Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I need to make the following crystal clear: Speed Seduction® gets you more success with more of the women you truly desire, more of the time…

…without having to get sucked into the mastur-waiting game or resort to the 5 Bs’ (bullying, buying, begging, BS, and booze – as well as #6, biceps).

A student of mine, while explaining how he bedded a woman using specific techniques he picked up by spending an hour in the Secret Training Collection, then added the qualifier “she’s sort of thick and a little chubby in the belly area…but I like that on her.”  As if to defend himself for having invited a thick chick for a ride on his baloney pony.

I only had one issue with this: he felt the need to defend his choice.  (Yet another example of how social programming and the “media” with their false “ideals” are brainwashing smart men right out of their power of choice with women.)  Turns out, he has a thing for big, tall, thick women.  Bonus if she has long, curly black hair.

Let me say it again: more success with more of the women YOU truly desire, more of the time. 

Instead of a life by default, an existence where “getting lucky” is an event rather than part of who you are and what you do, now YOU claim YOUR choice with the women you find most attractive, according to YOUR preferences.  No more settling for whomever gives you the time of day, if you’re “lucky.”

You Can Have The Kind Of Woman You Want, When You Create The Motivation To Respond

How do you initially hook in and grab the attention in a way where more of the kind of women you want become OPEN to “seduction oriented” patterns, suggestions, etc?

This is from an email discussion I had not too long ago with a friend.  First of all, it isn’t so sequentially cut and dried. I always do everything, all the time, while also being aware of what I need to do in sequence.

Here is what I’ve found works to get that initial locking in of attention and desire to respond.  This may work for you as well.

A woman can hook into:

1) Analogs: she may like your tone of voice, tempo of speaking, body language.

2) “Vibe”: for lack of a better term. Some women pick up on “energy” and are attracted, unconsciously, before they are even aware of it consciously. It filters up or percolates up once you start talking to them. You may do this by ritually preparing and “programming” this with what are known as sigils.

3) The format: some women love games and quizzes. Suggestions put through that format work and get responses whereas in other formats: like questions or direct demos of trance, they don’t.

4) Some women hook into touch: You may have to TOUCH them to open them up to more.

5) Sometimes they may hook into you not caring that they are not hooking in! Not exactly a Mystery Method “freeze-out”.  just a sense that you don’t care that they don’t care.

Now, this is just Part 1.  Yes, there’s more.  I know, I’m such a tease some days.  Meet me back here in 24 hours and we’ll explore 7 more.

In the meantime, remember: her looks, her personality, her essence, all of that is HB10 based on how YOU define it.  Go for the kind of woman YOU want, for YOUR reasons.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.  I want to point out that the 120+ video trainings in the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection are tightly focused, presented in a linear fashion (usually with PowerPoint highlights), and organized by subjects students like YOU told me you want, need and demand to know!  Click here to get instant, 24/7 access, right now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

So, you want to get her horny?

You’re smart enough to know that blatant sex talk is probably not going to get you there.

You want to move things to the next step, to pursue the next stage of intimacy), eliciting the states of irresistible arousal with what she really enjoys doing in her life.

Let’s say you know already she likes music, Renaissance art, taking road trips, and volunteering at the local animal rescue.

How do you use this playing field to get her horny?

I think a good model or map is helpful so you can learn WHERE to point the tools.

One model I suggest is that women have a left brain, a right brain, and deeper levels of both.

My aim is to get her attention to make a right turn, as close to 90 degrees as I can get it to go. Then I want her to make another 90 degree turn and head DOWN into the right brain, and come back up with the feelings/information/attitudes/responses that I would like to have linked to me.

Now, down there, in the deeper levels and layers of the right brain, imagine compartments, adjacent to and touching each other, sharing common walls.

The compartment where she keeps her feelings/responses/processes about sex, love, lust, letting go, etc are often right next to the compartments where she keeps her FRP’s about indulgence, adventure, escape, fantasy, fairy tales, etc.

And often, they overlap and share space!

So, I can go directly for the sex/lust/connection/surrender compartments or I can get into the ones that are next door/share space, start to shake things up, so the sex/love/lust compartments wake up to, send there signals back up to the surface of the right brain, where it comes out as visible and available responses that I can use, in the form of energy/feeling/words/self-anchors, etc.

In doing this, certain things are required on my part: state control, awareness, calibration, knowing what to spot and how to direct it.

Anyway, that is my model.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. If this sounds like something really esoteric and high-tech, then perhaps you need the ultimate “Seduction Road Map”.  Click here to get it now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!

Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.

Here it is:

Dear Almighty Guru Ross,

Thanks dude!

I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…

Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….

BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild…..  I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….

So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model….  SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..

Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha

I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?

I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….

I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.

I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…

WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!

Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)

THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…

THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)

I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….

Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?

So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. My Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course is just what you need to stuff some pink stocking for the Holidays.  Get your copy now and get cracking with puss-packing.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Let’s say you’re out and about and walk-up to a hottie and really hit it off.  Or, you’re at a party and your host’s best friend is an HB10++++ and she smiles just right while hanging on your every word.

For s$%@s and giggles, maybe you’re online and chat with a woman, seeing her on “cam” verifies she actually IS hot, and she’s just so flirty and cute and 10 minutes from you and agreeing to meet you, in the succulent flesh, firm booty and huge tits and all, for coffee the next day.

All of these scenarios make you feel good.  Hey, nothing suck-seeds like suck-sess, and few things crank up the dial on a sunny day like a beautiful woman’s smile when it’s meant for you.

Problem, though.

