Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

So, you’re reading this because you want to have more wonderful winsome women ride your baloney pony eh?

Really?  No way.  Can’t believe it.  You’re on the Speed Seduction® blog for THAT?  Tell me another one.

Or as some might say, “Get outta town!”

And sometimes that’s the answer: get outta town if you want to turbo-boost your girl-getting game.

One of my students regularly attends industry conferences and seminars as part of his business.  He focuses on attending a handful of really big events (at least 300 people) each year for two reasons.  #1, to work on growing his business.  And also #1, to work it with the ladies in attendance.

At the networking luncheons, he oftentimes finds himself at a table with mostly (if not entirely) women – not even by conscious plan.  He says it just works out that way.  And that it usually works so well that at least one guy will pull him aside and ask him how he does it. 

Hit-And-Run Hustler, Or Outta Town Adventurer?

My six words for you: when you’re outta town, push it.

See how much you can get laid.  See if you can get a girl right away, even faster than in your own neighborhood.

In fact I’ll bet your odds of success are higher than usual.  Why?  I believe the big reason is that you know you don’t have a lot of time to f@@k around.  Women will know their window of opportunity with you is very narrow.

Also, a lot of women aren’t looking for an emotional connection. The guy, from outta town, who comes into town and f@@ks her good is safe emotionally. That’s the ironic thing.  Use that to your advantage. See how hard you can push it.

Remember: when you don’t know what to do, take a bold step forward.  Make that your motto.

And, and, and: how about this: Less care, more dare.

Make that your chant. See what it does for you. Do you feel me?

You don’t need to say anything further.  Don’t complicate it. Make that your mantra. As you head outta town, on the airplane or in the car, rehearse success.  Rehearse from her perspective looking at you, getting dripping wet and wanting to f@@k you.

Less care, more dare.

Now get outta town.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever heard of a magnificient palace – or even a shack – that stood erect on a flexible foundation?

Didn’t think so.

Mastering your girl-getting game is not one iota different.

Achieving ultimate success with the women you truly desire is like living in a magnificent Palace of Poon, its vast, sumptuous chambers replete with vaginal victory.

To support such a palace, we need a firm foundation.

This foundation is formed by…

…The Seven Pillars Of Seduction Success

PILLAR #1: Mental Training

First and foremost, we need to be able to do some mental training.  This requires witness consciousness – the ability to notice our patterns of thinking, feeling, and interpreting the world as they’re arising gently, before they arise with so much momentum and force that they drag us back down the learning curve into our old ways of doing things.

I can assure you, when you go to any area of life that has a lot of repetition and a lot of emotional charge to it, the old stuff will come back. Having this skillset where you see these old patterns arising before they have enough momentum to block you, drive your behavior, and distort your perception is profoundly powerful. That’s the first part of the mental training.

PILLAR #2: Rehearsing New Behaviors

This includes tapping into your intuition and being able to do rituals like the magickal self ritual, where you take on the four vibes that attract women using affirmations and your language in the right way.  We call this creative consciousness.

These first two Pillars constitute a powerful part of the mental training. So, the mental training can be considered the first part of Speed Seduction®.

Now, meet me back here tomorrow when we reveal the rest of the Pillars.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Fans,

Today I was thinking about some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”.

By “back game” I mean what you do when you are not actively sarging.

This could be doing your daily meditation practice.

It could be keeping a Sarging journal(mandatory).

But it could also be recognizing when you are doing too much analysis with too little data.

Let’s unpack this further.

Let’s say you’ve done 5 sarges.  You got some seemingly good responses and out of those, you’ve managed to set up 1 good, solid meet up.

Rather than focus on preparing yourself for the meet-up, you start chewing on what happened with those other 4.

Now don’t get me wrong; I want you to keep that journal and review every Sarge, noticing first what you did right, and then what could be improved.

But you need to understand that 5 attempts don’t give you nearly enough examples to extract any conclusive direction or data.

You simply need to do less chewing and more doing.

Rather than trying to take things apart at this stage, go and do at least 5, preferably 10 more sarges.

You might find that correcting your “back game” in this way actually brings more leverage than any tweak you may do in the field, because it gives you more good, real world examples to sift.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.   OK, chew on this: inside Nail Your Inner Game, you’ll find The Ultimate Sarge Review Process – the simple 20 minute process you’ll use at the end of every Sarge that (among other things) gets you back in the field doing things right, with easy, effortless confidence.  Click here to discover everything inside Nail Your Inner Game now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle.

It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women.

It also doesn’t means “abs”.  No bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps here.

Abs-olutely not.  No desperate supplication or AFC-ery here.

You might call it the Anti-Masturbation Breakthrough System.  Actually, I might call it that.

Whatever you call it, the ABS Principle boils down to this: 

Always Be Sarging

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: I don’t go somewhere to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.

Being a man who claims his choice to meet, seduce, and enjoy rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle must be part of who you are and what you do.  Not an “event” as in “Hey dude, wanna go out and scout some babes tonight?”

Effective goal-setting is also an important part of the ABS Principle.  Forget “impressing that chick” or “scoring with that babe.”  No.  A Speed Seducer® focuses on continually improving and mastering his skills that get him success not only with the woman in front of him now, but also the next ten HB10s he meets.

Why is this so important? When you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into any ONE woman, and things don’t open up for you as you wish, then all of that energy (better used for Sarging in this case) has nowhere to go.

Think of it this way: when the girl you play with becomes the girl you want to stay with, you will have more assurance that you are stepping into the life you truly deserve, not settling on a real-hate-shun-ship by default.

How will you find that fine femme if you’re limiting yourself by making Sarging an “event?”

