Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

It’s just five days until this Sunday’s (November 22) “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries“.

For about the cost of dinner for two, which you’ll be paying for less and less of to get laid once you start maximizing my teachings in your girl-getting game, I will work directly, live, and in-person with a select group of students to help you master your success with women. A few lucky participants even get to come up on stage for one-on-one teaching and coaching.

Why do I do it? It’s because Speed Seduction® gets you the women you really want without resorting to bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze.

I opened up my e-mail this morning and received the below from a student:

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I think your techniques are incredible. You really are a master of Human interaction. I borrowed a friend’s Speed Seduction® Course along with some seminar stuff and vaguely studied the techniques. I put it into action what I could remember.

I improved the rapport I have had with the women in my life, which has been life-changing for them, and for me too. I really understand their energy better, which helps all in the long run. It can even help make positive change in the women in our lives, help them understand themselves better, as well as make our lives better. I have seen it and done it because of your help. Well done, Ross!

Most weekend fights in bars are caused mainly by men who can’t get laid. If these same men were educated on how to understand women better and how to approach them and create better relationships with them, and if women were to understand that they could in fact talk to men, because they, ‘might touch them at a deeper level’ (get it!!) We would be in a much much better place as a society as a whole. We continue learning.

I must thank you Ross. Good luck, and keep teaching men how to be men.

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On my blog, I wrote an article about the transition from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Amazing Fascinating Champ with women. In it, I explain that how you present yourself to the world now is what matters most. Who you create yourself to be and how you communicate through that is infinitely more important than how others used to see you – and even how you used to see yourself.

Remember, you alone control the vibe you put out to the world. By taking action and claiming your vibe, your future, and your results with the most incredibly hot, amazing women (both inside and out), you will find that life is not only richer, but a lot more fun. And THAT sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Repeat this to yourself: My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

P.P.S. Let me help you claim these results now. Join me in Marina del Rey this Sunday (November 22) for my next “Afternoon With Ross Jeffries.” We have a few seats left, don’t miss out. (And if you can’t make it, you can pre-order the DVD.)

P.P.P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then you need to claim your copy of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System and become the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

The other day I decided to screw around and broadcast live for an hour on my Ustream TV channel. I related some interesting personal seduction stories, talked about my students’ challenges, and took questions from viewers.

One of those questions really struck me as something I’d like to discuss with you today.

The question was this, “Why does it have to be so hard to succeed with women? I try and I try everybody’s stuff and I still feel I’m barely getting anywhere?”

Has this ever felt like you? Have you ever felt like this?

Listen: if we’re honest, we’ve all felt this way. Felt confused. Felt that somewhere, some-when, in some distant and untouchable reality, there is a version of ourselves who is doing so well. Who gets it all. Who has fulfillment and satisfaction instead of confusion and “almost there”.

In reality, however, success with women doesn’t have to be that difficult. Sure, it requires some work and some effort. But it does not require struggle when you know how to come at it systematically.

It all breaks down to three elements:

1. A good working model of how women think, feel and behave. If you want to get somewhere, you have to have an accurate map. Speed Seduction® provides that by letting you peer deep into the operating system of women; how they create their emotions and behaviors. And once you get that, they become understandable, guidable, and very very seduceable.
2. A good way to control your state of mind, create a new sense of possibility, a new set of beliefs and attitudes that serve your progress, your success and your ability to learn and improve (and find fun) in every situation. Remember 1/3 of Speed Seduction® is teaching you how to build, maintain and grow a better you.
3. A good technology for getting results in the field, in the real world, with real live women. 1/3 of Speed Seduction is teaching you the actual steps with women: how to use your language to evoke their deepest emotional states, their strongest desires. How to get them talking in a way where they reveal everything you need to catapult them right into your bed (or the hood of your car or the desk, or wherever!)

Listen: when it comes down to it, any challenge, no matter how daunting, is solvable and winnable when you look at it in terms of systems and procedures, rather than isolated and disjointed “problems’.

You can have clarity instead of confusion. You can have luscious pink pleasure instead of lonely longing. You can have succulent success instead of settling.

