Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m more convinced than ever that 90% of the success and satisfaction you can enjoy with women is influenced far more by what is between your ears than what is between her legs.

Now, don’t get me wrong here.

As you are about to learn here, I do NOT believe in “positive” thinking when it comes to women, money, or anything else.  In fact I think “positive thinking” is one of the most destructive illusions that has ever been peddled.

Here’s why.

Positive thinking usually just amounts to “shut your eyes, ignore that fact that you are failing or are miserable, and pretend things are going the way you want them to go”.   Just “believe” and you will achieve.

How “Positive” Advice Multiplied My Personal Suffering With Women

I can’t tell you how frustrated I used to get at all the “positive” advice I got from friends and relatives back when I was a 20 year old virgin, desperately trying to end my loneliness and get my freak on.

What kind of crap did I here?

“Just love yourself and then women will love you”.  Yeah, right.

“You’ll find someone”.  Well, eventually, maybe.  But who wants to wait? And who wants “someone”?

“Just be nice. Women love nice guys”. Don’t get me started.

The Real Problem With “Positive” Thinking

The problem with “positive” thinking is that it is oftentimes an invitation to ignore the reality of your situation, to turn a blind eye to what you need to learn, and to keep on repeating mistakes.  It’s tied together with another destructive “mind virus” that is part of our culture: “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

How About A Dose Of Informed Enthusiasm Instead?

What I would actually like you to do is junk positive thinking entirely and instead work on developing what I call informed enthusiasm and intelligent motivation.

Informed enthusiasm simply means that you’ve trained yourself to spot where you are doing well, across many different levels; some obvious and some not so obvious.  And, additionally, you’ve developed an incredibly effective way to remove confusion from situations that don’t’quite go your way and to see exactly what you need to do differently the next time.

Intelligent motivation comes from knowing that, while you may not get what you want right away, you certainly will learn what you need to get what you want, or better.    It’s a totally reality-based confidence in your ability to learn from each and every encounter and situation with women.

If you’d really like to learn how to totally reform your thinking, beliefs, attitudes and perceptions about women, and develop a lighting-fast, super-efficient learning system check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.  This is my best breakthroughs from 20 years of research from helping guys from all around the globe go from stuck to stardom in bed with women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  If you are feeling you’d like to have me as your personal seduction teacher, coach and mentor-have me there personally to hold your hand and walk you through, you can watch some free samples of my Coaching Program videos here,

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Fans And Students,

“This is where we hold on to them by the nose, and kick them in the ass”….

From all of the comments I’m getting here on the blog, it looks like all of you are as excited as I am about the big smackdown I am going to levy on the entire seduction community, tomorrow, Friday the 13th, at 12 Noon Pacific Time.

A few-just a very few-people have been given a sneak-peek at what I’ll be taking live in a little less than 24 hours from now.

Here is what one of them said:

“Oh man, now you did it!!!!

The goddamn genie is out of the bottle and there’s no putting it back.

If you get assassinated, can I have your lil’ black book and your work notes?”

Now, I don’t think it is going to go that far. And I’ve got a friend or two from Mr. Smith and Mr. Wesson, so I don’t worry about my safety too much.

Hell, if push comes to shove, I’ll just pick up Tabbatha and throw her at an attacker.

But I do think that the entire  “give me your email address and I’ll send you my free report/PDF/video” model that the whole seduction community relies upon will  sink like the Titanic after tomorrow.

(I happen to be on the mailing lists of nearly a dozen “competitors” and I NEVER read their emails anymore. I just give them all a never-opened yahoo mail account and then I get my free “whatever” which is usually pure crap in any case, or a “teaser” with a little bit of value and a whole lot of shit.  Does anyone out there still really give their primary email address to these clowns?)

One way you know you are in control of the marketplace is when every other player is forced to change their game to adapt to YOU and what YOU are doing.

But what can idiots who offer nothing of value, offer of true value, for free?

NOTHING.

So stay tuned here, because tomorrow, 12 Noon Pacific Time, is where we give out the link to get the most amazing, truly free, NO FUCKING EMAIL SIGN UP REQUIRED, seduction program in the world.

Hell, you don’t  even have to be one of MY students. Frankly, I hope this attracts people who up until now have NOT been my students, who think I am the biggest asshole loser in the world and that Speed Seduction(R) can’t possibly work.

