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I, Ross Jeffries, Hereby Declare A “State of Sarge”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 24th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

ca 94040792 180 I, Ross Jeffries, Hereby Declare A State of SargeWhat’s worse than being in that “not so sweet spot” where you’ve met a woman, and you don’t know what to say to her? There she is – right in front of you, this incredibly sexy hot babe who, up until now, you never in a million years DREAMED would be sitting right next to you, hanging on every word you say. Yet…

… you can’t find the friggin’ words!

Rather than dazzling her with smooth banter, you’re internally going berserk while hoping she doesn’t notice the 24-pound giant cat that has sunk his claws into your tongue and stretched it all the way to the floor like a flaccid fruit roll-up.

Later the “right words” will come to you, all right. While you’re back at your place, alone, imagining what it would have been like to score with her.

Well, all that’s about to change. Effective immediately, I hereby declare a “State of Sarge” because it’s time to …

… Get Into The State For Conversating, So You Don’t End Up M*****bating!

Many guys find they don’t have a lot to say when she’s right there, because he’s “been there” before. Say the wrong thing, or even say the right thing but with the wrong pitch, and she’ll drop you faster and harder than an 18-pound bowling ball comes crashing when dropped off an 18-story building.

When you find yourself internally whining to yourself about girls who “shot you down” on the playground in third grade, you’re not going to be in the state of Sarge that gets you to home base with the woman who’s here, right now.

Instead, close your eyes, relax, and alter the “shot down” state you’re in. Visualize the results you’ll be getting when having the right conversations with women. Focus on how you WANT things to be and the way you WANT things to go, and the chances are you’ll get there a hell of a lot faster.

ca 36858504 325 I, Ross Jeffries, Hereby Declare A State of SargeHave you recently had a Sarge that went horribly wrong? Does it seem like your overall “batting average” with the ladies is in a slump? Do you find yourself so wrapped up in what went wrong, that you can’t vision things going right?

When you find yourself reflecting on “Sarges gone bad,” I challenge you to focus on what went RIGHT. Then, release any worry or angst about the “dumb things you said or did” and the moment when she gave you a dirty look and walked out on you. Because now, it doesn’t matter.

Stay focused on where you WANT to go (that being, back to your place for a night or weekend of “screaming with ecstasy ’till the neighbors call the cops, mind-blowing” sex)… and with that vision as your guiding force, you’ll get there faster.

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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It’s time to get that friggin cat off your tongue. Click here to learn more and get yours now!

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7 Tips To Supercharge Your Speed Seduction® Success!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 26th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Part of learning any new technology is understanding some basic principles. So here are some tips that I have found have helped many students master the initial Speed Seduction® learning curve in a shorter amount of time.

ca 30402870 180 7 Tips To Supercharge Your Speed Seduction® Success!Remember, a critical part of what I teach in Speed Seduction® is learning to use your language to…

Capture and Lead A Woman’s Imagination and Emotions!

As I have taught again and again, whatever you can get a woman to imagine will be perceived by her to be her own thought, and thus will not be resisted.

Women especially like to be led by their imagination and emotions! Then, and only then, will they give you the behaviors (love, sex, etc) that you crave and want.

Remember, women want good feelings, and my tools and language patterns are geared toward either doing this or gathering the information you need to do this.

Tip 1: The patterns are examples, NOT rules.

Many students think that unless they present the patterns to women, word for word, that they won’t work or get results. THIS IS JUST 100% FALSE! The patterns are only examples..very GOOD examples..of the kinds of communication that turn women on. They give you the structure. But they aren’t meant to be rigidly or exclusively followed. Learn from them HOW they work, and you’ll be able to quickly create your own patterns.

Tip 2: Women enjoy the patterns, so forget about being caught.

So many beginning clients feel like they are doing something wrong…a small minor crime like picking a pocket or stealing a wrist-watch when they approach women to do the patterns! Hey..the patterns are designed to make women feel wonderful! At the very least you are brightening her day and doing her a favor and at best turning her on unlike anyone else ever has! So far from feeling bad, you ought to excited about the gift you are giving her!

Tip 3: Practice the patterns out loud!

The patterns are meant to be SPOKEN, not read! You can’t really master the tonality and tempo unless you practice OUTLOUD! THIS STEP IS CRITICAL!

Tip 4: Take a little bit each day!

Speed Seduction® is like learning a whole new language and a whole new way of thinking! Be fair to yourself and master it all naturally as it comes! Take your time and just do a little bit every day! You’ll be shocked at how much you master in just a few weeks time!

Tip 5: Pattern Flow Is Important!

ca 35316342 180 7 Tips To Supercharge Your Speed Seduction® Success!One of the most crucial skills isknowing how to transition from one pattern to another! In one letter, I explained how to make flash cards to quickly learn how to flow from one pattern to the next! If you haven’t done that…DO IT NOW!

Tip 6: Understand The Conversational Set-ups!

Patterns are hard to use if you don’t know how to introduce them and bring them up in conversation! For each pattern you want to use you ought to have at least two ways of bringing it up!

Tip 7: Practice Your Closing!

So many guys have told me they’ve run patterns but when it comes time to closing the deal..they are stuck! Well, as I have said, if you want a result, you’ve got to rehearse it! So prepare your closes in advance so they flow from you naturally and without thought when you need them!