And you can understand and enjoy the whole process along the way.

Let me show you how, right here.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Since I started teaching in 1991, I’ve had thousands of students, and many of them-about 40%-have been engineers of one kind or another. These brilliant fellows have taught me an appreciating of thinking in a systematic way-I’m naturally far more wildly creatively and artistically minded.

So if you happen to be a process-oriented kind of guy-information tech, attorney, engineer, scientist-I’d really love to talk to you through my Coaching Program. Check that out here.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Dear Speed Seduction Student,

In this first of 4 parts, I describe how to use “focusing commands” to create a sense of flow in the sexual feelings you create in women.

Note a few finer points:

1. Just because a woman has a sexual feeling doesn’t mean it is strong enough for her to act on it.

2. Feelings that have movement are what gets her in motion-right into her bed.

3. When I start using these, I put them in quotes.

Please give me your comments below, and note also that if you want to skip to my absolute best and most complete course, with tons of this stuff, go check out my Speed Seduction 3.0 Course.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Please feel free to share this video by embedding it in your own blog, Facebook, etc. You have my permission. Let’s spread the word.

P.P.S. Give me some examples in the comments section of your own “focusing commands” and I’ll pick the best response to win a free set of my new product, “Best Of RJ Coaching, Volume 1″.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #3 of 10 in my Youtube  Beyond Dating Tips Playlist) I discuss the nature of approach anxiety-what it really is-and how to destroy it so you can enjoy the ability to approach and pick-up(and seduce) hot women with ease.

I have a radically and fundamentally different view of approach anxiety; I don’t view it as being about fear of rejection or even fear of the approach

Rather I view it as neurological friction; the result of two equally powerful and conflicting desires arising in your neurology at the same time.

What are these?

The desire to move forward and talk to the woman(or women) and the equal and opposite desire to stay right where you are and not say a word until you are certain that what you are going to say and do will work.

Let me give you a metaphor to understand.

Suppose I gave you a radio-controlled toy car.  And you gave it the command to turn left and turn right at the exact same moment.

What would the car do?

I think you know the answer.

It would freeze up and spin its motor until it burned out or the battery ran out.

Is this beginning to make sense?

A huge breakthrough will occur when you now realize that approach anxiety isn’t really that at all. It’s internal conflict manifesting as neurological friction and cognitive confusion.

Now there is one more complicating factor and that is the meaning you give to the feelings of neurological upset.

If you conclude that the anxious, or rather FRICTION feelings means that you face some external threat-that you are about to be rejected, defeated or humiliated in the external world, then you are going to create secondary anxiety about that.

Now, in addition to the internal conflict, you get to add in a nice dose of fight or flight syndrome.

So what is the solution to all of this?

Watch the damned video. And if you’ d like to go directly to Youtube to watch, and so you can help me spread the word by rating and commenting on it, then it’s How To Destroy Approach Anxiety And Approach Women With Ease.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Hey, could you please do me a favor and help me out? If you’ve found value from this article, and/or the video, could you please help me spread the word by Twittering the video’s Youtube URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8R4tJjXqJ7k.

P.P.S. Did you know when you follow me on Twitter you can ask me anything and usually get a reply within just a few hours?

http://www.twitter.com/rossjeffries

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m more convinced than ever that 90% of the success and satisfaction you can enjoy with women is influenced far more by what is between your ears than what is between her legs.

Now, don’t get me wrong here.

As you are about to learn here, I do NOT believe in “positive” thinking when it comes to women, money, or anything else.  In fact I think “positive thinking” is one of the most destructive illusions that has ever been peddled.

Here’s why.

Positive thinking usually just amounts to “shut your eyes, ignore that fact that you are failing or are miserable, and pretend things are going the way you want them to go”.   Just “believe” and you will achieve.

How “Positive” Advice Multiplied My Personal Suffering With Women

I can’t tell you how frustrated I used to get at all the “positive” advice I got from friends and relatives back when I was a 20 year old virgin, desperately trying to end my loneliness and get my freak on.

