Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”

I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.

Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”

For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.

Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy

I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.

Let me re-frame the conversation: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?

What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?

Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Would you like to learn about the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys involuntarily stuck entirely based on “the past”, that ANYONE can use? I know you do.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Wouldn’t you like to have a “stealth charisma” that’s subtly attractive (regardless of how “good looking” you are), completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone? Especially women who you’re worried might think you’re ugly?

It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now with the success you’ve always wanted. All of this (and much more) are in my Nail Your Inner Game course.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Many times here on my blog, I’ve shared stories of how my students have applied my teachings to powerfully handle situations with women who flake, women who “run hot and cold,” women who say they have a “bore-friend,” and women who drop the “F-bomb” as in “Let’s be friends.”

That last one makes my skin crawl, frankly.

Using Speed Seduction®, you can often turn that “friend” into your devoted lover, and many students have done so. However, some women cannot make the transition from thinking of you as a “brother” to screaming “OH BROTHER!” as you take her for a spin on the carnal carousel.

Sometimes, you just gotta cut your losses, as this student learned:

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Hey Ross! After listening to your girl-getting teachings in the Unstoppable Confidence course I finally decided to live up to Affirmation #5.

I called up a female friend of mine whom I had had a crush on for longer than I’d like to admit. I was her nice-guy, girl-friend, “brother I never had” and it was bringing me down. I told her that I believed that, in this point in time, being friends with her wasn’t good for me and I explained why in a polite a way as possible.

She said that she was my friend and understood that it was something I had to do, and we left it that once I feel I can be friends with her without it being a hindrance to my moral and self esteem that I’d get in contact with her again. She actually said that the idea that I’m going to eventually get back with her to resume our friendship is “The only thing keeping her sane right now” and cried a bit (she seemed to take it a lot harder than I did), but I knew this was something that I had to do because I couldn’t honestly look into the future and see things getting any better.

I don’t think it’s really set in yet, but I believe that not being friends at this point in my life will be far more beneficial to myself than continuing along the way things were. I hope this is inspirational to any other brothers out there who feel they need to do something similar.

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First of all, congratulations on claiming your integrity and alignment with who you are and what you give to the world. This is what it’s all about. Good on you!

There’s another reason why you broke off your “friend-ship” with her. You don’t come out and say it, perhaps because you realize it on a subconscious but not “on the table” and “in your face” sort of way.

She told you that the POSSIBILITY that you MIGHT be friends again SOMEDAY is the only thing keeping her sane… and then she burst into tears.

Your gut was telling you that, aside from her having dropped the “F-Bomb” and consigned you to “Justfriendsville,” that there’s something dinged about this chick. This is why you couldn’t look into the future and see things getting better with her.

Here’s what I see in your future: You’ll move on to Seduction success with the open, interested, willing steaming-hot women you truly desire and DESERVE.

Meanwhile, in a separate storybook that you won’t read, she will find some Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to be her “brother from another mother” and serve as her ironing-board for her emotional angst while she avoids taking necessary steps to claim what SHE deserves.

Look: the women who won’t lob “F-bombs” at you are waiting. Now that you’ve stopped being a target, what are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’ve got the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck in the “friend” trap, or otherwise in situations with women that are doing nothing but keeping him from the interested, open, hot women who will fill his world with passion, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

Claim your copy of my Nail Your Inner Game System and let go of whatever it is that’s been holding you back.

Do it now – the only difference between now and tomorrow is 1,440 minutes that you’ll never get back if you don’t take action for yourself today!