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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In all areas of life, a key ingredient to success, whatever your definition of that word, is persistence.

Now let’s say you’re persistent, but something keeps going persistently wrong?  Or, looking at it another way, if something is persistently tripping you up or blocking you from claiming your results?

Let’s hear from a student who seems to be able to Sarge only in bars (ironic, I know, given that’s one of the hardest places to Sarge and one of the least recommended places as far as I am concerned):

> Im not afraid to approach women, I’m having trouble getting from right after
> hello and going into pattern at will, Also trouble with state control. I bring
> me old self with me it persistently stays. It sucks, I have had success but only
> in bars mostly that where I’m more anchored in good feeling and in a bar it
> the right place to sarge but outside going along with everyday tasks its
> difficult. Breaking state Im having trouble understanding.If I can get to
> patterns I got em but getting Im having trouble.

So what’s the “big idea” here?The big idea is this: you probably don’t need to add anything in. You probably just have to subtract out whatever internal processes are getting in the way.

You’ve got good feelings and no problem in a bar which is where MOST guys have trouble! So what is NOT going on in your head, in a bar, that DOES go on in your head, elsewhere? Or, what goes on in your head, outside of bar, that is ABSENT when you are in a bar?

What you need to do is subtract out what is getting in your way, when you are NOT in a bar.

Once you identify that, you’re one step closer to no-holds-bar-red success with the women you truly desire.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You know the saying, “All’s fair in love and war?”

I have news for you: it’s not.  Especially when she changes the rules on you in the middle of the game.

I’ve had many students report how they will be involved with a woman and then abruptly her behavior or response patterns will change.

Or, as one student called it, she’ll move the goalposts.  For example, once you’ve slept with her a couple times, she’ll want to start spending more time non-sexually.  Then, once that happens, she’ll start insisting you stop seeing other woman and go exclusive with her.

Hey, if she’s the one you really, truly, want to be with, and what you have brewing isn’t a “real-hate-shun-ship by default,” this being her way of drawing you closer might mean you’re getting your results.

Smart men like you draw the women you desire to be with closer to you by using Speed Seduction®.  So if she uses her own methods to accomplish the same goals for herself, isn’t turnabout fair play?

But what if you’re not ready for this?  Seems like an ultimatum: “Either be my boyfriend, or you don’t get to pet my kitty anymore.” (Especially sucks if she ALSO happens to have a really nice domestic cat who you enjoy hanging out with over at her place.)

Let’s back this up and look at it from another perspective.

Maybe what you offer her is SO much better than what she has experienced before and better than what she perceives she could get elsewhere, that NOW she doesn’t want to bother going anywhere else. In her mind, the feelings she has with you just are the best and she is afraid if you go away, she can’t find them elsewhere.

I would reframe this so she gets that yes… together you and she experience things wonderful AND she has also grown as a woman to the point where her ability to experience and have wonderful feelings might just extend to many MANY things and situations that have nothing to do with you. That it ISN’T just about you, but about how her own responsiveness and ability to feel inside have grown.

Way back in the day I knew a young lady who at first resisted me, because up until me, she had ONLY ever been attracted to guys who treated her like crap. I did NOT pursue this girl, but occasionally she would call me or I her and we’d hang a bit or talk on the phone. Each time, I extended her comfort zone just a bit more and had her affirm, ratify and REACH for more good feelings.

What shifted is, she no longer saw what she felt with me as being alien or something she had to get used to. NOW, she was defining it as what is NORMAL for her, and the old stuff is no LONGER normal. It’s now what she reaches for and what she wants, AND she is finding she can redefine who she is and what she wants IN OTHER AREAS OF LIFE AS WELL, so it isn’t just about me.

Now ask yourself: would that beat a poke in the eye?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Remember the phrase: “Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better…NOW.”

P.P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there – even guys who are better looking or make more money.  This is just a sliver of the trim-trimphing mastery you’ll find inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Wow, it looks like I really hit a nerve with my recent post on what to do when a woman freaks out on you.  By your comments on the blog and your emails, I can see this is a huge issue.

Now, let me address a related topic – the issue of persuading those in authority to do what you want them to do.  This applies, more generally, to getting what you want from those who have the power to decide if you will get it.

My SAAB Had ME Throttled…

I had a recurring problem with my SAAB. For the third time, the throttle body assembly failed on me and the engine just quit. They replaced the throttle body again, but I was concerned that the car was not really fixed since the problem had occurred 3 times in the row, it couldn’t be the part. Something else was really wrong with the car.

The head of the service department told me there was nothing more they could do but that I could call Saab customer service. He then said I could speak with the Chief mechanic, Mr. X.

Mr. X explained that if the problem happened again, SAAB would replace the computer that controls the engine. I said, “But I don’t trust the car and it is going to fail again. What if I am in the middle of the desert? I bought this car because Saabs are reliable and I want a reliable car. Now I know the problem will happen again.”

Mr. X said, “Sorry but that is Saab’s policy. If you leave the car we can run some more tests to see if we come up with anything more.”

Here is where I used the skills…

Sure, I could have yelled or gotten in his face and tried to bully my way, but the guy had the power to tell me to fuck off and send me through the Saab bureuacracy. I’m sure most customers would have and probably have yelled at him and cursed him out.

I said this,

“Look, this isn’t aimed at you as a person. It’s directed TO you in your role as the chief mechanic. When you take off that shirt tonight, it has nothing to do with you. It’s just that I feel stuck and I don’t know what to do. I don’t trust driving the car and I need you to help me. But if you can’t, I understand you don’t set policy and nothing personal. I understand you are doing your best.”

