Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Another so-called “axiom” that I can’t STAND… yet another example of how smart men nonetheless get socially programmed into Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs) is this:

“Nice guys finish last.”

So, if I’m following this, women claim (as reinforced by the romance industry) that women want sweet, sensitive, NICE guys… because they, too, are programmed that they’re “supposed” to… but deep down, they want a “bad boy” or even a “jerk” because supposedly they’re more “exciting.”

People: you can’t have it both ways.

For this one student of mine, being a “bad boy” does not come naturally to him.  He’s charming, and he’s got girl-getting game.  But he thinks something’s “missing” – namely, that “bad boy” persona that he is convinced is the cooter-soaking “cinch” that will have him beating off the babes with a stick…as opposed to…well…you get the picture.

Here’s where this student thinks he’s stuck…

What happens in my own seduction process is that sooner or later, something happens and women decide I fall in the “nice guy” category. I don’t do the “AFC” thing – I do not attach excess meaning to any one woman I’m sarging.  I don’t put up with games or nonsense, and I clearly position myself as “the prize” (limited availability).

Some reason though I end up as the guy they want as the “boyfriend” and not the fling.  So bottom line, women tend to take more time before hopping in the sack with me because they see me as “boyfriend material” rather than a “disposable fling.”  Maybe if I was more of a “bad boy,” the woman would show me her “bad girl” side.

Wow. So women think you’re a prize catch?  What a terrible problem to have!

Seriously though, I think there are ways to approach this without having to reinvent yourself as a character from an early Marlon Brando movie.

Perhaps you simply need to better structure her expectations from the beginning.  As in, not seeing her more than once a week (instead of “always being there”). Not allowing yourself to be available for large chunks of time (so she sees you as a “prize” she needs to work for, rather than the doormat who’s always on her front step). Or, simply, better screening to find women who really are only looking for flings, if that’s what you want.

Or you may just have to stop being such a champ in the sack that she decides you MUST be a “keeper” and tries to hoard you for herself, ONLY!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. It’s true both ways: “bad boys” can’t pull off a “nice guy” act anywhere as convincingly as a genuine Nice Guy.  What if, instead of trying to be something you’re not, you had a “stealth charisma” that was subtly attractive, completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone?  Click here to learn how to get it, starting now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s great to hear from smart guys who aren’t just talking about it or thinking about it, but who are out there actually DOING it…with steaming hot women!

Listen: there’s an unlimited supply of amazing women waiting for you when you’ve learned the fantastic secrets I teach in my Gold Walkup DVD. Once you get this stuff down, you’ll never have to worry about what to say, ever, anymore, again!

In fact, here’s an awesome note I got recently from a student, that I shared with my readers in my daily newsletter:

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Ross, you are awesome!

This woman had been telling me she likes me in so many words for over 2 years, but because I’m hitched she would never make a move and told me so.

Recently I met up with her and hit her with 3 or 4 patterns while at lunch. As I worked the patterns, she stared blankly in space as she absorbed the vision she was getting.

Two weeks later we had lunch again. She started showing me naked pics of her boobs and told me she was gonna f@@k me regardless of my status! She attacked (grabbed and kissed me on the lips) out of the blue on the elevator going back to work!!!!

I have your patterns memorized to the “uh huh” phase, but still I have not Sarged much with different women like I want to. I would give ANYTHING to actually hear how you actually paused, and what your tempo sounded like when you got the waitress in trance. Any tapes I can buy to hear it for myself???? U R DA MAN!!

Thanks Ross! – L.L.

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Dear L.L.,

Wow. What a difference in women’s behavior toward us when we know how to capture and lead their imaginations and emotions. Then it’s a totally different game where you can write your own ticket, without gambling or guessing.

Congratulations again L.L. on stepping up. That’s what it’s all about.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S. The reason L.L. has her begging him to f@@k her is because he studies my teaching and applies it to his own situation in the way that works best for him. He’s persistent, he doesn’t give up easily, and he keeps his eye on the prize. He shoots…and scores!

The women are waiting…what are you waiting for? New Year’s? The time is now…get your copy of Speed Seduction® 3.0!

http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/