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		<title>Watch Me Pick Apart A Woman&#8217;s Online Dating Profile</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 18:55:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Look: I am not a fan of online dating. However, a lot of you are demanding more teaching on it.  Plus, members of my Coaching Program are adapting my teachings to online dating (as long as &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/online-dating-profile/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Look: I am not a fan of online dating.</p>
<p>However, a lot of you are demanding more teaching on it.  Plus, members of my Coaching Program are adapting my teachings to online dating (as long as they follow a few simple rules to steer clear of Let&#8217;s Be Friends-Ville).</p>
<p>Watch this video where I show you how to &#8220;use what she gives you&#8221; online:</p>
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<p>Inside the <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank">Vaginal Victory Vault</a>, this video is the first of the six in the &#8220;Extras&#8221; module.  The MP3 and Transcript are there.  Plus 120+ other videos and a lot of other great teaching.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,</p>
<p>RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S.</strong> If you already have the Vault and haven&#8217;t logged in for a while, do so now and you&#8217;ll see a &#8220;members only&#8221; 50%+ discount on prepaid monthly coaching, where you get at least 5 NEW videos just like this one &#8230;. EVERY MONTH.</p>
<p>If you don&#8217;t have the Vault, is this all the more reason to get off the fence, get off your ass, and <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trainingvault/" target="_blank">claim your instant access TODAY</a>?</p>
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		<title>&#8220;She Ordered Me To Drive Over And Sleep With Her&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 19:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, You&#8217;ve heard me say that &#8220;online dating&#8221; is for the birds.  Speed Seduction® is NOT designed to help you get laid from a personals ad. At the same time, you also hear me say often that &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/she-ordered-me-to-drive-over-and-sleep-with-her/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>You&#8217;ve heard me say that &#8220;online dating&#8221; is for the birds.  Speed Seduction® is NOT designed to help you get laid from a personals ad.</p>
<p>At the same time, you also hear me say often that one of the real geniuses of Speed Seduction® is that it doesn&#8217;t just give you a bunch of pickup lines; rather, it gives you the tools and the skill mastery to apply the teachings to YOUR situation with ANY woman.</p>
<p>Listen to this student tell you, in his own words, about his success making the &#8220;online thing&#8221; work for him:</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3392" title="sexy-woman-on-computer" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/10/sexy-woman-on-computer.jpg" alt="" width="233" height="350" />==========================</p>
<p><em>Hello Ross, I wanted to give your ideas of seduction the toughest challenge possible; bitter men-hating women on dating websites. As a result of using only information from your free products on your site and using only words on MSN, I have given women the most powerful orgasms of their lives.</em></p>
<p><em>I have had teenage women squirt and older women send me videos of them masturbating. I have had women fall in love with me simply using your ideas of language. I have had women send me pictures that would make your granny faint. [Well, maybe not YOUR granny!]  I tell them that they need to talk to just me for 20 minutes and the rest is history. Some have such powerful orgasms that they delete me and log of their sites because they’ve never come so hard and they freak. </em></p>
<p><em>One young woman ordered me to drive over to her house and sleep with her.</em></p>
<p><em>And all of this by using the theories you outline in your free products. I should also point out, that unlike many online PUAS suggest, my profile has a crappy little picture and hardly any information.</em></p>
<p><em>This, perhaps, is not how you intended Speed Seduction® to be used, but I am highlighting how your theories can be used and expanded.</em></p>
<p><em>No top hats, no vanishing coins and no pictures of me with tons of women, just words and ideas from your free products.  Thank you.</em></p>
<p><em>Lee Masters</em><br />
<em>Birmingham, West Midlands, UK</em></p>
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<p>RJ again.  First of all, good on Lee!  Lee, I am SO proud of you for claiming YOUR choice and achieving success with women you truly desire.</p>
<p>You&#8217;re not the first student who, despite what I teach, have met and had sex with women from the &#8220;dating sites.&#8221;  It&#8217;s all in HOW you apply the skills.</p>
<p>Again, take note of what Lee has said, in his own words, about how this has improved his life.</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
