Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’ve said before that pretty much every woman, regardless of her position on the HB scale, is probably at some stage of “seeing someone” or at very least, is no more than a couple phone dials away from an on-demand booty call.

That doesn’t make it any less annoying when she says she’s “seeing someone”, as this student relates:

> I’ve been casually dating this smoking 24 year old (I’m 50). I’ve run some connection patterns and done some values elicitation and she has been quite responsive, but she says she’s seeing some other guy.

> The other night I was out and she was at a bar a few blocks away watching her “guy” play in his band and texted me to come to see her at said bar. I texted back, told her thank but no thanks, I’m not interested in that scene.  Ten minutes later she shows up where I am, we talked some, I ran some patterns and we ended up making out in the corner.

> She’s calling me but I’m not interested in being friends (which she is hinting at) haven’t run the boyfriend destroyer or blammo yet. Your thoughts?

RJ here.

Sounds to me like you are waiting for an engraved, gold-lettered invitation to get physical. Mistake.

You are over-valuing her because of her looks and youth. Re-position this in your mind as an opportunity for her to get a real f@@king from a seasoned guy who knows his ass from his elbow in the sack.

Don’t worry or even think very much at all about the other guy.  He doesn’t know Speed Seduction®. You do.

Rather than look for too many more patterns I’d adjust your thoughts and attitudes towards being more sexually forward and owning and claiming your sexual intent with your women who please, satisfy and delight you in every way.

She’s waiting.  For you.  Now what in Nicole’s knickers are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to be excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

One of the most crucial skills is knowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and time I’ve heard it again, from students and other smart guys who approach women with a specific sequence of actions or memorized pick-up lines.  There’s a reason why I hear it.

One (or more) of three things will usually happen(and many times one leads from the other):  a) She’ll pick up on it and give back non-receptive vibes, b) He’ll choke and beat a hasty retreat, c) he’ll find himself in a place where he has to psyche himself up each time he approaches a woman.

It gets worse.

The now-despondent male will often seek the advice of friends or heed the “conventional wisdom” and buy into the beliefs such as “Just be yourself,” “Love will happen as soon as you stop looking for it,” and (it pains me to say I’m not making this up) “You have to BE a friend to HAVE a friend.”

OK, enough. 

Please, hear this: 

This is why I say there are NO “answers” or “information” or “one right way”. There are only POTENTIAL answers and information that only become actualized by your testing, experimenting and ACTIONS in the world.

A huge piece of the puzzle is that guys have a severely restricted and slowed method of learning what works with women.

The ratio of worry/thinking to acting is way, way off and the primary method of learning is not experimenting in the world, but thinking about things.

Remember: Free your mind, and HER ass will follow.

Free your mind means looking deep into the code of how you’ve been keeping yourself stuck.

If the real structure of “stuck” is doing huge amounts of thinking and very little acting, then putting MORE or different thinking through that system won’t give you much change.

And you won’t get far with just a little pocket change.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You don’t always have to say a lot to “close” a woman.  Sometimes you’re in a hurry and don’t have time for chit-chat but you are highly interested in the woman you’re speaking with now and need to move things forward quickly.

I know how much you guys love word-for-word patterns, so I know you will truly enjoy this video clip:

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine reported a challenge he was facing.  When using various seduction patterns, he found the same thing kept happening.  He was getting the “B answer” result that might have kept conversation going – as opposed to the “A answer” which would have been a turbo-charged ride on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Let’s hear from him:

> Hi guys, today I’m stuck at home, and I was just going true my sarge journal. I noticed that most of the time I used the natural vs social pattern I ended up in a in intellectual discussion instead of becoming more of an authority in her world. Now that I think about it I’ve had the same problem with a pattern. I don’t know what it is called but it’s a combination of apposition of opposites and the fascination pattern. Do any of you guys have recognize something you might have done wrong in the past and that I can pay attention to. Or do you have any ideas how I can prevent these patterns from becoming an intellectual discussion and turn them into trance generators?

