Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Hitting a “grand slam” requires skill, strength, and focus. Create the vision that your bat will connect to the ball with powerful force and send it flying right out of the park, and channel your skills to get your results and claim your future. Sounds simple enough?

Well, sometimes smart guys like you step up to bat, but then can’t seem to harness the positive energy to make the approach and close the deal. When this happens, you strike out. But are you striking YOURSELF out?

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Hey Ross, I purchased my first Speed Seduction® product a while ago but I’ve just starting applying it within the past few weeks. A group of us get together at a local shopping center to go Sarging. I have made about 25 approaches – small fry approaches really like commenting on the environment, asking the time, or asking for directions.

For the last week though, it seems as though the quantity and quality of my approaches has dropped. For example the first two weeks I could at least manage to have a pleasant, if short, conversation with a hot babe, but now all I can work myself up to do is the most unambitious and dull approaches (such as asking the time.) My quantity of approaches has also dropped from 5 or 6 in the first few weeks to just 2 last week.

It feels as if I’m regressing. I regularly practice breathing meditation. The only thing that I can think of is that I have fallen into the trap of comfort with my fellow wingmen. Because I am comfortable and at ease with them I no longer feel the same pressure to prove to them that I am putting in the effort. Consequently I seem to be feeling and acting like I did when I tried to Sarge alone (and failed). What can I do?

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First of all, why did you wait so long to get started? As I’ve said before, every day that goes by is 1,440 lost minutes that you will never get back. There are no “do-overs” pal – but there is the chance to “do NOW.” What’s stopped you until now?

In Speed Seduction®, I teach students the techniques for using the information, feedback, and “vibe” that women put out as a means of reaching them on their level and opening them up and blazing the path toward Seduction success.

Just like men react to the vibe women give off – if she’s warm and open we’re likely to proceed, if she’s cold and closed we’re more likely to “Exit, Stage Left” – women react to men in the same way.

So I ask you, what “vibe” are you putting out there? What does it say about who you are and what you give to the world?

Is it the kind of vibe that shows a woman that you are open, attractive, appealing, and open to new explorations? Or does it say “I’m not really sure I should be talking to you, and besides, I don’t know what to say?”

If you ask me, there’s something inside that’s holding you back. In order to explore the virgin (or not-so-virgin) territory of those stunning sexy women at the shopping centre, find out what’s stopping you from launching the expedition.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. What results could you claim with no need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walked like a giant where other people fear to step? And what if you could get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a@%, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted?

My Nail Your Inner Game System is the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck entirely, or stuck at a very underachieving level, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

Claim yours now, and blast through the barriers that have held you back… until now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A crush, according to Dictionary.com is “an intense but usually short-lived infatuation.”

Almost every guy has had one. Maybe it’s on a woman he just knows a little, here and there. Maybe she’s a co-worker. Could be she’s that amazingly hot bartender who works at the happy-hour joint every Thursday night and is sometimes flirtatious toward him.

Maybe he’s gone out with her a few times and has had fun hanging out with her so far. Or, she’s someone he walked up to and Sarged on, found she was open to who he is and what he gives to the world, and took a high-speed ride on the carnal carousel.

No matter what, he’s got her on the brain. All the time.

He thinks about her constantly… creates scenarios in his mind of how his next interaction with her will be so he “gets it right.” Constant, relentless, thoughts of her will keep him from being productive at work and unable to enjoy hobbies and interests, or even hanging out with his pals.

Here’s a note from a student who reports he’s “got it bad” for a chick:

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Too often, though I know logically it makes no sense, I find myself falling into the trap where I place too much importance on one particular woman. Like, I get a crush on her and it make me unable to think or focus on anything else.

What are some ways I can moderate myself when my interest in a particular woman causes me to become uselessly intense about that woman. Are there specific methods to help gain perspective when I find myself becoming too hot and heavy about someone, as I find myself now doing?

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First of all, define “importance.” Importance as in sexually wanting her, or importance is in her being someone you connect with on an emotional/caring level?

I’d be VERY careful about connecting too strongly with women, emotionally, unless you are well into f@@king them. Most guys underestimate their need to care for someone and emotionally connect in, and it can be confusing.

