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Video 9: Forget Pick Up Lines, Use The Blurt Out!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 9th, 2009
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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

P.S. Did you know enrollment is now open for my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar? We’re filling up fast, so go here to check out what I’ll be teaching and while attending will be the best decision you’ll ever had made.

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Meet Women With This Direct, Can’t-Miss Opener

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 2nd, 2009
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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Sometimes, the best approach with women is the direct approach.  And sometimes, when you run out of things to say, you need a “fall back” line that just doesn’t fail.

In this video, I reveal that line.  It speaks the truth in a simple, direct, non-threatening and honest way that usually has a very strongly positive impact.

Why?

Well, when most men go to meet women, they try to hide their intent, or they bludgeon women with that intent.

As an example of the latter, my Swedish sweetie, Pernilla, got hit on a lot when she was out here in LA, and the guys almost always just ran up to her and asked her out, without any introductory conversation at all.

Talk about clueless.

But I really like this opener because it comes across as something other than a pick up line.  And remember, pick up lines usually don’t work because they are predictable, trite, boring or even offensive.

But this one really rocks it. You will successfully meet women with this direct, can’t miss opener.

Please watch, and comment below.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Enrollment is now open for my London Seminar, this August. Details are here.

P.P.S. For those of you who want to know if I teach “direct game” well, here is your answer.

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Are All Women WHORES?

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 5th, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It is my considered opinion that all women are whores.

Does that sound hateful to you?

Well it’s time for you to grow up and open your eyes.

All women are W.H.O.R.E.S.

Wonderful Human Organisms Requiring Erotic Satisfaction

Now if you think I’m being a little cute or tricky in this ezine issue, ok, I conceed the point.

But sometimes we guys get so into our complex theories of how women work, or even more so, get so caught up in our fantasies and ideals about them, we forget that basically, biologically…

…Women Want To Get Their Erotic Needs Met As
Strongly And Urgently And Deeply As We Do!

Now please don’t get me wrong; I’m as far from a politically correct “men and women are totally equal” feminist as you can get. Men and women are NOT equal or the same. The psychology of men and women around sex and love DOES differ.

We can argue all day long whether that is due to social conditioning or biology or both, and to what degree and extent, but personally I’d rather enjoy watching paint dry.

What I can say is that is demonstrably true that women, for the most part, crave sexual satisfaction as much or maybe even more than we do.

So never forget in all of the theory and practice, the bottom line: women want to be satisfied between the sheets, against the wall, on the table, and most importantly, IN THE COOTCH AND THE HEART.

A big start to this is knowing how to touch a woman to get her smoking hot in seconds. To find out more, check out my Irresistible Arousal DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Secrets Of Continuous Conversation: How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say: Part III

Posted by Ross Jeffries on July 22nd, 2008

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the last issue of this ongoing ezine series, I explained how getting her doing most of the talking is a key to you never running out of things to say and a good way to get her doing most of the seduction work.

Now let’s get to tip #3:

Secrets Of Continuous Conversation Tip #3:
Know What To Topics To Discuss When You Are Going
To Be Talking
Before I give you this tip, it’s crucial that I make a distinction: this isn’t just about never running out of things to say. It’s about saying things and getting her talking in ways that capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

A good general rule here is that if what you are discussing can be put on a chart or a graph or a prospectus or resume…

…It Is Probably Not Going To Capture And Lead Her Imagination And Emotions

There is a half-truth floating around out there that says men are not as verbal as women.

The full truth is that we guys are just as verbal, but our language tends to be factually based, referring to data, facts, figures, numbers etc.

When you want to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions, you need to speak in language that addresses the right brain-the seat of emotions, fantasies, desires, etc.

And even more importantly, you need to be able to get a woman talking about these themes, topics and subjects, because when a woman talks about something…

…She Revives The Emotions And Feeling States Associated With That Topic

Have you ever had a woman start talking about a negative, painful subject and watch her mood progressively get worse and worse?

If you are a “nice guy” and have been the guy women dump their problems, complaints and pain on, you’ve probably witnessed this as you’ve suffered thorugh your career as her “emotional tampon”.

Don’t I just have a lovely way with metaphors that stick in your mind?

Anyway, since women revive the emotions associated with the topics that they are talking about, it is crucial to know what topics to introduce to get her emotions moving in the way we want them to move-towards lust, desire, fascination, desire, connection, etc.

Doesn’t that just make sense?

Here are a few topics that you should always have a way to bring up with women.

  • Fantasy, escape, diversion, adventure
  • Indulgence, cravings, spoiling herself
  • Connections, with others, nature, beauty, something bigger and more beautiful than she expected

If you’d like to know all of the topics, and many easy ways to both speak about them and get women talking about them, all the way to your bed (or floor or couch), check out my Home Study Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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