Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Should you ever accept a woman’s “excuses” for cancelling a date or meeting? Do you know how to successfully handle those cases where you really should give a woman another chance? Or do you keep getting sucked into another round of time and attention wasting female flim-flammery?

Bask In My Wisdom, Seduction-Master-In Training!

My rules for this are very simple:

1. No matter how good an “excuse” may sound to you, remember most women are excellent liars, and text makes it exceedingly easy for even a poor liar to do it quite well. After all, you can’t hear voice tone or inflection, which are two big keys to when a chick is fibbing.(Hint: another key is, she is moving her lips!)
2. The bottom line is that a woman who is truly interested in spending time with you but for some legitimate reason just can’t do so, will make her interest very clear, almost certainly by asking if she can see you another time and day.
3. What women do is far more important than what they say. What they say can easily play into your neediness, horniness, need for validation, etc. etc. What they do is clear and easy to see.

There’s No Excuse, For Date-Break Abuse!

So under what circumstances should you give a date-breakin’ chick another shot at the honor of riding your pink steel? And when should you shine her on as a waste of the space she’s squatting in?

Well, from what I’ve written above, it ought to be pretty clear, Buckwheat. The only scenario where I would even consider her as a prospect is if she makes it very clear in the text that cancels, that she really does want to spend time with you.

Anything else you need to either:

A) Forget it and move on

B) Put her in your mental “refrigerator” for 30 days. After 30 days goes by, text her and say, “Hey…if you see that cool fun girl I thought I met, have her text me. She was kinda interesting”.

Here’s the deeper truth: when you know how to easily meet women, anytime, anywhere, and quickly capture and lead their imagination and emotions, you won’t give two toots in hell if an occasional bimbo doesn’t get the value of having you bend her over your sofa and giving her the old “Sargy One Two Three”.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye, don’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Smart guys like you who study my girl-getting teachings on how to overcome fear, powerfully approach women, and then get them excited about taking the next step with you, know that you might not succeed every single time with every single hot babe. However, Speed Seduction® DOES increase the odds that you WILL succeed with women a much greater percentage of the times.

So, what to do when it seems that there are “no good women left out there”? I hear this complaint all too often. This frustrated student is asking the question:

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I’m officially beyond frustration to the point of absolute disgust with today’s women. I’m a compassionate, honest, good-hearted man and am so sick of getting hammered by women. I do my best to stay positive and “keep the faith” but every woman I meet or even hear about seems to be a friggin monster! Why is it always “I’m afraid of getting hurt, you’re a wonderful guy but I just don’t know where I’m going in life” and “I really do want to be married and be a mom” then they’re out all weekend with “friends”. Come on!

I’m sooo sick of trying and getting s#&% on here! Here I am, 35, alone, beyond frustration and on the verge of tears… again! I don’t know what to do or where to turn but I’m really over this whole thing! It’s been way too long and I’m done! I’m reaching out here, man.

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Do you know how many women I know who constantly complain that the men they date can’t make up THEIR minds? How these guys are in love one minute and don’t want to be involved the next? WELCOME TO HUMANITY, DUDE!

Let me ask you a question. It is perhaps the most important question you can hear right now:

What is your SYSTEM / METHOD for dealing with frustration/anger/confusion/sadness, extracting the maximum learning from the situation, redirecting the emotional energy into the qualities of personality and energy you want, then getting right back out in the field with the new insights, actions/behaviors/timing etc to get you what you want?

Here’s a metaphor to illustrate my point about functioning without a SYSTEM:

“I’m a boxer. I know how to throw a right cross better than anyone in the world. I throw a right cross better than Mike Tyson or Joe Louis ever did. Why is it that everyone keeps blocking my right cross? I GIVE UP ON BOXING. THE OTHER BOXERS ARE ALL CHEATERS AND THE REFS HATE ME! ALL THE FIGHTS ARE FIXED ANYWAY!”

Here’s another question: what are the more “aggressive” aspects of being male: taking the lead sexually, setting firm limits, putting yourself first, sexual confidence-that you are not confronting and are not comfortable with… yet?

It is THOSE gaps you need to fix, as opposed to railing against women for not responding as you like. You’ll have to take on a bit of the discomfort of learning to display these atrophied or ignored aspects of being male, if you want to STOP having the massive discomfort of getting your a$% consistently kicked and dumped.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A crush, according to Dictionary.com is “an intense but usually short-lived infatuation.”

Almost every guy has had one. Maybe it’s on a woman he just knows a little, here and there. Maybe she’s a co-worker. Could be she’s that amazingly hot bartender who works at the happy-hour joint every Thursday night and is sometimes flirtatious toward him.

Maybe he’s gone out with her a few times and has had fun hanging out with her so far. Or, she’s someone he walked up to and Sarged on, found she was open to who he is and what he gives to the world, and took a high-speed ride on the carnal carousel.

No matter what, he’s got her on the brain. All the time.

He thinks about her constantly… creates scenarios in his mind of how his next interaction with her will be so he “gets it right.” Constant, relentless, thoughts of her will keep him from being productive at work and unable to enjoy hobbies and interests, or even hanging out with his pals.

Here’s a note from a student who reports he’s “got it bad” for a chick:

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Too often, though I know logically it makes no sense, I find myself falling into the trap where I place too much importance on one particular woman. Like, I get a crush on her and it make me unable to think or focus on anything else.

What are some ways I can moderate myself when my interest in a particular woman causes me to become uselessly intense about that woman. Are there specific methods to help gain perspective when I find myself becoming too hot and heavy about someone, as I find myself now doing?

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First of all, define “importance.” Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect in, and it can be confusing.

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Next time you feel the pangs of your crush on a woman, answer the question of what her actual “importance” is to you. It’s the first (and critical) step toward busting free of the vice-like grip of your crushes on women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. What if you had an effective, sure way to develop and nurture a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone… so that you no longer let the “importance” you attach to a woman ruin your day and reduce you to a babbling bundle of “crushed” nerves?

Within the 3 DVDs and 3 CDs of my powerful Nail Your Inner Game System, you learn techniques to quiet and clear your mind, for maximum learning and empowered perception without the “static” of misdirected “importance.” That, and so much more.

Claim your copy – and your emancipation from “crushes” – today!