Sometimes I feel I stand at the fulcrum between two things: the living wall of fire that it is my lust and the flood of water that is my compassion and my need to connect and care. Can make things at times confusing, yes?

Next time you feel the pangs of your crush on a woman, answer the question of what her actual “importance” is to you. It’s the first (and critical) step toward busting free of the vice-like grip of your crushes on women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. What if you had an effective, sure way to develop and nurture a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone… so that you no longer let the “importance” you attach to a woman ruin your day and reduce you to a babbling bundle of “crushed” nerves?

Within the 3 DVDs and 3 CDs of my powerful Nail Your Inner Game System, you learn techniques to quiet and clear your mind, for maximum learning and empowered perception without the “static” of misdirected “importance.” That, and so much more.

Claim your copy – and your emancipation from “crushes” – today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Those who follow my teachings have heard me explain the difference between your “inner game” and “outer game” and how the former, if not calibrated toward girl-getting mastery, can send you right back to the dugout.

Smart guys like you want desperately to turn your fear of women into the charm and charisma that gets women hot and bothered and ready to go. But something is stopping you – like you literally talk yourself out of it.

Such as this student:

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Ross, I have been working on building my confidence with women for over a year now and it’s going nowhere. I’m starting to think that no matter how much I rehearse confidence, I’ll never overcome this feeling of worthlessness or being unworthy of meeting good women.

And I think it goes beyond just women. If I can’t find something to do with my day or some friends to be with. then I start to think it’s because I have no real friends and no one wants around. Then the cycle begins. When I start my weekend off on such a bad note the feeling just gets stronger until Sunday night and I am already defeated for the entire week ahead.

It’s like I am literally rejecting myself. How do I break free of this vicious cycle?

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OK, so you’re rejecting yourself. And yet you want to have sexy hot women falling all over you, cat-fighting amongst themselves over who gets to go home with you tonight… or even more, two or more of them going home with you?

A big part of your problem is too much of an “inward focus“. That is, you are un-usefully in your head, evaluating yourself, instead of turning your curious attention outward toward others.

You are ASSUMING/PROJECTING that others are judgmental, critical, mean and rejecting you without even giving them a fair chance to show you otherwise. How is that fair to them? Do you see yourself as the kind who is closed to the possibility that other people might be essentially good? That women might think YOU are sexy, charming, and attractive? And even more – how is that fair to YOU?

If you see this amazing sweet-looking honey sitting at the table next to you, and you ASSUME she’ll shoot you down cold without having made ANY effort to approach her… you’re literally deciding FOR HER that she will NOT like you.

Imagine… if you DID Sarge on her… and she ended up getting irresistibly aroused by you and banging you that same afternoon?

Now as far as finding things to do and people to hang out with, is it that you can’t? Or is it that, because of your beliefs and projections about being judged and rejected, you haven’t developed the awareness, scheduling and other skills so that you plan fun events for yourself, and fun events involving others (including hot women)?

Look: if a person believes they are unable to walk or run, they probably won’t bother developing the skills of walking and running. Then, because they don’t have the skills, they will conclude that they are physically unable to – even though their legs work just fine!

Do you see the cycle? Now BREAK THE CYCLE.

Focus on the skills of searching for, planning and creating fun things to do, events, etc. Apply the same when you approach women and you will see results other than the rejection you put on yourself by ASSUMING she won’t like you and not giving her the chance to “below you” in the first place.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. When you master the principles in my Nail Your Inner Game System, with no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walk like a giant where other people fear to step! It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a##, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted!

Claim yours today (and enter that coupon code HOLIDAY09 to get 15% off AND your THREE FREE BONUSES)!

P.P.S. Remember, when you place your order between now and 12:00 Midnight Pacific on Sunday, January 2, 2010 and enter the coupon code HOLIDAY09 on the order form when you complete your order, I will take 15% off your order.

P.P.P.S. Please note: For the Coaching Program and the “Monthly Best” of Ross Jeffries Girl-Getting Lesson Program, this applies to the first month ONLY. For the Coaching Program specifically, you get the $1 trial, THEN we take 15% off your FIRST $97 payment.