Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

So, you are in the course of Sarging and seducing a woman.  Everything seems to be going great – as far as you can tell, you’ve captured and led her interest, now you’re getting ready to buckle up for a rip-roarin, snatch-soarin’ ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Then, like out of nowhere, she starts flaking, going cold, losing interest.

“What happened?!?!?!” you ask yourself as you vision the cold winter sea water of a seduction-sliding-south engulfing you as things sink faster than the Titanic.

It’s Time To Take Stock, Not Slip Into Shock

Here is a “quicksand-stopping checklist” you can work through when, despite your best efforts, the seduction sizzle starts dissipating into soon-to-be-masturbatory fizzle. Learn it, and you’ll find a “jumping back in point” when you need one.

First, you can diagnose according to certain categories…

Add, Increase, Eliminate, Subtract

1. What needs to be added? Is there something you are missing entirely that needs to be put in?
2. What needs to be increased-maybe there is something you need to do more of-more repetitions, more intensity, more volume, etc.?
3. What needs to be eliminated-something needs to be removed entirely?
4. What needs to be diminished (subtracted)-ok to keep doing it, but less of it-less intense, less volume, less frequent?

Next, we need to look at levels.

1. Improve conceptual understanding. Is there a key concept or concepts you are not using or understanding?
2. Energy/vibe-do you need to correct something on the vibe/energy level?
3. Beliefs-is there something needing correction/improvement in your beliefs? Your cognitions about what moves women and what is required to bed them?
4. Tools/behavior-do you need to polish some individual tool or tools? Actions you ought to be taking but aren’t?
5. Analogs-do you need to correct body language, tonaity, volume, tempo?

Look: every girl-getting situation is different, but once you master the skills, you’ll be doing a lot more of it (girl-getting, that is).  The above is by no means an exhaustive list, but it gives some good “quick start” places to look when you’re trying to save a Sarge on the fly.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. For a life filled with vaginal victory and tight trim triumph, it’s mission-critical that you immerse yourself and master the skills.  One way is to join me at a live 3-day seminar (LA is this weekend; we have other dates and cities too – click here to learn more and book your attendance now)

P.P.S. If you can’t make it to a live seminar, or you’re just the kind of person who prefers to study in the comfort of your own home, there is an “in the box” solution – Speed Seduction® 3.0.  Click here to check it out and get your copy today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Wow.  My post on Why Txt Msgs Sck Dck has really kicked up quite a debate.

One of the many great comments I received was asking how to manage her “autopilot” responses.  So, let me show you this video clip, taken from one of my actual live seminars where I work directly, in-person with students, where I teach you how to use a woman’s autopilot emotional responses to power her right into your bed.

After you watch the video, click here to learn more >>>

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Everyone who registers for a live, 3-day Seminar also gets access to the complete Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.  With more than 120 laser-focused, answer-specific girl-getting video lessons (with audio transcripts), these lessons will make 2011 your “Vaginal Victory Year.”  If you want to get just the videos, you can: click here for the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Just received another success story from a student who has invested in several Speed Seduction products, including the 3.0 Course, the Power Pack, and Nail Your Inner Game, and who has done an in-person consult with me.

As you read, in his own words, how Brian claimed his results with the women he truly desired, consider what steps you will take to blast past whatever stuck points are holding you back and make today the last day of the way you used to be.

I came across Speed Seduction® by Ross Jeffries in February 2009 after past failed relationships where I felt I was settling and not reaching my full potential. I felt stuck and was looking for guidance to be able to choose the women I wanted to be with.

In the last year since I began incorporating these techniques, I have slept with 4 women (2 week fling, 4 month relationship with a “9″, one night stand with a “10″, and a 2 month casual relationship with a “9″). All 4 of these women were the best looking of any girls I have slept with in the past.

This is mainly due to his beliefs (from 3.0 home study course and speed life bonus), response patterns from his various products (specifically the best of RJ coaching), and self confidence techniques from Nail Your Inner Game and Unstoppable Confidence.

The most recent success came from an in-person consult that I was privileged enough to participate in with Ross. I didn’t even use language patterns with this girl. A lot of the attractiveness came from the vibes and attitudes he teaches. Just from avoiding the mistakes that most guys make, not needing to win, and having the confidence in myself not to react to her first responses, and practicing my tonality and pace at which I speak had a “9″ in my bed on New Years Eve this year.

I admire and thank Ross for his passion in teaching, and encourage anyone who is looking to make personal change in their life to participate in Speed Seduction®.

All the best,

Brian Schumacher
Detroit, Michigan

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Another way to immerse yourself in Speed Seduction® mastery is to sign up for one of our 3-Day Live Seminars.  Click here to see the full schedule and claim your seat now (Los Angeles starts in just 8 days!)

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Are you the “cute brother,” the “sweet guy,” the “adorable teddy bear” that every chick says she wants to hug tight and pinch your cheeks because you’re oh-so-cute?

Wonder why all these women think you’re so lovable and huggable – yet these same women are actually doing the lascivious lambada with guys who have none of these qualities?  If you’re so sweet, why aren’t you getting a taste?

Could be: when they say how “sweet” and “cute” you are, they’re actually saying how “nice” you are.

The real issue is: what are you doing with this, when these cute chicks compare you to their teddy bear? Are you testing with your behavior to see where you can go with it, or are you sitting in your head trying to figure it out?

