Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

I often get asked, in e-mails I get from students as well as during live appearances on video chats and in-person seminars, what are some of the best pick-up lines for guys to use on chicks.

Let me begin by stating: I don’t teach “pick-up lines.”  Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training (MITs) use conversational patterns.

So let’s ask: what IS a “pattern”?

A “pattern” is much more than memorized “lines” or even complete “speeches”.  It includes a more broad variety of actions/methods/techniques designed to engage the woman, capture her vibe, and appeal to what drives her…wild.

I know you want to see some pattern language in action.  So before we go any further, watch this short video clip of me working a hot Brazilian chick at one of my live seminars into an erotic trance.  (My apologies in advance, this clip is low-quality, but you’ll still be able to hear and see what’s happening.)

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More importantly: the right question can be a “pattern”.

A “pattern” is any communication that captures and leads a woman’s imagination and stimulates her emotions in the right direction.

Which of the following, for example, is a “pattern”:

1. What do you do for a living?

2. What do you find most challenging about what you do, and what do you find most fulfilling about what you do?

Do you get my point here?

Here’s another example:

1. Where was the last place you went on vacation?

2. If you could go somewhere where money and time were no object, where would you go, and what kind of….things…would you like to try?

Here’s a fun assignment: come up with a typical question women get asked by Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) guys. Then take a stab at coming up with a Speed Seduction® version of the same question that actually would stimulate her emotions and imagination in a useful direction.  Post them here on the blog!

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A few weeks ago I was at one of my local hangouts in LA, working on some e-mails on the WiFi while checking out the bevy of bodacious babes that were swarming the place….and Sarging on a few of them.

My concentration got interrupted by a scene caused by a very desperate looking fellow.

See, this is the type of place where, after you finish your food order, you take the tray up and dump your garbage in the trash receptacle and then leave your tray.

Apparently, he had gotten some hot chick’s number and had accidentally left it on his tray when he tossed it. He left the restaurant, then realized his mistake, and came back hoping to get the phone number back. He was pleading with the manager for help. Coincidentally, the restaurant staff had just emptied that particular receptacle and taken its trash out to the dumpster in the back.

So he said to the manager: “No problem, I’ll just go into the dumpster and dig it out. No problem. It’s the one on top right?”

Manager’s flat-out, no-bullshit, no-messing-around response: “No, you won’t.”

Cut to the chase: guy who thought he was about to score with some babe, walks out dejected, knowing he “blew it.“

Yeah, I’d say he blew it.

He blew it from the moment he set “scoring the digits” as his goal. If this chick was so hot (and hot for him), what stopped him from scheduling a follow up meeting with her, then and there? What stopped him from making his move, then and there? Why did he take what was happening RIGHT THEN and willfully postpone it until an undefined “later” that might (and now DEFINITELY will) never come?

Too many smart guys are programmed into following “dating rituals.” Wait to get her number…wait two days to call her…then wait two days to see her…wait till the end of the date to give her a kiss…then wait till the next day to call her to say it was great…and then wait a day before calling back to ask for the next “date.”

Look: “wait” on THIS.

It’s true, the women ARE waiting. For you. So, champ, what are YOU waiting FOR?

If she’s here, now... and she seems interested, now… make your move, NOW. If she says no, fine, move on. But when she says yes (and she’s more likely to say yes because the vibe in the air that has her intrigued RIGHT NOW will dissipate if you go away and try to come back later), the results will sure beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

One of the great things about learning Speed Seduction® (and also one of the most challenging) is that suddenly, you find yourself in situations with women you’ve never or rarely experienced before.

Suddenly, hot girls want you.

Suddenly, girls you are hanging out with start showing you the signs they want you to “move in for the close”.

Now, the challenging part is, if you are suddenly thrown into a situation that you aren’t used to handling, if you don’t have some responses prepared and ready, you might be stuck holding your “progress” in your right hand, wondering what went wrong!

So often, beginners ask about “closing” the girl, physically. When do I make that big move for the “kiss”? What are the signs she is ready? Etc etc.

First, foremost, uppermost, important-most: it is a BIG mistake to think of “closing” as something you do later on, as part of a sequence of events.

In sales, you have what’s known as the ABC Principle.

ABC = Always Be Closing

Same thing with women: closing includes ANYTHING that paves the way for further physical intimacy. That means: YOU ARE CLOSING FROM THE MINUTE YOU FIRST APPROACH!