OK, RJ here again.

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: what attitude, energy and “vibe” about yourself is being communicated ACROSS and along with the “words”?

Are you communicating a crying need for approval? Are you hiding BEHIND the patterns, hoping against hope she won’t notice what a “geek” you are? What is the message about yourself that is being communicated along with the pattern language?

Listen: I’ve said it over and over and over and newbies don’t LISTEN AND GET IT NOW -

Think of the “patterns” as being more than the memorized “speeches”.

ANYTHING that opens her imagination and emotions is a “pattern” including your attitude, energy, what you notice and use in her responses, the questions you ask her, etc. etc. etc.

Now, think about this: if you wanted to send a 1,000 volt current, would you try to conduct it across a sheet of cardboard or a sheet of gold foil?

Equally good current, but the conductive medium matters.

Your attitude and energy and belief are the conductive medium across which the “voltage” of the pattern language will either go straight to her or simply go nowhere.

Second: have you ever really used your imagination and gotten some of the experience that you are describing in whatever “patterns” you are using? Do they reflect anything YOU have actually dreamed about, imagined, or experienced or are they merely empty words?

Third: Some women don’t get “abstract” concepts. Some have to have you address THEM directly: what excites them, what THEY enjoy what THEY do when they want to escape, get away, indulge themselves. Only AFTER that, can they at all open to more abstract discussions, like Natural vs. Culturally programmed woman.

How can you tell, in advance, if she’ll respond to more abstract patterns like Natural vs. Culturally programmed? Well, experience, in the field. But I would not start out with this pattern, especially with younger women. Save it for women in their late 20′s at least.

Start out with things that deal with HER world, and her direct experiences. If she responds well, build on that.

Make sure you also fractionate along the way; occasionally return to “fluff” talk. Challenge her to make sure she is adventurous enough and has a good enough imagination to explore these kinds of things.

Remember finally: THE pattern of ALL patterns is to watch her responses and utilize them! If she isn’t responding, back up, change themes, change what you are presenting, etc. etc. etc.

There is no “one” memorized pattern that works all the time for all women. Give up that fantasy. I have done “Incredible Connection” for years and some women melt into puddles in seconds, others NEVER GET IT.

So f@@king what? I haven’t just given you a single shot flintlock pistol. I’ve given you a 6,000 round per minute Phalanx II super-Gatling gun with unlimited ammo, to use a hostile metaphor.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Every so often I find it necessary to debunk the naysayers.  Today is that “every so often.”

For example, those who say Speed Seduction® is silly or that “any intelligent woman would see right through it and think you’re a weirdo/perv/psycho.”

This particular band of naysayers say that if they used patterns and suggestive language, the woman they were using them on would lose her arousal right along with the soda pop that gushed through her nose as she laughed uncontrollably while taking a sip.

Here’s the thing: understanding phonological ambiguity and how it applies to phrases like “go inside”, “below me,” and “new day” is only half of the pie.  People hear those phrases almost every day but don’t automatically have sexual thoughts and images appear in their head.  Consciously, there often is no sexual connotation at all.

Meaning, OF COURSE that chick you’re chatting up isn’t automatically going to think of Private Wood showing up for calisthenics just because you drop the phrase “new direction” at a random point in conversation with her.

And if you use tonality incorrectly or at random, when you’re telling her about your latest ski trip and all of a sudden you change your tonality and say “new direction” with an abrupt lascivious look in your eye: yes, she’ll “get it”, and no, you probably won’t…”get it”.

So let’s amp up your understanding a little.

Do you ever have dreams at night? Do you CONSCIOUSLY think them up?

MOST of how we think, respond, act, feel and behave is outside of our conscious choice and awareness anyway.

As for the phrases like “below me” and “go inside”:

These things aren’t used in isolation. They are used as part of a chain of suggestions that are, themselves, part of an overall theme of discussion.

By themselves, isolated, they have no effect.

But as part of a chain of ideas, they have powerful effect.

Are you starting to get it now?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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