This concept isn’t about the “answer” to your question. It is about THE PROCESS YOU USE TO FIND OUT.

Keep in mind the Speed Seduction® Credo: “When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.”

That said, try this, “Are you making a prediction about how I taste, or a comment about how good you feel around me?” Then lean in and kiss her. Then get up, excuse yourself and say, “Gotta go….”

See if that sweetens things up for you.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. All of this speaks to how you use Speed Seduction® to adapt the teachings to your actual, real-life situations with women.  To master the skills, you need to immerse yourself in the learning.

Best way: attend a live 3-day seminar.  Sign up now, Los Angeles is just two weeks away. Click here to register.

P.P.S. Have you been thinking about attending a seminar but maybe just need a little more incentive?  How about this: everyone who registers for a 3-day seminar will get instant, lifetime access to my brand-new Secret Training Collection.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Once again, I reach into my lovely mail bag and pull out an e-mail I got from a student about… his attempt to e-mail an HB9 he met at a party.

Some of the patterning was good, but it came off…just…BAD because the context was WAY OFF.

> I met this girl HB9 at a party full of people 3 weeks ago. I talked with her only for a few times and for short periods.  We kept getting interrupted by her friends, an attempt by another guy to cockblock me.  She behaved also like a social butterfly talking to different people, breaking conversations fast, etc.  I managed to get her email address just before she left.

Yeah, in what context? In other words, was it done after you and she were into each other, you had captured and lead her imagination and emotions, future-paced spending time together, as in, “It’s too bad we can’t FIND A WAY TO HANG OUT AGAIN AND SEE WHAT WE COULD ENJOY”.

Or did you just say, “give me your email”?

I think it was more the latter, rather than the former.  Anyway, let’s continue.

> My first email to her was two weeks later.  It read:
>
> I am Matthew, I enjoyed meeting you at the party.  It was pleasant and without giving you the impression to be too serious, too early, I learned how much it is rare to find someone funny, authentically sympathetic, nice and charming; but enough about me, you seem to be also a potentially interesting girl
>
> By observing you that evening, I noted that you were rather sympathetic and smiling. At the same time, you showed some reserve when in contact with new people. It is as if there is an interior conflict in you between a natural reserve and a desire to connect with others.
>
> You know, with me, you can feel at ease, be completely yourself without needing to play a social part or without having fear of being judged.  The tolerance, the open mindedness and the compassion for me and the others you showed are paramount values which guide my way of being, thinking and acting.
>
> Could you describe me one of your passions? You know one of these activities in which you feel yourself completely transported, completely absorbed by what you do, where time seems to be slowing, until it stops and where you feel the spirit, the flame in you that shines. And it is in one of these moments, that you feel yourself more alive, that you feel the most passion and that you are more in contact with the spiritual force which is with each one of us and which then appears with the most clearness and beauty. For me, I am fascinated by literature and in particular by poetic creation. If you like also poetry, we could exchange poems and give our respective impressions.
>
> Please answer me,
> Matthew

After trying to salvage the situation by snagging her e-mail address from the clutches of total defeat, why did you mastur-wait for two weeks before dropping her a line?

How do you know she liked you on that first meeting?  From what you described, it seems like you were struggling to get two words in.  How do you know?  And then what? A personality reading? It comes across as begging for her approval, trying to impress her.  Total AFC here.

Next, how was she tolerant, open minded and compassionate?  How do you get all that from a casual chat at a party that kept getting interrupted?

Speed Seduction® isn’t about reciting speeches that have NO relation to the context, the person or anything that you yourself have experienced. These aren’t Magick chants.

Well, She Answered The Following Day

And…it was a doozy.  I knew she’d answer – but I saw this coming before I even read that far.

> hi matthew,
>
> thank you for your message, but, how did you have my email??  you know, I spoke with many people that evening. what did we talk about, at which moment of the evening?  what do you look like?  sorry I can’t remember.
>
> unless you tell me more about you, I am sorry but I won’t be able to talk to you further.

Ouch. She didn’t even fucking recognize who you were. That’s my point. In a seduction situation, email, texting, phone calls, can work, but without a command of non-local influence, you have to put in the work IN PERSON, FACE TO FACE.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. What this student was trying to do was shift her thoughts without saying a word and without even having to be in her presence.  Right idea, wrong formula.  Join me where I show you the RIGHT way in our Secrets Of Energized Magick, Manifestation and “Non-Local” Influence Seminars.  Click here to reserve your seat now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Two days ago, I shared a video clip where I showed Chocolate Daddy an exercise that helped him overcome his fear of approaching and meeting women.

Today, he tells you about his overall experience at the seminar.  Click here to hear him say it, in his own words:

chocolatedaddytestimonial2 - iPhone

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I’m so sure you’ll love this live learning event, with me, that I’ll even guarantee your satisfaction and money back for a full 90 days after you’ve attended. I dare ANYONE in the seduction community to even try to match that promise!

Click here to pick your date and town and lock in your seat (and you can bring a friend too):

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Check out this video clip, from one of my recent live seminars, where I have a student complete an exercise to overcome his fear of approaching and meeting women:

chocolatedaddypart1 - iPhone

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Speed Seduction® 3-day seminars are an intensive, “immersion” training where you learn the seduction, pick-up, and inner game system that WILL get you the women you truly desire, without guesswork or games, no matter what your looks, age or “school” of game.

Click here for the full 2011 schedule and to register your seat now