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		<title>The Keys To Success With Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 15:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the right tools and knowledge on your side and in your corner. But with all the BS social programming going &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/the-keys-to-success-with-women/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>Mastering the skills for approaching and seducing the women you truly desire can be achieved with the <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank"><strong>right tools and knowledge</strong></a> on your side and in your corner.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-3218" title="ca_32334716_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/ca_32334716_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="271" />But with all the BS social programming going on via the dreck spewed out by the &#8220;romance industry,&#8221; small wonder many smart men who otherwise have the whole world by the balls, are going through life doubled over in constant, searing, skewering emotional (and even physical) pain from chronic blue balls.</p>
<p>There&#8217;s a different bullshit idea for every day of the week and it can be downright confusing.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s possible you&#8217;ve studied PUAs who tell you to go to the club wearing a top hat, make-up, and 5 inch heels and acting like a clown to meet women.</p>
<p>Maybe you&#8217;ve bought into &#8220;just be yourself and be a friend&#8221; B.S.</p>
<p>Could be you&#8217;re screwing around randomly typing &#8220;37/m/downtown looking for a nice lady for naughty times&#8221; in chat rooms, dangling bait from your rod hoping an actual woman nibbles on your worm.</p>
<p>And as a result, the very notion of getting laid, meeting lots of hot women, or finding your life partner (whatever your goal is) seems like a heavy solid oak door, dead-bolted shut, and through the steel-barred window, on the other side you see your success vision sneering, laughing, and pointing while jingling the keys.</p>
<p><em>If only you could unlock that door.</em></p>
<p>Well, in just 3 weeks from today, get me fast, get me good, and get me LIVE at our 3-Day Speed Seduction® Seminar in Montreal.</p>
<p>==&gt; <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/</a></strong></p>
<p><strong>Now, what&#8217;s it all about?</strong></p>
<p>This is YOUR LAST CHANCE IN 2011 to let the legendary founder of the seduction community, Ross Jeffries (that&#8217;s me) take you by the hand and guide you to <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">guaranteed, total breakthrough success with the women you truly desire</span></strong>, no matter what your looks, age or school of game, just as I&#8217;ve been doing for thousands of men over the past 22+ years.</p>
<p>You will not only learn whatever you need for your success with women, (on your terms, as you define it,) but with my unmatched skills at change work and weaving hypnotic teaching stories and metaphors&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230;you’ll feel the changes happening for you effortlessly as I open your mind to <strong>new levels of skill, power, and personal transformation</strong>.</p>
<p>Come to this seminar and learn to use your language, vibe and touch to get the <strong>hottest women soaking themselves</strong> in minutes, while they do 80% of the work:</p>
<p>==&gt; <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/</a></strong></p>
<p>In your live weekend 3-day Speed Seduction® seminar, you’ll learn to do this through lecture, drill and live “hands on” learning with female volunteers.</p>
<p>You’ll learn my new system to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">get women invested in you</span>, so THEY do the chasing.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll get executive-level access to the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">best, most easy to use</span> Pick Up method: The Wonderful World Of Walk Up Wizardry.</p>
<p>Not to mention my <span style="text-decoration: underline;">latest, greatest teaching</span> on <strong>showing up attractive</strong> and <strong>sexual aggression master</strong>y.</p>
<p>Registration <span style="text-decoration: underline;">goes up by $200 at 11:59 PM Pacific on Monday</span>, August 22:</p>
<p>==&gt; <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/</a></strong></p>
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<p>I&#8217;m giving you the keys that unlock the doors to your total success with the women you truly desire.</p>
<p>Will I see you in the front row in Montreal?</p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S. </strong>When you claim your seat today, you&#8217;ll get access to some great bonuses that give you immediate, use-it-right-now teaching so you get your pre-work in now and come to Montreal even more prepared for complete transformation of your success with women:</p>
<p>==&gt; <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/</a></strong></p>
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		<title>RJ Looks For Trance Words In A Woman&#8217;s Online Dating Profile</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Jul 2011 19:36:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, At our recent 3-day seminar in Copenhagen, one of my students gave me a print out of a online dating profile and asked me to help him find her &#8220;trance words&#8221; and otherwise dissect the profile. &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/trance-words-online-dating-profile/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</p>
