Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Wouldn’t you like to have a “stealth charisma” that’s subtly attractive (regardless of how “good looking” you are), completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone? Especially women who you’re worried might think you’re ugly?

It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now with the success you’ve always wanted. All of this (and much more) are in my Nail Your Inner Game course.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Recently on my blog, I delved into how to handle it when a woman cancels a meeting or date and gives an “excuse” – especially when it happens through a text message. Even skilled Seduction masters run up against this from time to time – it’s a challenge almost every guy faces.

Sometimes, this form of rejection can really get you down. (What’s that they say about how all your “ups and downs” with women should be in the bedroom?) A student wrote to me in response to that post; apparently a chick he was really into had just flaked via text message and he wasn’t taking it well…

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Ross, your post about chicks who cancel through text message hit me right at home. I have been seeing this one chick for about four weeks now, and I thought things were going well. She was supposed to come over tonight. Then, I got a text message where she cancelled and made no mention of rescheduling or even that she was sorry she had to cancel.

How should I respond to it? My energy just collapsed when she said this. In previous situations this would be enough for me to say “f@@k you, you’re out” and move on. For some reason, I perceived this rejection was coming way before it happened. What should I do?

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Sounds like you want to move forward, but you also need to be totally certain before you take a step. However, these two things are two conflicting desires bumping up against one another. The resulting “friction” is what causes the suffering and you “perceiving rejection”.

The All-Important First Step That Breaks You Free
Of The Shackles Of Uncertainty And The Feeling
Of “Impending Doom”

You need to let go of the need to be certain. Be aware of your uncertainty, but separate the raw physical sensations of uncertainty from the internal dialog or imagery you put yourself through when you’re worried she might cancel a meeting or dump you altogether.

Once you accomplish this, there is no more fuel to power the engine of your ongoing “story” that has kept you chained to the restraints of doubt. Now, you have the energy to create a NEW story about how you respond, what you can do, etc., that will get you laid far more often.

With this change, the “vibe” you put out to women will be grounded, quiet, flexible and attractive BEFORE YOU EVEN OPEN YOUR MOUTH. It will no longer have to push out through your noise/friction. Your messages can be delivered with far less “push/voltage/intensity,” so they don’t creep women out / blow them out of the water / break the rapport necessary to get her into your bed.

That’s not a bad result for one simple process, is it?

Bet that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Smart guys like you who study my girl-getting teachings on how to overcome fear, powerfully approach women, and then get them excited about taking the next step with you, know that you might not succeed every single time with every single hot babe. However, Speed Seduction® DOES increase the odds that you WILL succeed with women a much greater percentage of the times.

So, what to do when it seems that there are “no good women left out there”? I hear this complaint all too often. This frustrated student is asking the question:

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I’m officially beyond frustration to the point of absolute disgust with today’s women. I’m a compassionate, honest, good-hearted man and am so sick of getting hammered by women. I do my best to stay positive and “keep the faith” but every woman I meet or even hear about seems to be a friggin monster! Why is it always “I’m afraid of getting hurt, you’re a wonderful guy but I just don’t know where I’m going in life” and “I really do want to be married and be a mom” then they’re out all weekend with “friends”. Come on!

I’m sooo sick of trying and getting s#&% on here! Here I am, 35, alone, beyond frustration and on the verge of tears… again! I don’t know what to do or where to turn but I’m really over this whole thing! It’s been way too long and I’m done! I’m reaching out here, man.

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Do you know how many women I know who constantly complain that the men they date can’t make up THEIR minds? How these guys are in love one minute and don’t want to be involved the next? WELCOME TO HUMANITY, DUDE!

Let me ask you a question. It is perhaps the most important question you can hear right now:

What is your SYSTEM / METHOD for dealing with frustration/anger/confusion/sadness, extracting the maximum learning from the situation, redirecting the emotional energy into the qualities of personality and energy you want, then getting right back out in the field with the new insights, actions/behaviors/timing etc to get you what you want?

Here’s a metaphor to illustrate my point about functioning without a SYSTEM:

“I’m a boxer. I know how to throw a right cross better than anyone in the world. I throw a right cross better than Mike Tyson or Joe Louis ever did. Why is it that everyone keeps blocking my right cross? I GIVE UP ON BOXING. THE OTHER BOXERS ARE ALL CHEATERS AND THE REFS HATE ME! ALL THE FIGHTS ARE FIXED ANYWAY!”

Here’s another question: what are the more “aggressive” aspects of being male: taking the lead sexually, setting firm limits, putting yourself first, sexual confidence-that you are not confronting and are not comfortable with… yet?

It is THOSE gaps you need to fix, as opposed to railing against women for not responding as you like. You’ll have to take on a bit of the discomfort of learning to display these atrophied or ignored aspects of being male, if you want to STOP having the massive discomfort of getting your a$% consistently kicked and dumped.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. What if you had a way to take any and all confusion, frustration, and stuckness you’ve ever experienced with women, and immediately convert it to pure, immediately usable learning, so you could bounce right back, and automatically do things right the next time?

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