Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s one word I REALLY hate. The “F” word.

No, I don’t mean “flirting,” “f@@%ing,” or “Facebook.” I teach smart guys like you how to do the first effectively so you can experience more of the second with women you meet in all walks of life as well as online on places like the third (Facebook).

The “F” word I can’t stand is “friends” – as in, when a guy Sarges on a chick and his game gets shot down when she says “Let’s just be friends.”

Man, it hurts my ears! In fact, learning how to effectively dodge and encounter this “F-bomb” is one of the most timeless challenges faced by my students. Case in point:

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Ross, what can I do to overcome resistance from a girl who says she just wants to be friends?

Things between me and her started out pretty fast, but it’s almost like she’s a bit scared now and is saying she just wants to be my friend. I mentioned that I didn’t want to play or abuse her mind and that I was looking for a truer relationship involving more than either “just sex” or “just hanging out.” I told her that maybe I didn’t want to be just her “friend” that way.

She said, then I would be like just another one of those assholes who never “understood” or “respected” her. So I said, “maybe we should discuss things.” She came over to talk. I tried many patterns on her, including touching and kissing. She said she loves to be with me as I’m fun and I allow her to just “be herself.” But man, it’s tough to get the “follow through” (beyond just being “friends”) when she shows resistance. I, of course, will move on from her, but I’m looking for some strategies for overcoming when the woman says “I just want to be friends.” Any good suggestions? I’m up for them.

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Many times I have taught and said: Never take her first response as written in stone. It’s just a reflection of how and what she is thinking, feeling and believing IN THAT MOMENT and it is always subject to change.

There are all sorts of REAL meanings to: “I just want to be friends.”

The worst case (which doesn’t seem like your situation, if you were touching and kissing her and didn’t get slapped) is that she isn’t attracted, fascinated or aroused by you … and just feels some comfort (you help her “be herself”). If this is the case, though, you are in trouble.

However, sometimes the “F” word means, “I feel deep feelings; if I have sex with you, my vulnerability will REALLY come out and you might be a person who will use that to crush me.” In other words, she has both desire (for you, for sex, for intimate contact) AND she also has fear. Could be she’s had some bad experiences and is looking at you through the lens of those bad experiences.

I encounter the same kind of resistance you are talking about. Yes, I, Ross Jeffries, get the “F” bomb dropped on me! When this happens I hold my ground and make no apologies. This might sound like BS, but staying powerfully congruent will get you far.

You are already powerful, and from what I can tell you have a great heart and are willing to learn whatever you can about a woman to help the two of you experience happiness together.

I hereby proclaim that you are LIGHT YEARS AHEAD of the clueless AFCs and Joe Schmucks out there who refuse to claim their power, results, and success with women.

Remember, the power is in you. And as you work your way past the woman’s resistance, say to yourself inside:

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s emotional 180s, her fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, her last minute buyers remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other up until now deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ve heard the objection many times. Some people say that the girl-getting patterns and phrases I teach smart guys to use when getting a woman irresistibly aroused are so obvious that chances are, the guy will get “busted” and “shot down.”

Like, the use of emphasis and nonverbal cues that I teach you to use while saying “it’s on” and “below me” for example. Today I was asked this question by a student:

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Many of your methods are so “obvious” that chicks can tell what a guy is doing, so he “gets caught” and she has a negative reaction.

For example, your method of stacking realities with quotes of alluring sexual content — she KNOWS what I’m doing and why I’m saying it, so she doesn’t buy into it when I do the “weasel phrases” or position it as something “someone else” saw or read someplace. No, she blames me for being a pervert.

How can I calibrate the interaction so I know if I will get a negative reaction? Can I counter-object and “save the Sarge”?

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I’ll let two of my students answer this one.

At my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Seminar in Los Angeles, we discussed this question and one of my students said something I couldn’t argue about.

When the woman noticed his innuendo and asked what he was up to, with a friendly smile he matter-of-factly told her, “Right! It’s called ‘flirting’ and it’s what a man does when he meets a woman he’s into.” (Note how even in his retort, he plants a suggestion.)

The woman who “caught him” shrugged and said with a little grin, “Oh ok…I was just asking.” By staying true to who he is and what he gives to the world, this student was able to resume the Sarge without skipping a beat.

During a conversation with a sexy woman about reality TV shows on getting women, another student mentioned my name as a leading pick-up artist. The woman said, “Oh, I know who Ross Jeffries is. Do you actually DO that stuff? Waaaaait a minnnute … you DO do that stuff! I can TELL!”

My student’s response: “As someone who knows what they want when they see it in front of them, doesn’t it make sense to get more of what you want? If I wanted a woman who is perfect for me and vice versa, wouldn’t I be doing both of us a favor by learning all there is to know about making you happy?”

She agreed and dropped the subject.

No, actually, she asked about Speed Seduction® again.

At 3:00 AM, with a dreamy grin on her face, after a steaming-hot two-hour makeout session with the guy, is when she asked.

Don’t let little objections get in your way. Counter them with truth and integrity and use my teaching to claim more of who you want in your life (and in your bed).

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

What you are watching here is a very early, sneak peak, first edit of my MindFrame Persuasion Home Study Course.

This is a few minutes from the Sunday morning session which was, in my humble opinion, simply the best teaching I’ve ever done.

Enjoy, comment below, and be patient. It will be at least 30 days before a course is ready, probably even longer.

RJ

P.S. The early notification list for the course is here.