<p>At our recent 3-day seminar in Copenhagen, one of my students gave me a print out of a online dating profile and asked me to help him find her &#8220;trance words&#8221; and otherwise dissect the profile.</p>
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<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S.</strong> I do my best work as a teacher when I respond directly to a student&#8217;s question or need for assistance in mastering his girl-getting game.  The above video is one of MANY examples where I do this within my 3-day seminars.  We also do demos and exercises.  And we&#8217;re doing it all in Montreal, coming up REAL soon.  <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">Click here to grab your seat right now</a>.</p>
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		<title>&#8220;Enough Of The Online Games&#8230; Let The REAL Fun Begin!&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 14 Jan 2010 16:00:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, I&#8217;ve seen &#8220;online dating&#8221; evolve from being what guys didn&#8217;t admit to using to meet that latest &#8220;hot babe,&#8221; to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/enough-online-games/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,</strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;ve seen &#8220;online dating&#8221; evolve from being what guys didn&#8217;t admit to using to <strong>meet that latest &#8220;hot babe,&#8221;</strong> to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without seeing a commercial for one of the major online-dating websites.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1289" title="ca_7531066_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/ca_7531066_180.jpg" alt="ca_7531066_180" width="180" height="188" />I know a number of guys who have had <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank"><strong>success Sarging</strong></a> online. A few told me how they applied my <strong>girl-getting techniques</strong> to the online scene and used them to screen out the time-wasters, pic-collectors, and c#%k-teasers and <strong>score with the &#8220;prime hotties&#8221;</strong> on the &#8220;dating sites.&#8221; I&#8217;ve said before, <strong>good on them</strong> for making it work and I wish them continued success.</p>
<p>More common, however, is what I received two days ago from one of my students who has, up until now, insisted that the chatroom is just as good as the coffee shop, bookstore, grocery store, pottery class, running club, rock star&#8217;s fan club meetings, local networking group, or favourite club for <a href="http://www.seduction.com'blog/30/" target="_blank"><strong>meeting hot women</strong></a>:</p>
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<p>You know Ross, I&#8217;ve had some success finding women online, meeting them in person. I&#8217;ve gotten laid a couple times and even dated a few. Good times. More often, though, chicks on the dating sites talk a big game about being ready to &#8220;go for it&#8221; until it comes time to take things to a higher level.</p>
<p>Right at the point where things are ready to progress from a little fun online chat to &#8220;things actually happening&#8221; is where many women online suddenly change. They&#8217;ll make up bulls#%t excuses. They&#8217;ll suddenly change from lively chats that could go on all night if I would have let them, to all they say in the chat window is &#8220;hi&#8221; &#8220;ok&#8221; &#8220;cool&#8221; and &#8220;bye&#8221; without any smiley faces or &#8220;lol&#8221; or &#8220;roflmao&#8221; like before. They&#8217;ll disappear without a trace. In about 1 out of 5 cases, they suddenly pick some stupid fight, blame it on me, and call me an a$@hole from behind their keyboard.</p>
<p>Even after we meet in person, most of the time it doesn&#8217;t take long before they retreat back behind their computer or texting on their Crackberry or i(Don&#8217;t-Actually-Talk-On-The)Phone.</p>
<p>Frankly, I&#8217;d rather occasionally have some stuck-up chick shoot me down in public while her gal-pals laugh at me than deal with online nonsense anymore. I&#8217;ve canceled my online dating profiles and deleted everyone off my IM buddy list who isn&#8217;t an actual &#8220;real life&#8221; friend. For a couple days it was weird with my IM being silent and no &#8220;she just winked at you&#8221; notifications, but I don&#8217;t miss it now. I&#8217;m done with work for the day and now I&#8217;m off to my regular club to see who&#8217;s hanging out tonight.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve been working closely with this student for two years now. He was <strong>playing the online game smart</strong>, using it as a means to get her quickly to the <strong>next phase</strong> (the phone, then an in-person meet). He wasn&#8217;t using the internet as a crutch or excuse to avoid <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>taking bold in-person seduction moves</strong></span> himself.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Remember</span>: the anonymity of the internet allows people to pretend without having to face the music.</p>