What kind of crap did I here?

“Just love yourself and then women will love you”.  Yeah, right.

“You’ll find someone”.  Well, eventually, maybe.  But who wants to wait? And who wants “someone”?

“Just be nice. Women love nice guys”. Don’t get me started.

The Real Problem With “Positive” Thinking

The problem with “positive” thinking is that it is oftentimes an invitation to ignore the reality of your situation, to turn a blind eye to what you need to learn, and to keep on repeating mistakes.  It’s tied together with another destructive “mind virus” that is part of our culture: “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

How About A Dose Of Informed Enthusiasm Instead?

What I would actually like you to do is junk positive thinking entirely and instead work on developing what I call informed enthusiasm and intelligent motivation.

Informed enthusiasm simply means that you’ve trained yourself to spot where you are doing well, across many different levels; some obvious and some not so obvious.  And, additionally, you’ve developed an incredibly effective way to remove confusion from situations that don’t’quite go your way and to see exactly what you need to do differently the next time.

Intelligent motivation comes from knowing that, while you may not get what you want right away, you certainly will learn what you need to get what you want, or better.    It’s a totally reality-based confidence in your ability to learn from each and every encounter and situation with women.

If you’d really like to learn how to totally reform your thinking, beliefs, attitudes and perceptions about women, and develop a lighting-fast, super-efficient learning system check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.  This is my best breakthroughs from 20 years of research from helping guys from all around the globe go from stuck to stardom in bed with women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  If you are feeling you’d like to have me as your personal seduction teacher, coach and mentor-have me there personally to hold your hand and walk you through, you can watch some free samples of my Coaching Program videos here,

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Fans And Students,

“This is where we hold on to them by the nose, and kick them in the ass”….

From all of the comments I’m getting here on the blog, it looks like all of you are as excited as I am about the big smackdown I am going to levy on the entire seduction community, tomorrow, Friday the 13th, at 12 Noon Pacific Time.

A few-just a very few-people have been given a sneak-peek at what I’ll be taking live in a little less than 24 hours from now.

Here is what one of them said:

“Oh man, now you did it!!!!

The goddamn genie is out of the bottle and there’s no putting it back.

If you get assassinated, can I have your lil’ black book and your work notes?”

Now, I don’t think it is going to go that far. And I’ve got a friend or two from Mr. Smith and Mr. Wesson, so I don’t worry about my safety too much.

Hell, if push comes to shove, I’ll just pick up Tabbatha and throw her at an attacker.

But I do think that the entire  “give me your email address and I’ll send you my free report/PDF/video” model that the whole seduction community relies upon will  sink like the Titanic after tomorrow.

(I happen to be on the mailing lists of nearly a dozen “competitors” and I NEVER read their emails anymore. I just give them all a never-opened yahoo mail account and then I get my free “whatever” which is usually pure crap in any case, or a “teaser” with a little bit of value and a whole lot of shit.  Does anyone out there still really give their primary email address to these clowns?)

One way you know you are in control of the marketplace is when every other player is forced to change their game to adapt to YOU and what YOU are doing.

But what can idiots who offer nothing of value, offer of true value, for free?

NOTHING.

So stay tuned here, because tomorrow, 12 Noon Pacific Time, is where we give out the link to get the most amazing, truly free, NO FUCKING EMAIL SIGN UP REQUIRED, seduction program in the world.

Hell, you don’t  even have to be one of MY students. Frankly, I hope this attracts people who up until now have NOT been my students, who think I am the biggest asshole loser in the world and that Speed Seduction(R) can’t possibly work.

Please, if you are one of those unwashed masses, tune in here tomorrow.

Because what I am about to unleash so clearly demonstrates my superior skills as a teacher of a clearly superior system, that even you  knuckleheads and misled children of “cocky/funny” will see the light and come to Sargy.

Ok. Gotta go calm down, meditate and enjoy the last few remaining hours before I let rip on the imitators, impersonators, peacockers and counterfeiters.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Get my latest and best seduction program right here, right now.