Again: Always Be Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Today is the day you will claim control of your life and start meeting, flirting, dating, seducing, and sleeping with sexy, beautiful women, fast and easy, immersing yourself in and mastering the lessons and teachings inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

At various times here on Ross Jeffries Uncensored we’ve discussed (among other hot topics) sarging without a wingman, sarging when you’re solo and everyone else is in mixed groups, and sarging when some dude keeps cock-blocking you.

Now, let’s say you’re in a smaller, quieter place, more upscale.  The place is very small & everyone is within earshot.  Lots of 3- or 4-sets of ladies, mostly professionals unwinding after a day at the office.

This place is small but a great hunting ground; so you don’t want to risk kiboshing it by being viewed as ‘on the make’.   Some guys might view this as a problem.

I would first ask: how is that a problem?

It can only be a problem if you ASSUME(without evidence) that talking to women is something about which you should be embarrassed, ashamed, sneaky, etc.

Who put the idea in to your empty head that women don’t want guys to come up directly and talk to them?

You view yourself as “hunting” but you don’t want to be viewed as on the make!

No wonder you feel like you have to hide what you are doing.

How about you come up with a better f@@king metaphor than being a ‘hunter’ and women being your ‘prey’?

How would everything suddenly re-organize, shift and change… now…as you start feeling the shift from this advice?

Look guys: the metaphors you use to describe to yourself the actions you are going to take have profound effects from the cognitive layer all the way down to the neurological level of synapses, neurotransmitters, hormones, etc.

SO PICK A GODDAMN BETTER METAPHOR, KNUCKLEHEAD!

Here’s one for you: this place is a party, you are the host, there to make sure all feel happy and welcomed. And what a gift it is for them (not arrogantly so), that you give special attention to THEM.

Now, does that beat a poke in the eye?

Listen: the women (all 3 of them over there) are waiting.  What, in the name of Natasha’s nightgown, are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

This is the first of two mini-lessons on hooking her interest that I’ll be sharing.  The second will arrive in a couple days.  (I know, I know, I’m a tease.)

What are some of the key, initial factors that come into play when approaching women that can enable you to hook or get attention initially?

It begins with a very important concept.  The first five minutes are designed to get her invested in the transaction. Yes, you can create connections, get her sexually turned on, etc. Remember, in the first five minutes, if you get her invested and really interested in talking to you more, you’ve gotten the job done for that portion.

Here’s what can hook attention: She might hook into the vibe you present as your approach.

Let me break that down for you.

First of all, she may hook in psychically. She may be really sensitive to NLP.

She could hook into the theme that you introduce. She may just like the theme that you introduce.

She may hook into the format you use. For example, she may really like jokes, games, quizzes and curiosity.

She may hook in to the vibe, theme, format or analog.

She may really love your voice. Many women initially tell me they just love how masculine my voice was.

She may hook in to the fact that you don’t care that she’s not hooking in. If she’s not hooking and you don’t care and are fine with it, that may really get her attention.

As part of that, she may hook into how comfortable you are with her first response. Let’s say she’s a little bit nasty or skeptical and you just laugh and are not in any way troubled by it. That may really hook her attention.

Any kind of pattern interruption or response on your part that’s positive and unexpected can really hook her in.

She may finally only hook in to your touch. You may have to touch her in order to start getting her hooked in.

She may hook in to your fun learning frame. You’re there to learn and have fun.

She may hook into the fact that you’re screening her or the implied compliment.  She may hook in to the implied, playful screening and the fact that you’re screening her in a playful way.

The trick is to have fun, steady your ground, and get stable in your feet with a nice flow of energy in your body no matter what happens and plays out. Those initial 5 (to 10) minutes are about sparring in a friendly way and seeing where she’s open.

In Part 2 of this lesson, we’ll explore how to hook her interest with your closing.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  One of the things that I talked about in my recent London seminar is the path of sexualized curiosity as a way of being very powerful to hook women’s interest and seduce intelligent women.  To watch this (and 50+ more hours more of my latest and greatest) in the privacy of your own home, click here now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m often asked about the best manner or vibe for a man to put out when he approaches a woman for the first time.

Though the specific questions vary, a few common themes emerge.  Are cocky and funny good attitudes to exude toward women when you’re Sarging? Or, will a friendly and warm approach work better?  Can you mix the two?

Well, first, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: postulating that ONE approach ALWAYS works is just silly.

Being cocky and funny the whole time is like trying to drive your car around in one gear. You have to be able to shift gears as the conditions warrant, or you’ll strip your gears.  When that happens, you won’t be able to move forward.

So with that being said, why just have one approach?

A good approach toward women can start from any one of four basic positions, and move rapidly in between, back and forth, amongst the others.

You can start from ANY of these:

1. The put on: saying something funny, designed to make her laugh
2. Comment, question, observation
3. The blurt-out, where you just say whatever is crossing your mind or whatever you are experiencing seeing her in that moment
4. Genuine intuition

The best approaches combine 2 of these or start with one and move rapidly to the other.

As for being “cocky and funny”; many guys are quite capable of it, but you need to know when to drop it and rapidly display other aspects of yourself, unless you want to come off as a joke machine or an insult comic.

It’s one thing to approach life with a smile. It’s another to approach people with a sneer. Sneering shows some serious insecurities, doesn’t it?

The larger point is this: calibrate to the person(s) in front of you and notice what response(s) you get.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Having the skills and confidence to approach and stimulate any woman’s subconscious sexual triggers using your words is one of the best skills in the world to have because it will give you complete seduction mastery even over the choosiest women.  So you won’t have to just rely on making her laugh.  For more great teaching on this (and many other) topics, click here now.