Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

So, you want to get her horny?

You’re smart enough to know that blatant sex talk is probably not going to get you there.

You want to move things to the next step, to pursue the next stage of intimacy), eliciting the states of irresistible arousal with what she really enjoys doing in her life.

Let’s say you know already she likes music, Renaissance art, taking road trips, and volunteering at the local animal rescue.

How do you use this playing field to get her horny?

I think a good model or map is helpful so you can learn WHERE to point the tools.

One model I suggest is that women have a left brain, a right brain, and deeper levels of both.

My aim is to get her attention to make a right turn, as close to 90 degrees as I can get it to go. Then I want her to make another 90 degree turn and head DOWN into the right brain, and come back up with the feelings/information/attitudes/responses that I would like to have linked to me.

Now, down there, in the deeper levels and layers of the right brain, imagine compartments, adjacent to and touching each other, sharing common walls.

The compartment where she keeps her feelings/responses/processes about sex, love, lust, letting go, etc are often right next to the compartments where she keeps her FRP’s about indulgence, adventure, escape, fantasy, fairy tales, etc.

And often, they overlap and share space!

So, I can go directly for the sex/lust/connection/surrender compartments or I can get into the ones that are next door/share space, start to shake things up, so the sex/love/lust compartments wake up to, send there signals back up to the surface of the right brain, where it comes out as visible and available responses that I can use, in the form of energy/feeling/words/self-anchors, etc.

In doing this, certain things are required on my part: state control, awareness, calibration, knowing what to spot and how to direct it.

Anyway, that is my model.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

In a recent edition of Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets, I covered the “ABC Principle” and why EVERYTHING you do in your approach to women is part of the “close” that gets you the results you aim for.

Closing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events. It’s a continuum of making her progressively more comfortable with contact, physical intimacy, and touch.

Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly. But now…

Let’s Get Into This “Kissing Issue”: When Do You Plant One On Her?

What I would NOT do is leave the “kissing” for the typical “dating” times: at the “end of the evening” or when you get her back to your place, or other baseless nonsense like that.

Test for readiness and kiss as soon as she displays any non-verbal cues that she’s ready: giving you the “doggy bowl dinner look” where she looks back and forth from one eye to the other, staring at you dreamy eyed, tilting her face to one side, etc.

Also, it is just NOT a “deal killer” if she isn’t ready to kiss the first time you lean in. No big. Maybe she just isn’t ready.

I don’t think kissing is really that “aggressive”. Really, unless she’s a prostitute and you are a customer, it shouldn’t be that big a deal. Kissing is a sign of comfort and wanting more connection as well as a sign of arousal and a way to build arousal.

What’s the big deal, really? As long as you aren’t slobbering and jamming your tongue down her throat, kissing isn’t an automatic gate way to her nu-nu, nor does her initial refusal or reluctance mean her nu-nu gate way is closed.

Bottom line: go for it. IF she stops you, she stops you. Let HER decide once YOU have gone into action, and stop trying to figure it out in advance whether she will stop you or not. In these kinds of cases you really can’t tell and you will more often than not be seriously and pleasantly surprised.

Stop giving it so much meaning and she will too.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction (R) Student,

If you follow the advice I am about to give you in the next few issues of this ezine, you will never again have to worry about running out of things to say or talk about with women.

Now for those of you who have witnessed what a silver- tongued devil I am these days, it might be hard to believe that yes, your Guru of Getting Some was once a guy who stumbled over his words with women. Once I ran out of funny(I could always make anyone laugh) I pretty much had shot my bolt, and the conversations would either stop right there, or I would go off on lectures about military history, the United States strategic nuclear weapons stockpile, or some other instant female turn-off topic (IFTT).

So in the next couple of issues of this ezine, I want to give you some very easy to use tips to assist you in always being able to move things forward so you and the lady you lust wind up doing the mattress grind tango.

Continuous Conversation Tip #1:
Turn Down The Lust, Turn Up The Curiosity

I often tell my students who present this problem that the real issue is not that they run out of things to say, but rather they run out of things to notice and get curious about.

So many guys are so focused on how luscious Linda or marvelous Malin will look riding their baloney pony that they forget that women are human beings. They have hopes, fears, wishes, joys, desires. Yes, they have great legs, rears and pouty BJ lips. But it is what is in their hearts and minds that will assist you in getting into their skivvies.

One good way to do this is to simply ask yourself the question, “What can I notice about this person that I can get curious about? What kind of question can I ask her that will get her to start talking to me about what she enjoys, what she dreams about, what she likes to indulge in?”

The questions that you generate from this kind of thinking are almost always exactly the kinds of questions that will open a woman up and get her talking herself right into your bed. And an added bonus is that she will perceive you as wonderfully “deeper” and different from the thousands of drooling slobs who try to paw her within minutes of meeting her or bombard her with compliments on her looks.

When you stand out like this in a woman’s eyes, you are half-way home to pulling back the sheets with her. And that sure beats a poke in the eye, doesn’t it?

Peace and piece,

RJ

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