Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Last week here on my blog, I explained why it’s so important to stop c@&k-blocking yourself and denying yourself the opportunity to experience joy and pleasure with women because you think you’re worried she might think you’re more “not” than “hot.”

I received an e-mail from a fan who read my post and told me his dilemma. He’s 31 years old, has never gotten laid and doubts he ever will. He and has a sense of worthlesness and insecurity that he’s never “shaken” since he was a teenager who got picked on a lot in high school.

Because he got laughed at by the pretty girls he was attracted to back then, he’s still “stuck” in a pattern of being unable to approach women due to his sense that “relationships are meant for other people, not me.”

For him, it’s not about whether he’s good looking enough, it’s about what happened in his past that trips him up today.

Reach Out And Take The Key That Sets You Free
From Your Life-Sentence Of Involuntary Celibacy

I don’t know this guy’s life story, but I’d wager a dollar that his real issue is NOT where the “block” started but how, up until now, he’s been entangled in it and FEEDING it and REAFFIRMING IT.

Let me re-frame the conversation: Imagine if all of the worthlessness and insecurity he’s ever felt or experienced could be converted/refined/recycled into PURE energy for his peace of mind, balance, informed enthusiasm, and vision of the man he has become already in other areas of his life?

What if he could learn, from a place of clear eyes and new vision, without the old filters and responses (those memories of the past) standing in the way and “jumping in his line of sight” every time he “swallows hard” and “goes for broke” and FINALLY takes a “shot” at approaching a woman?

Listen: it’s not always about what you have, but rather what you do with it, that can make all the difference.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Seeing smart guys like you master the tools and proven strategies that get you all the hot, sexy, desirable women you want is the “payoff” of being a Seduction teacher. As I like to say…

The women are waiting, now what are you waiting FOR???

I recently got a letter from a student who has been talking to a girl for about three months now. He tells me he’s been keeping things mostly casual, running patterns or pieces of patterns here and there and just structuring his language in a better way then what he believes the typical Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) would.

But from what I gather, he really has not been working that hard though. She gives him lots of signs that she likes him, such as texting him about 50 times a day, remembering virtually everything he ever says to her, going out of her way to see him, etc. He tells me she always wants more when he runs a pattern on her, but he pulls back and makes her work for it, like he’s “teasing” her.

He wonders why he hasn’t scored with this chick yet, after three months.

Let’s dissect this.

Uh…first of all, what part of the “Speed” in “Speed Seduction®” did he miss?

The minute I see something like this, I already know what the problem is. This is a thinking that is focused more on not making mistakes than it is on doing what will work.

Guys, here is the real problem with this “talk to a girl for 3 months” approach: it is more focused on getting the girl than it is ON MASTERING THE SKILLS.

Instead, think in terms of every woman you meet as being an opportunity to help someone feel a bit better about their day AND ANOTHER STEP TOWARDS MASTERY OF YOUR SKILLS.

I think this student, and any guy in this situation, would benefit a great deal from reviewing their beliefs about learning. Here are three good ones:

1. ***I*** decide what I learn from every person, event, situation, and action in my life. ****I**** decide what meaning I give things.
2. I will either enjoy the process of getting what I want (or better) or I will enjoy getting what I want (or better) or BOTH.
3. When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

So as far as this chick, what are you waiting FOR? An engraved invitation? I think you know what they say about “those who wait.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Smart guys like you who study my girl-getting teachings on how to overcome fear, powerfully approach women, and then get them excited about taking the next step with you, know that you might not succeed every single time with every single hot babe. However, Speed Seduction® DOES increase the odds that you WILL succeed with women a much greater percentage of the times.

So, what to do when it seems that there are “no good women left out there”? I hear this complaint all too often. This frustrated student is asking the question:

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I’m officially beyond frustration to the point of absolute disgust with today’s women. I’m a compassionate, honest, good-hearted man and am so sick of getting hammered by women. I do my best to stay positive and “keep the faith” but every woman I meet or even hear about seems to be a friggin monster! Why is it always “I’m afraid of getting hurt, you’re a wonderful guy but I just don’t know where I’m going in life” and “I really do want to be married and be a mom” then they’re out all weekend with “friends”. Come on!

I’m sooo sick of trying and getting s#&% on here! Here I am, 35, alone, beyond frustration and on the verge of tears… again! I don’t know what to do or where to turn but I’m really over this whole thing! It’s been way too long and I’m done! I’m reaching out here, man.

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Do you know how many women I know who constantly complain that the men they date can’t make up THEIR minds? How these guys are in love one minute and don’t want to be involved the next? WELCOME TO HUMANITY, DUDE!

Let me ask you a question. It is perhaps the most important question you can hear right now:

What is your SYSTEM / METHOD for dealing with frustration/anger/confusion/sadness, extracting the maximum learning from the situation, redirecting the emotional energy into the qualities of personality and energy you want, then getting right back out in the field with the new insights, actions/behaviors/timing etc to get you what you want?

Here’s a metaphor to illustrate my point about functioning without a SYSTEM:

“I’m a boxer. I know how to throw a right cross better than anyone in the world. I throw a right cross better than Mike Tyson or Joe Louis ever did. Why is it that everyone keeps blocking my right cross? I GIVE UP ON BOXING. THE OTHER BOXERS ARE ALL CHEATERS AND THE REFS HATE ME! ALL THE FIGHTS ARE FIXED ANYWAY!”

Here’s another question: what are the more “aggressive” aspects of being male: taking the lead sexually, setting firm limits, putting yourself first, sexual confidence-that you are not confronting and are not comfortable with… yet?

It is THOSE gaps you need to fix, as opposed to railing against women for not responding as you like. You’ll have to take on a bit of the discomfort of learning to display these atrophied or ignored aspects of being male, if you want to STOP having the massive discomfort of getting your a$% consistently kicked and dumped.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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