You start to feel a new state coming on…then it erupts within you like a volcano.  Next thing, you associate her sexy eyes and twinkling smile and the way she says “babe” in her awww-shucks way…

… and are consumed by RAGING LUST, DESIRE, AND HORNINESS that obliterates any and all other feelings or senses.

Clearly, this is NOT a good state to come from when approaching women.  You end up getting invested in the result of bedding HER (rather than “interested in the woman” and “invested in sharpening your skills”) but, nevertheless, there it is.  BAM.  Your girl-getting game and experience goes out the window and it’s a very, very short ride to AFC-Ville.

How Do You Put Carnal Desire In Its Place So You Get Her Back To YOUR Place?

You realize it.  You need to get yourself into a calm, centered, powerful, playful, exploratory place, or the only good those desires will do you will be to give Jimmy a fighting chance in the hand-to-hand wrestling match you’ll have in about an hour while thinking about her.

Yet at the same time, you want to USE and CHANNEL that energy that arises from this “desire states” to HELP you get the results you want.

Here’s a quick exercise you can do, at that moment, to get these desires working FOR you, instead of just working you.  (NOTE: this requires a certain level of self-awareness and if that’s an area where you need changework, you want to check out Nail Your Inner Game).

1. Ground into your feet. Bend your knees slightly and feel your feet pressing into your shoes and the ground pressing back up through your shoes/feet
2. Tune into the lustful feelings and see if you can find the edge or border where they fade out into almost disappearing. Then hold your attention on the very border/edge of the feelings, just before they disappear. That will help.

Think about it.  Your mind full of raging lust, desire, and horniness…. or HER full of raging lust, desire, and horniness as she presses her succulent body, firm booty and huge tits and all, up against you?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding how to fit all of your thoughts, actions, responses and ideas with women into the right frame – the frame of NEVER supplicating, begging or “asking”, but instead, offering challenges, structuring opportunities and eliciting/evoking processes is the single most important key to getting at least three to four times more women.  Learn more about this right here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Coming to you from Trondheim, Norway.

Many of you have asked me for “here’s-how-it’s done” demos of how to use my girl-getting techniques, so here we go.

Watch this short clip of me putting the lovely Alexis into trance, using the information and feedback she gave me during the Sarge.  Be sure to leave a comment below.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. This clip is from my recent LIVE 3-Day Seminar in New York City.  Our next live seminar is just a week away – August 13-15, 2010, in London.  Find your reasons to join me by clicking here to learn more and reserve your seat (you can bring a friend, too.)

P.P.S. Can’t make it to London?  No worries, we’ll catch you next time.  In the meantime, you REALLY should consider this (click here).

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Wouldn’t you like to have a “stealth charisma” that’s subtly attractive (regardless of how “good looking” you are), completely undetectable, and utterly independent of any external validation from anyone? Especially women who you’re worried might think you’re ugly?

It’s time to get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now with the success you’ve always wanted. All of this (and much more) are in my Nail Your Inner Game course.

CLICK HERE TO GET YOURS TODAY!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and again, something that starts out so hot, can turn cold fast in an instant, and for no logical reason.

Many students of mine report that their initial meeting with incredibly hot, horny, WET women goes extremely well – but then, too soon, she dries up, flakes out, and leaves the guy “high and dry.”

I recently worked with a smart guy like you who follows my teachings, who had just such a thing happen.

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Man, has the past week been a whirlwind for me! About ten days ago, I met this stunning hottie while I was out running errands. I ran a 5-minute pickup pattern on her and closed her on the next meeting so fast that even I wondered what the hell just happened.

So, a few days later, we meet, we go to dinner, and we go back to my place. Dinner at the restaurant was good, but dessert – served in bed – was hot and JUICY! This chick came 13 times in 20 minutes. And she SQUIRTS! She came so hard and so often that she couldn’t move her legs for a half hour afterward.

I saw her again a few days later and we went on a more traditional date (that I planned to lead up to another night of passion) but she seemed cold and distant from the moment I picked her up. Knowing I couldn’t open her up that night, I took her home early. I closed her on the next meet and left. That was scheduled for tomorrow. Today, I got a text message from her that says “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

Oh no….the wet squirter chick has dried up! Can I pour some water on this to get it going again?

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Everyone, pay attention to this, this is very important;

When you skipped the “dating rituals” and instead used Speed Seduction® to succeed with this woman you wanted, you experienced what was probably some of the hottest, WETTEST sex of your life. The problem is, this chick is playing a game she doesn’t know how to handle.

She could be shocked that she went to bed with you so quick, and unsure how to approach you. Maybe the sex with you was so intense that it created feelings she can’t handle. Could be she was cheating on her boyfriend with you. Perhaps she was looking for a one-night stand to “ride her hard and put her away wet” and was kidding herself when she took a chance on there being “more.” The “date” you had with her a few days later probably clarified this for her.

This is life in the fast lane, fellas. With Speed Seduction®, however, you can bypass all the dating b.s. and find the “gusher” who will be your “Old Faithful” and spray again and again.

Get off your Seduction a@@ and back on your Sarging horse – she’s out there waiting and wet for you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One more point. You will never really know what “changed” for her. It’s not your job to figure it out.

YOUR job is to take the girl-getting skills that worked (the 5-minute pickup, the first meeting that led to her soaking your bed with her girl juice), and apply them to the next 10 women you meet who are even hotter than this one particular squirter chick.

P.P.S. With what I teach you about this principle throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS in Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll have everything you need to handle matters when the squirting chick “dries up” on you.

These power teachings will ensure many “eruptions” to come!

Get yours….now!