<p>Plus, you don&#8217;t know who she really is, no matter how good she is at typing &#8220;just the <strong>right things</strong>&#8221; in the <strong>&#8220;naughty box.&#8221;</strong> All those &#8220;pics&#8221; she sends you that show you <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>how cute and yummy</strong></span> she looks&#8230; how do you know they&#8217;re really HER? And if they are her, how do you know they <span style="text-decoration: underline;">aren&#8217;t 10 years old</span>, from before she <em>went to hell in a handbasket?</em></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-1290" title="ca_63291276_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/ca_63291276_180.jpg" alt="ca_63291276_180" width="180" height="120" />In this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it&#8217;s hard to get out of the office enough to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Sarge</strong></span>, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It&#8217;s <em>tempting and easy</em> &#8211; I appreciate this.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">But look</span>: save the online chat stuff for women you&#8217;ve <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>already been sleeping with</strong></span> for a while, as a way of <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>keeping them tittilated</strong></span> when they&#8217;re home alone waiting for you to get back from that <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/2011seminar/" target="_blank">3-day seminar</a></strong> you&#8217;re away at and show them even <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>more hot, steaming adventure</strong></span> in person.<br />
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All around you, OFFLINE, the women are waiting &#8211; what, my friend, are you waiting <span style="text-decoration: underline;">FOR</span>?</strong><br />
<strong><br />
Peace, peace, and here&#8217;s LOOKING at her IN PERSON,</strong></p>
<p>RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction/com/blog/30/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1119" title="SpeedSeductionDeluxe200" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/SpeedSeductionDeluxe2001.jpg" alt="SpeedSeductionDeluxe200" width="200" height="200" /></a>P.S. </strong>If you&#8217;re ready for something REAL, I&#8217;ve got you covered.</p>
<p>With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of <strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank">Speed Seduction® 3.0</a></strong>, you’ll be in charge as the <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">effortless seduction architect</span> of every interaction and situation.</strong></p>
<p>No more silly games. Just all the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>girl-getting power</strong></span> you need so even when her gal-pals laugh at you for walking up to her, she&#8217;ll brush them aside and embark on a <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>juicy adventure with you</strong></span>.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank"><strong>Claim yours, and your freedom from your keyboard now!</strong></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Sep 2009 02:00:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Student, In this digital, instant-messaging age, more and more Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters as well as dating relationships begin with online chat on a dating site. Personally, I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s very effective, because you can&#8217;t use many &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/sarging-on-dating-sites/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Dear Speed Seduction® Student,</strong></p>
<p>In this digital, instant-messaging age, more and more <strong>Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters</strong> as well as <strong>dating relationships</strong> begin with online chat on a dating site. Personally, I don&#8217;t think that&#8217;s very effective, because you can&#8217;t use many of the in-person <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/walkup/" target="_blank">techniques for approaching women</a>.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-882" title="fotolia_1039905_small" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/fotolia_1039905_small.jpg" alt="fotolia_1039905_small" width="180" height="120" />But a lot of my students are trying their hand at Speed Seduction® using Match.com, Plentyoffish, e-Harmony, Singlesnet, Chemistry.com, or Friend Finder. A student of mine who is working on his &#8220;online Sarge&#8221; wrote to me the other day:</p>
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<p>Hey Ross! One thing I&#8217;ve learned is that I am not very good at seducing women online, at least with someone I have not already met in person. I&#8217;m having a hard time making the patterns work well with the woman when it&#8217;s typed words rather than face-to-face. For one thing, it is hard, maybe impossible, to be sure they link it to you. For another, you can&#8217;t watch them, and see how they are taking what you are saying. You can&#8217;t really calibrate.</p>