Then I just shook his hand and walked off and got into my car. He yelled out, “Wait a sec… FUCK SAAB. I’ll call the factory and order the computer. And I’ll put it in for free.”

I thanked him and offered him some money which he refused. I insisted, “You are a just and fair man. You could have left me hanging but you are doing the right thing and you deserve this.”

When I took the car back to get the computer put in, he not only did that, but he gave me a new battery for free; apparently the car battery was getting old and almost shot! And he removed some paint from my bumper that got on their from a hit and run driver in a parking lot!

My point: if someone is in authority, they are used to getting yelled at and attempts at domination. They are also probably used to “SAAB STORIES”… ha ha… begging and pleading.

If you point out that it is not about them, personally, but about their role in their job, then they can give in to you but keep their dignity and sense of self-respect, as now they are on YOUR side. They probably don’t like the bosses anyway, so why push them to identify with the bosses / bureaucracy by attacking them and blaming for things they don’t control?

Would you rather “prove a point” that doesn’t really matter anyway, or enjoy a life where you get more of what you want, more often?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Want to blast through the “Persuasion Killers” that are blocking others (including the women you desire) from doing what you want, and enjoy a fantastic power to irresistibly influence others?  Then you need my MindFrame Persuasion® course.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Before you can effectively seek a behavior – as in, get a woman to do what you want her to do – there’s something else that needs to happen first.

I explain further in this video:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  This video clip was taken at my January 2011 Los Angeles 3-day seminar.  Our next stop is London and it’s coming right up – the seminar starts Friday, April 1 (less than 2 weeks away).  Click here to get the full story and reserve your seat now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Once again, I reach into my lovely mail bag and pull out an e-mail I got from a student about… his attempt to e-mail an HB9 he met at a party.

Some of the patterning was good, but it came off…just…BAD because the context was WAY OFF.

> I met this girl HB9 at a party full of people 3 weeks ago. I talked with her only for a few times and for short periods.  We kept getting interrupted by her friends, an attempt by another guy to cockblock me.  She behaved also like a social butterfly talking to different people, breaking conversations fast, etc.  I managed to get her email address just before she left.

Yeah, in what context? In other words, was it done after you and she were into each other, you had captured and lead her imagination and emotions, future-paced spending time together, as in, “It’s too bad we can’t FIND A WAY TO HANG OUT AGAIN AND SEE WHAT WE COULD ENJOY”.

Or did you just say, “give me your email”?

I think it was more the latter, rather than the former.  Anyway, let’s continue.

> My first email to her was two weeks later.  It read:
>
> I am Matthew, I enjoyed meeting you at the party.  It was pleasant and without giving you the impression to be too serious, too early, I learned how much it is rare to find someone funny, authentically sympathetic, nice and charming; but enough about me, you seem to be also a potentially interesting girl
>
> By observing you that evening, I noted that you were rather sympathetic and smiling. At the same time, you showed some reserve when in contact with new people. It is as if there is an interior conflict in you between a natural reserve and a desire to connect with others.
>
> You know, with me, you can feel at ease, be completely yourself without needing to play a social part or without having fear of being judged.  The tolerance, the open mindedness and the compassion for me and the others you showed are paramount values which guide my way of being, thinking and acting.
>
> Could you describe me one of your passions? You know one of these activities in which you feel yourself completely transported, completely absorbed by what you do, where time seems to be slowing, until it stops and where you feel the spirit, the flame in you that shines. And it is in one of these moments, that you feel yourself more alive, that you feel the most passion and that you are more in contact with the spiritual force which is with each one of us and which then appears with the most clearness and beauty. For me, I am fascinated by literature and in particular by poetic creation. If you like also poetry, we could exchange poems and give our respective impressions.
>
> Please answer me,
> Matthew

After trying to salvage the situation by snagging her e-mail address from the clutches of total defeat, why did you mastur-wait for two weeks before dropping her a line?

How do you know she liked you on that first meeting?  From what you described, it seems like you were struggling to get two words in.  How do you know?  And then what? A personality reading? It comes across as begging for her approval, trying to impress her.  Total AFC here.

Next, how was she tolerant, open minded and compassionate?  How do you get all that from a casual chat at a party that kept getting interrupted?

Speed Seduction® isn’t about reciting speeches that have NO relation to the context, the person or anything that you yourself have experienced. These aren’t Magick chants.

Well, She Answered The Following Day

And…it was a doozy.  I knew she’d answer – but I saw this coming before I even read that far.

> hi matthew,
>
> thank you for your message, but, how did you have my email??  you know, I spoke with many people that evening. what did we talk about, at which moment of the evening?  what do you look like?  sorry I can’t remember.
>
> unless you tell me more about you, I am sorry but I won’t be able to talk to you further.

Ouch. She didn’t even fucking recognize who you were. That’s my point. In a seduction situation, email, texting, phone calls, can work, but without a command of non-local influence, you have to put in the work IN PERSON, FACE TO FACE.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. What this student was trying to do was shift her thoughts without saying a word and without even having to be in her presence.  Right idea, wrong formula.  Join me where I show you the RIGHT way in our Secrets Of Energized Magick, Manifestation and “Non-Local” Influence Seminars.  Click here to reserve your seat now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Worried that you might offend her when you lay it on thick or use a phrase like “Blowjob Pattern”?

In this video, ripped right out of the brand-new Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection, I reveal a clip of me demonstrating actual Sarging techniques with Christine at one of my recent live 3-Day Seminars.

It’s chock-full of morsels of girl-getting wisdom, so watch it now:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

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