Peace and piece,

RJ

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When You Call To Ask Her Out And Get Her Voicemail

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 21st, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

So, you’ve approached and met and are now in conversation with that incredible hottie you just spotted from across the room. You’re in your Sarging “zone” and the rapport is building faster and hotter than the greatest orgasm you’ve ever experienced.

ca 10050093 180 When You Call To Ask Her Out And Get Her VoicemailYou dig this chick but right now, you’re running late for your appointment / client meeting / dentist appointment / picking up your dog or cat from the groomer and you need to pick this up another time.

This is the “moment of truth,” pal.

Handle it right and you’re off to the races… botch it and your next mind-blowing sex will be with Rosie and her sisters. What do you do?

The following student reports he has been “scoring” with a long string of answering machines:

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Hi Ross, I have to say that your pick up line approach and getting a girl to hand her phone number out is the most unbelievable thing I have seen. I am approaching girls anywhere I see them! Now I am getting women’s numbers, but when I call her I have like zero rapport with her because we talked for 60 seconds before she gave me the number.

What steps do I take to get women to return calls when I call them to ask them out on a date, since women rarely answer their phones and I usually have to leave a message. What’s the best phone message pattern you use to get the best callback response?

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First, let me clarify something. If you’ve spent 60 seconds with a woman and gotten her phone number, you’re not going to be asking her on a date. “Dating” is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with. Unless you’re a “minute man” I don’t think you’ve had sex with her yet.

That said, why are you getting her phone number, then calling her up later to set up a meeting? When you wait till later, all you’re doing is… waiting. Every single day that goes by is 1,440 LOST minutes you could have spent (at least some of) with her, sharing adventures and hot wild experiences.

ca 10008092 180 When You Call To Ask Her Out And Get Her VoicemailIf you’re doing a “five minute close” on a woman you’ve just met, either because you’re pressed for time or are still mastering your walk-up technique and use the “short and sweet” approach to get her involved, don’t get her phone number so you can call her up later to set up the next step.

Close her on the date and time of the next meeting then and there – BEFORE you move on to otherwise living your life.

First close her
, then experience dripping wet sex with her, and then worry about having her phone number… so you can call her the next day before you see her again.

That is what I “call” a plan for Seduction success.

Peace and piece,
RJ


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Among many other things, I teach you three new and different ways to use the initial walkup to open and access the most hyper-erotically responsive aspects of her psyche. Do this instead of getting her damn number so you can call her “later.”

Claim yours, and start picking up the pace and shortening the distance to ultimate Seduction success, now!

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“Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 16th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Hitting a “grand slam” requires skill, strength, and focus. Create the vision that your bat will connect to the ball with powerful force and send it flying right out of the park, and channel your skills to get your results and claim your future. Sounds simple enough?

ca 67935924 180 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?Well, sometimes smart guys like you step up to bat, but then can’t seem to harness the positive energy to make the approach and close the deal. When this happens, you strike out. But are you striking YOURSELF out?

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Hey Ross, I purchased my first Speed Seduction® product a while ago but I’ve just starting applying it within the past few weeks. A group of us get together at a local shopping center to go Sarging. I have made about 25 approaches – small fry approaches really like commenting on the environment, asking the time, or asking for directions.

For the last week though, it seems as though the quantity and quality of my approaches has dropped. For example the first two weeks I could at least manage to have a pleasant, if short, conversation with a hot babe, but now all I can work myself up to do is the most unambitious and dull approaches (such as asking the time.) My quantity of approaches has also dropped from 5 or 6 in the first few weeks to just 2 last week.

It feels as if I’m regressing. I regularly practice breathing meditation. The only thing that I can think of is that I have fallen into the trap of comfort with my fellow wingmen. Because I am comfortable and at ease with them I no longer feel the same pressure to prove to them that I am putting in the effort. Consequently I seem to be feeling and acting like I did when I tried to Sarge alone (and failed). What can I do?

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First of all, why did you wait so long to get started? As I’ve said before, every day that goes by is 1,440 lost minutes that you will never get back. There are no “do-overs” pal – but there is the chance to “do NOW.” What’s stopped you until now?

ca 41841277 325 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?In Speed Seduction®, I teach students the techniques for using the information, feedback, and “vibe” that women put out as a means of reaching them on their level and opening them up and blazing the path toward Seduction success.

Just like men react to the vibe women give off – if she’s warm and open we’re likely to proceed, if she’s cold and closed we’re more likely to “Exit, Stage Left” – women react to men in the same way.

So I ask you, what “vibe” are you putting out there? What does it say about who you are and what you give to the world?

Is it the kind of vibe that shows a woman that you are open, attractive, appealing, and open to new explorations? Or does it say “I’m not really sure I should be talking to you, and besides, I don’t know what to say?”

If you ask me, there’s something inside that’s holding you back. In order to explore the virgin (or not-so-virgin) territory of those stunning sexy women at the shopping centre, find out what’s stopping you from launching the expedition.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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My Nail Your Inner Game System is the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck entirely, or stuck at a very underachieving level, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

Claim yours now, and blast through the barriers that have held you back… until now!

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