<p>Personally, I try to use online sarging only as a means of getting a face to face meeting set up. However, I&#8217;m sure many of you out there are expert internet sargers. Any tips on how I can improve my internet sarging, especially with women I either haven&#8217;t met, or only had time to swap e-mail addresses?</p>
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<p>You&#8217;re right when you say that it&#8217;s hard, maybe even impossible, to make sure she <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>links the words you type back to you</strong></span>, and not to the images in her mind, which for all you know have nothing to do with you despite all the &#8220;<strong>oooo</strong>&#8221; and &#8220;<strong>aaahhh</strong>&#8221; and <strong>&#8220;<span style="text-decoration: underline;">you&#8217;ve got me so wet, babe</span>&#8221; </strong>she&#8217;s typing back to you in that chat window.</p>
<p>The <span style="text-decoration: underline;">one possible advantage</span> I see to chatting online is that sometimes you can <strong>get her to open up</strong> more, since she might be less nervous than if you had just approached her in person because she perceives less &#8220;risk.&#8221;<br />
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That said, here&#8217;s the deal:</span> If you haven&#8217;t spent time talking to her face to face, use (limited) time online to do information gathering. One of the key principles of Speed Seduction® is how to use the information she gives you to reframe her to get her <strong>soaking wet hot-and-bothered</strong> &#8230; and to then <strong>associate those erotic feelings with YOU</strong> so YOU are the one she <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>attacks like a wild woman</strong></span> on the kitchen floor when you meet in person.</p>
<p>Good luck, peace, and piece!</p>
<p>- RJ</p>
<p><strong>P.S. </strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Listen:</span> when I first started teaching Speed Seduction® almost 20 years ago (back in the days of Usenet) I had no idea how far this would all go, and how much a part of our culture the internet would become for making erotic connections.</p>
<p>No matter what, though, the <strong>principles for scoring with women haven&#8217;t changed</strong>. And since enjoying damn near <strong>ridiculous</strong> levels of <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>success, satisfaction and pleasure</strong></span> with the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>most amazing women around</strong></span> is something you are highly interested in, wherever you meet them&#8230;then check out <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30" target="_blank">Speed Seduction® 3.0</a>. Get yours today:</p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Sep 2008 21:51:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student, Last night as I was laying in bed with my smoking hot Swedish girlfriend, Pernilla, she turned to me and said: &#34;Du ar min snuskig hummer&#34;. Translated from the Swedish, it means, &#34;You are my &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/her-filthy-lobster/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p>Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,</p>
<p>Last night as I was laying in bed with my smoking hot Swedish girlfriend, Pernilla, she turned to me and said:</p>
<p>&quot;Du ar min snuskig hummer&quot;.</p>
<p>Translated from the Swedish, it means, &quot;You are my filthy lobster&quot;.</p>
<p>Now, I have no real idea what the actual meaning of that Swedish idiom means. &nbsp;But what I do know is that I deeply enjoy Pernilla because she not only has a wacky sense of humor, but because she is deeply open to life, comfortable with her sexuality, and has a genuine sense of adventure.</p>
<p>Do I tell you this to make you jealous of my situation with my Svenska sweetheart?</p>
<p>Of course I do-I&#8217;m a guy, and guys love to brag about their hot women, right?</p>
<p>But really, I do it to make a point: &nbsp;you don&#8217;t need to be afraid of &quot;getting caught&quot; when you pick a woman with the right personality traits.&nbsp;</p>
<p>The reality for all of you guys who are afraid of &quot;getting caught&quot; is that healthy women-the women most fun to be with-WANT to be seduced if it is done skillfully.</p>
<p>In Pernilla&#8217;s case, not only did I NOT have to fear &quot;getting caught&quot;, but she actually knew who I was and what I did for a living before she met me. She had read about me in the Swedish version of &quot;The Game&quot; and found it all intriguing.</p>
<p>So what is my main point? Pick the right kind of women. &nbsp;Put it into your mind that you will seek out women who are comfortable with their sexuality and enjoy being seduced.</p>
<p>But keep your snuskig hander off of my Pernilla if you are ever lucky enough to meet her. &nbsp;She&#8217;s mine&#8230;.got that?</p>
<p>Peace and piece,</p>
<p>RJ</p>
<p>P.S. The quickest, most powerful and efficient way to reprogram your beliefs, behaviors, attitudes and actions to bring you massive success and satisfaction with women is my <a href="http://www.seduction.com/products/nailyourinnergamepromo.php">Nail Your Inner Game program.</a> &nbsp;Join the elite group of guys who are powering their way to seduction success with this cutting edge technology.&nbsp;</p>
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