Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the premises that I lay (haha) down for my students is that there are four vibes that women find appealing.  A key to effective Sarging is knowing when, and how, to shift these vibes.

Watch this video (where our Chief Furball Officer, Tazzleberry Cat, makes a cameo appearance):

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s a clip from the 3.0 Course you’ll really like. Notice how I use a non-sequitur to get things going and then quickly move her into a fantasy scenario, with me inserted right into the fantasy WITH her:

Talk about accessing her imagination and erotic emotions in record time…and opening up the most useful levels of her mind.

This is part of the 3.0 philosophy of getting her involvement and investment right away, right out of the chute.

No working for it, throwing stuff against the wall or trying to squeeze out a response.

This accomplishes three objectives:

1. Makes it an active participation on her part, eliminating any buyer’s remorse, resistance, or friction, plus conditioning her unconsciously to actively participate from then on.

2. She does MOST of the work

3. She supplies you exactly the verbal and non-verbal responses that you channel into and incorporate into any memorized patterns or other methods you care to use.

Please give me your comments and feedback. I truly feel sorry for anyone who is competing against you for hot women if you know this stuff and THEY don’t. It really is unfair…

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Oh yes, one more thing: this also allows you to screen for women who have the qualities I teach you to screen for in the Speed Seduction®3.0 Course.  Screening is one of the  3 “S’s” 3.0 emphasizes!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

How do you move closer to your destination?  Take a step toward it. 

How do you eat the giant elephant?  One bite at a time.

Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much different.

If you’re just starting out, a “newbie” who has had a bit of success using the techniques but feeling a little intimidated because you haven’t yet effortlessly landed the terrific threesome with Debbie and her succulent sorority sister Sarah, think about what HAS happened for you.

You’ve made the decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.

Perhaps you personally haven’t changed all that much, but the way you see things and the world in general HAS changed – for the WAY better.

With increased confidence that comes from seeing SOME success, you feel like the world is your oyster and you will grab it by the balls and squeeze until they crunch.  (Ha ha ha. I don’t think oysters HAVE balls, but I dig the picturesque metaphor in any event.)

What comes up many times for “newbies” who have gotten better at approaching and conversing with women: challenges mastering the Close, sealing the deal with women.

Hint: stop thinking about the “Close” as a separate stage, but as something that starts before you even walk out the door and continues with each further step of comfort, openness, challenge, excitement and desire you create in and with her and with the first initial friendly/warm touches/physical contact, which should be happening early on.

HINT HINT: If she isn’t comfortable or is frozen with that initial, friendly, non-sexual touching, RUN.

HINT HINT HINT: learn to screen women. What personality traits must be there in her for you to want to move forward? Can you mentally rehearse getting up from the table, smiling, shaking your head and saying, “No way” and just walking out the door, feeling 10 feet tall and humming out loud, “ANCHORS AWAY, MY BOYS! ANCHORS AWAAAAAY!”

Newbies: this is important, that last hint. Do it.

Start acting like you have choice and standards even if you currently don’t and your dick for the past ten years has been dry as nun’s pussy in the Sahara desert! It’s the most paradoxical, counter-intuitive mindset, but it W-O-R-K-S! Start believing, feeling, act-as-if you ALREADY have a world of choice.

And most of all, remember my rule: When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

On a recent “Ask Me Anything” calls for members of the Speed Seduction® Coaching Program, one of our students shared a story about how just a few simple words moved a woman from “I’m Aroused” to “It’s On”.

It went something like this.  The student had been spending time with her and had used Speed Seduction® to get her to the point where she went around naked in the room when they were hanging out, but nothing else had happened – no kiss, no nookie, no ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

He called a friend on the phone, and the friend gave him this advice: “Tell her to take her clothes off, get on top of you, and shut her f@@king mouth.” So my student said to the woman, “My friend tells you to take your clothes off, get on top of me, and f@@k me right now.”