I’m aware that some of my “competition” teaches that these things take place in discrete “stages”, and while at times it may be useful to think of it that way, the more accurate model is that, as a woman’s emotions open to you, she can be ready…

…AT ANY TIME!

Furthermore, closing is not about “kissing” or “petting” or even intercourse. It’s about none of these specific actions or events.

To be clear: CLOSING IS A CONTINUUM OF MAKING HER PROGRESSIVELY MORE COMFORTABLE WITH CONTACT, PHYSICAL INTIMACY AND TOUCH!

Touch of any kind builds comfort AND arousal, at the same time, if done properly.

Now, in 48 hours I’m going to send you a follow-up where I go deeper into the issue of “kissing.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you Sarge on the amazing, incredibly sexy women in your world, the goal is to succeed with as many women as possible who meet your standards, based on the screening tools that you use to interpret the feedback they give you.

Like I’ve said: it’s a matter of interpretation. I hear many stories about students of mine who effortlessly approach a woman and use my techniques for getting her aroused and excited, but they don’t “make the move” because they just can’t tell if she’s really interested, or if he goes for the close, she might slap him.

Case in point:

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I would appreciate some good tips from you on “women’s signals of interest”. Also if there are any exceptions to those “signals of interest,” meaning they really may not be what they sound like….I am really terrible at this, although the obvious things are slamming my forehead screaming “Dude, wake up!!! That’s the signal!”

I still somehow hesitate because most of the time I am really unsure and don`t wish to screw up anything – and most importantly lose her as a friend.

Last time I had coffee with a friend of mine, everything was fine. We chatted a little bit and had some really good laughs. Somehow I noticed there may have been some interest from her side. Although she smiled, I still wasn’t too sure if it was a GO or NO GO. I mean, a man can’t simply see a woman’s interest just from her smile, if she is having a good time or laughing about something unless it is you.

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Thank you for your excellent question. My answer is in two parts.

First, let me challenge your thinking. Are you looking to make more friends, or are you looking for Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters with dripping-wet, hot women? I first powerfully approach women, then based on the feedback they give me I decide what category they fit in. When you approach women, you need to be clear on your end goal – and focus ALL of your energy, skills, and power toward claiming that goal.

Second, you don’t need to wait for sure to see if there’s interest on her side. When you use Speed Seduction®, you’ll see the fascination and desire in her face. I call this the “doggy bowl dinner” look.

The student I spoke about on my blog last month who had sex with the squirter on the first date told me that he had encountered challenges “reaching” her during their dinner to the point where he almost took her home early. But back at his place, after some bantering and patterning, she gave him this “look”. He chose to interpret it as her way of nonverbally saying, “it’s on” and powerfully made his move. He used Speed Seduction® to tell the difference.

Peace, piece, and here’s “looking” at much girl-getting success,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In my one-on-one teaching with students, I often run into the many ways guys get tripped up by what they were incorrectly taught before. For example, guys are taught that after you meet her, you’re supposed to get her phone number, then wait two days to call her so you can invite her to meet you three days later for coffee, where you’ll chat for an hour and then….?

Let me be the one to clear this up: that’s complete, total, and utter bollocks.

But unfortunately, because these misconceptions are so prevalent, it can seriously trip up your game with women. Case in point:

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I have this feeling of not having the energy to call women that give me their phone numbers after our initial meeting. It’s like, the feeling is that I like the excitement of the approach, the smile on their face when they finally surrender their phone numbers. But something is holding me back from calling them and getting them to surrender themselves to me.

It’s like the feeling of not knowing what’s on the other side of the room, or not knowing the outcome that I am really looking for. At the same time, it’s like rejecting myself by not moving forward to do something about it. Can someone explain how I can “break out” of this and take things to the next level?

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Let me ask again. When you approach a woman, why is your end game to get her number? Why not go for the whole enchilada, then and there?

The goal of Speed Seduction® is getting her invested and involved in the erotic interaction with you, right from the start, in the first two minutes of conversation. Doing the approach in hopes of getting the phone number squanders the opportunity.

The desire she then feels for you should be an overwhelming signal to her that she must go for it with you, as quickly and as totally as she can, or risk missing out on an incredible chance to have her wildest and deepest desires and needs met – by you.

How much a smile indeed will be on her face when she surrenders herself to you…and THEN says “this was awesome, here’s my number, call me and let’s do this again next week.” I bet it will beat a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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