENERGETICALLY, as opposed to behavior or language. Pay attention to your own behavior and vibe when you are with her. Set the intent to understand where she is at, WITHOUT HAVING TO GO THERE FOR YOURSELF.

Do you notice what I said? I said without HAVING TO. Doesn’t mean you can’t, it means it is a choice.

When we care about someone, the heart opens and EVERYTHING comes out. Joy, lust, caring, sadness, grief, anger. If she’s carrying around a lot of painful baggage, she may want to hold it in and being around you makes that impossible; you open her heart and out it comes.

Women revive the emotions associated with the topics that they are talking about.  Therefore, it is crucial to know what topics to introduce to get her emotions moving in the way we want them to move – towards lust, desire, fascination, desire, connection, etc.  And away from the pain.

Doesn’t that just make sense?  And aren’t you serving HER by helping her make a NEW CHOICE?

Here are a few topics that you should always have a way to bring up with women.

• Fantasy, escape, diversion, adventure
• Indulgence, cravings, spoiling herself
• Connections, with others, nature, beauty, something bigger and more beautiful than she expected

Look: life brings pain. No avoiding that. It’s what we wisely do with it.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I have an outrageous claim to make.

I believe women’s emotions actually make sense, from their perspective, based on how they generate them.

I do not believe women are illogical.  I do believe that women are taught to mystify their emotions and that we as men are taught to mystify their emotions as well.

Here’s a video clip on the subject. Tell me what YOU think:

makingsenseoffemaleemotion1

Peace and piece,

RJ

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