Seems all of the work he had done building connections got her turned on, but when he just gave her a command… within 30 seconds, they were f@@king.

Now, let me make something clear: If you’re doing all the patterns, you’re in the driver’s seat and she’s sitting there passively listening, you can’t expect her to suddenly take the wheel.  The deeper in they go, the more you have to be the one who strongly takes the action.  On the flip side, women who are knowingly teasing you really need to be told to fuck off. They need that strong hand.

Here‟s the way I’ll paint it for you. What this student was doing up until then DID get her turned on.  She was responding and walking around naked, right?

First of all, get this understanding. Any girl who is walking around naked in front of you but won’t make out with you is teasing. She wants you to tell her to fuck off and do as she’s told. Do you understand that?

Now get this.  I’m going to get criticized by people who deliberately misquote me. So let me be clear.

I am NOT saying that all women want you to rip their clothes off and tell them, “Get on top of me, shut your mouth and f@@k.” I AM saying that if a woman is walking around naked in front of you and has taken her clothes off, she knows she’s teasing you and turning you on.

If she’s teasing you by taking her clothes off and parading around naked but won’t make out with you, you have the bull by the horns. You can either tell her to get the f@@k out or climb on top of you. That is clearly a case of teasing. She needs to know that you’re strong enough to say, “Get lost!”

Listen to this also: I’m sure this kind of woman is turned on. She’s turned on by the fact that you’re turned on by her teasing, but she’s also turned on by the patterns.

Just because she’s turned on doesn’t mean “it’s on” now. She can be extremely aroused, but what pushes her from very aroused to “It’s On” is a display of strength and not caring on your part. That’s for this specific kind of woman.

Now, let me unpack that and make it very clear.

For some women, doing language patterns and then touching and kissing them is enough to get them from, “I’m aroused,” to “It’s on.” You need to understand that just because a woman is aroused doesn’t mean it’s on and she’s ready.

For some women, doing patterns and being mildly aggressive is enough. It’ll move them from aroused to, “It’s on.”

For other women, they won’t be moved to, “It’s on,” even if they are aroused, unless you show that display of, “Fuck you! I don’t care. Please me.” That’s a subset of women.

I’m willing to bet, in this case, this woman is either very young, has very low “self-esteem” or both, if she’s in that category. She’s excited by displays of dominance and power. I want to make it very clear. The patterns were turning her on, but it wasn’t enough because of her psychology.

Make sense?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. What you have just witnessed here are how various levels, volumes, and varieties of sexual aggression can move different types of women from being aroused to “It’s On.”  You need to calibrate which applies to any situation you find yourself in.  At our upcoming 3-Day LIVE Speed Seduction® Seminar in Montreal, I will part the curtains on my latest and greatest teachings on Sexual Aggression Mastery, along with Showing Up Attractive and MUCH more.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

“Linkage” is using gestures to make sure that the great states we create in women through the Sarging process are linked to us.

Watch this video where I expound in greater detail:

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This video is just one of four laser-focused video lessons that members of our Coaching Program receive, each and every month.  That’s where you’ll find “Part 2″ of this lesson.  Click here to give it a test-drive for just $1 USD.

P.P.S. The content of the video comes mostly from one of our recent live seminars.  Imagine having a front-row seat to three full days of this kind of teaching.  Our very last live seminar for 2011 is in Montreal in just a few weeks – click here to claim your seat now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my previous post, we explored how you can get more of the kind of women you really want when you master the skills and apply the techniques that boost your girl-getting game.

A lot of it comes from creating her motivation and desire to respond.  We have so far explored five ways to get that initial locking in of attention and desire to respond – analogs, vibe, format, touch, and when “you don’t care that they don’t care.”

And now, here are seven more approaches or techniques that may work for you.