Please, if you are one of those unwashed masses, tune in here tomorrow.

Because what I am about to unleash so clearly demonstrates my superior skills as a teacher of a clearly superior system, that even you  knuckleheads and misled children of “cocky/funny” will see the light and come to Sargy.

Ok. Gotta go calm down, meditate and enjoy the last few remaining hours before I let rip on the imitators, impersonators, peacockers and counterfeiters.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Get my latest and best seduction program right here, right now.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Wow.It looks like my post the other day about Tom Leykis really touched a nerve.

Mostly it generated overwhelming support. You guys are mostly very pleased that I’ve made a strong distinction between Speed Seduction(R) and Leykis’ idiotic “girl-hating” Leykis 101.

However I have been getting some colorful hate mail. Mostly illiterate and obscene. And most of it not worth answering.But some of it appears fairly thoughtful, praising Tom's ongoing effort to warn men against the manipulations of gold-diggers, users, etc.

Ok. I get that. I can see the value. But when you step beyond issuing warnings and cross over into advocating being an exploiter and user yourself, then you are really getting into dark(and ultimately self-defeating)territory.

And here is the point you Lekyis Luvin' Loonies missed: Tom's view of women is directly reflected in his view of sex-it's about dumping loads. About building a charge and discharging. About fluid pressure building and releasing. In other words, it's just and only a highly enjoyable and more vivid form of jacking off. Just using another human as opposed to pictures or movies.

Hey, you don’t need a philosophy for that. Just a few Ben Franklins and your nearest strip-club.

And speaking of philosophy, here is a point I want you fans of Tom to try to understand: "What the thinker thinks, the prover proves". If you put on a filter that only looks at women as evil, manipulative, vicious, self-centered exploiters, THEN THAT IS WHAT YOU WILL SEE.

I’m not talking about some idiotic “New Age” doctrine from “The Secret”. I’m talking simple psychology; if you create a strong sort filter, your brain will sort out what doesn’t fit with that filter.And equally importantly, what you set as your vision will be the limits of your experience.

If your vision of sex is simply dumping loads, you will probably dump lots of loads. But you will very likely never experience it as anything better, more exciting, or more satisfying and fulfilling.

Don't get me wrong; occasionally we guys all want to just dump loads. Hey, occasionally we all want to eat junk food. But it isn't exactly something I would like to have as the only choice on the menu.

'Nuff said about this to all you Leykis Loonies. I think it's time you raised your sights in terms of what you expect from women AND in terms of whom you turn to for advice. Might I suggest, as only I can, that you subscribe to my newsletter?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Why don’t you check out my Speed Seduction Home Study Course? It will put you into a world of satisfaction with women that Leykis can’t get with all of his fame and money.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Way back before there was an on line dating advice/pick-up girls/seduction community(how is that for loading an article with key words??) there was just Eric Weber's classic book "How To Pick Up Girls".

I remember reading back when I was in college(and still a virgin!) and I found the lines to be ludicrous. I couldn’t even imagine using any of them, much less actually using them as a model for what to say to meet women.

But one thing I've discovered is that you actually CAN say some of the dumbest lines in the world and actually have them work, IF you do something else first.

What is that something else?  Simple: BEFORE you say the idiotic, corny line, say something dull, routine, normal, even boring. If you are standing in line at Starbucks, ask her to please pass you the milk. If she is carrying a handbag, comment on it, matter of factly, without any attempt to be funny or stylish in the comment.Then you pause, look at her with a puzzled look, and DELIVER THE STUPID PICK UP LINE. 

It works like this:

You: Nice shoes

Her: Thanks

You: You aren’t Jamaican, are you?

Her: No

You: Cuz you're jamaican me crazy.

You: Ok, that is the second dumbest thing I've said all week to meet someone I might really like.

Then proceed onward with some of the methods I teach in my Speed Seduction courses

The bottom line here is that effective behaviors require the right sequence and the right ingredients. Dumb pick up lines work, IF they are delivered after the common comment. Check it out for yourself and report back here on how you do.

Peace and piece,RJ

P.S. If you have a dumb-ass pick up line that you’ve used, please post it here on the blog.

P.P.S. If you don't have my Gold Walk Up DVD you are really missing out on easily meeting a constant stream of available and willing women.