6) Pattern interrupts: doing or saying the unexpected that is slightly puzzling or ambiguous. As in, “Your pirispinals are laterally asymmetrical” Did you just insult her or compliment her?  She can’t tell so it creates curiosity.  Or an unexpected and reframing response to one of her auto-pilot utterances, such as the “Boyfriend Destroyer.”

7) Demonstrating authority in her world: showing that you deeply understand something or can read her. This creates fascination, a great conductive medium across which you can throw anything and get strong responses!

Humor: make ‘er laugh and loosen her up.

9) Demonstrating dominance: Lots of ways to do this. Personally, I prefer to go in with funny dominance. For instance, a while ago I was out with some students. We got in line at a coffee place. A very cute blond was in front of me in line. I turned to my students and said in a very loud, but playful way, “OK, who’s buying me my ice tea?”

The blond laughed. (Just what I was aiming at). So I turned to her and said, “Ok, YOU are buying me my ice tea!”

It’s not always playful dominance but that is how I prefer to START.

10) Non-sequitur: sudden change of subject serves as a pattern interrupt that can get attention.

11) Fractionating among the different vibes: dominant, demonstrating deep understanding, being funny and playful, revealing what you are really thinking and feeling in the moment(authentic)

12) Looks: Yes, believe it or not, some women will just like your looks! Even if you don’t.  Hooray!

The women are waiting.  What, I ask, in the name of Isabella’s ice cream cones, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I need to make the following crystal clear: Speed Seduction® gets you more success with more of the women you truly desire, more of the time…

…without having to get sucked into the mastur-waiting game or resort to the 5 Bs’ (bullying, buying, begging, BS, and booze – as well as #6, biceps).

A student of mine, while explaining how he bedded a woman using specific techniques he picked up by spending an hour in the Secret Training Collection, then added the qualifier “she’s sort of thick and a little chubby in the belly area…but I like that on her.”  As if to defend himself for having invited a thick chick for a ride on his baloney pony.

I only had one issue with this: he felt the need to defend his choice.  (Yet another example of how social programming and the “media” with their false “ideals” are brainwashing smart men right out of their power of choice with women.)  Turns out, he has a thing for big, tall, thick women.  Bonus if she has long, curly black hair.

Let me say it again: more success with more of the women YOU truly desire, more of the time. 

Instead of a life by default, an existence where “getting lucky” is an event rather than part of who you are and what you do, now YOU claim YOUR choice with the women you find most attractive, according to YOUR preferences.  No more settling for whomever gives you the time of day, if you’re “lucky.”

You Can Have The Kind Of Woman You Want, When You Create The Motivation To Respond

How do you initially hook in and grab the attention in a way where more of the kind of women you want become OPEN to “seduction oriented” patterns, suggestions, etc?

This is from an email discussion I had not too long ago with a friend.  First of all, it isn’t so sequentially cut and dried. I always do everything, all the time, while also being aware of what I need to do in sequence.

Here is what I’ve found works to get that initial locking in of attention and desire to respond.  This may work for you as well.

A woman can hook into:

1) Analogs: she may like your tone of voice, tempo of speaking, body language.

2) “Vibe”: for lack of a better term. Some women pick up on “energy” and are attracted, unconsciously, before they are even aware of it consciously. It filters up or percolates up once you start talking to them. You may do this by ritually preparing and “programming” this with what are known as sigils.

3) The format: some women love games and quizzes. Suggestions put through that format work and get responses whereas in other formats: like questions or direct demos of trance, they don’t.

4) Some women hook into touch: You may have to TOUCH them to open them up to more.

5) Sometimes they may hook into you not caring that they are not hooking in! Not exactly a Mystery Method “freeze-out”.  just a sense that you don’t care that they don’t care.

Now, this is just Part 1.  Yes, there’s more.  I know, I’m such a tease some days.  Meet me back here in 24 hours and we’ll explore 7 more.

In the meantime, remember: her looks, her personality, her essence, all of that is HB10 based on how YOU define it.  Go for the kind of woman YOU want, for YOUR reasons.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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