When smart guys like you begin to make the shift from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC), to powerful seduction master who gets the women he really wants into bed, things come up that you might not have expected.

For example, there is a difference between the feelings and emotions you feel when you fantasize about the hottie you want to bed (or watch the porno starring the chick who looks like her), versus when you have actually gotten her back to your place, gotten her irresistibly aroused, and have had mind-blowing, steaming hot sex with her.

Seriously – it can mess with your mind. Listen to what one of my students recently reported:

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Hey Ross, you are my hero! A week ago I met a “10″ hottie in Starbucks. Using your pick-up techniques, in 5 minutes flat I arranged a meeting with her for the following Monday. In the meantime, I kept in touch with an email and a quick phone call just to build her anticipation. So, Monday rolls around, we meet for dinner. The dinner goes alright, and then we go back to my place. Once we get back, one thing leads to another, and before you know it, we’re having awesome sex.

I’ll tell you the truth – it’s been almost a year since I’ve had anything this good with a woman. I took her home late because we both had to work, though we had talked about her staying the night. The next day I called her and we set up another meeting, which will take place in a few days.

Problem is, the suspense is killing me! I can’t get her off my mind! The next night I couldn’t sleep in my bedroom because it still smelled like her perfume in there and Febreze wasn’t enough to make it go away. I worry constantly that I’m going to get a call or a text from her that says she can’t make it, even though on the close for the second date, we agreed on the date, time, and place for our meeting. It’s affecting my concentration, Ross. I’m afraid that I might get anxious and lapse into AFC behavior that could blow the whole deal. This has happened before. What do I do?

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First of all, congratulations and GOOD ON YOU, my friend! You have made a HUGE, HUUUUUGE leap toward Speed Seduction® Mastery. THIS is why I do what I do. If it wasn’t for smart guys like you MAKING IT HAPPEN, I couldn’t teach.

Two things I need you to consider.

1) First of all, you said it’s been almost a year since you’ve had sex this good. So for you, this is an event (out of the ordinary) as opposed to a skillset that leads to an owned result, a claimed result (where succeeding with hot women is commonplace and part of who you are and what you do). Therefore….

2) The suspense and worry you are feeling … if it’s anything like “butterflies in the stomach” … dude, it’s normal! It happens to me – Ross Jeffries – when I sleep with a woman the first time. You are not alone.

Sex with a hot woman should be an illegal drug. Really. When you have really awesome hot sex with a woman, over a dozen chemicals are released inside you that will wreak havoc on your mind and body. During sex, the woman’s scent will “claim” you and “bond you” to her. It’s part of the normal attraction process. You don’t get the sensations, the touches, the scents, and the release when you fantasize about a woman who isn’t in your bed. That’s why all this is throwing you for a loop.

Good luck with your next meeting with her! And keep Sarging!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. For this student, right now what he is feeling is like another “part” or process inside is fighting him..like no matter how hard he wants to progress, some other part keeps cropping up to get in his way or the same old responses, beliefs, actions and patterns of behavior keep coming up. Hence his worry about lapsing into AFC behavior.

P.P.S. Guess what? I’ve cracked the code and discovered how to turn this “Re-infection” Mechanism OFF, and to convert all the power and process behind it…into pure and savagely effective learning, unbreakable motivation, and consistent excellence rocketing up the Seduction Learning Curve!

This, and much more, is in my Nail Your Inner Game Course.

Get yours today!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

There are few things as pleasant in this life as waking up next to a smoking hot 19 year old beauty who is as nuts about you as you are about her.

My lovely Swedish girlfriend has returned to me, after being gone for 2 months, and I can tell you it feels wonderful to be with her again.

And, as I write this, just 2 hours after she’s left for the day…

…I Am Exhausted!

Look: I’ve never been that good at having someone sleep in my bed. Having fun and dirty adult indulgence, sure.

But actually sleeping?

No, I prefer to sleep alone. And in the case of “Pernilla”, my young Swedish goddess/girl, it usually takes me a couple of days to acclimate to having her in the sack with me as me actually go to dream-land.

So right now, I’ve spent my second night only getting about 4 hours and my body hurts. I can feel cramping in my legs, my neck muscles are twitching and there is an overall tired sensation throughout my entire body.

Here is the interesting thing: sleep deprivation of any kind used to make me totally psycho.

(Hey, if you are a Ross hater, spare me the hate mail telling me I AM psycho).

It used to be that if I didn’t get at least 7 hours a night, my state would deteriorate rapidly, I’d get moody, emotional, and pretty non-functional.

Whereas today, while I don’t like it or prefer it, I can handle it. I can move with it and through it and because I can be fully aware of all of the tired sensations, without fighting them, it simply is something I can handle instead of freaking out about.

What is the point of all this with regards to your continuing quest for moist-pink success with the lovely ladies you desire?

Just this: in your journey towards success with women, you will have many moments where you have to deal with some difficult emotions.

You’ll experience frustration.

You’ll experience anger.

And I can tell you, for certain, you’ll experience some serious confusion.

But you know what? If you refuse to tell yourself disempowering stories about it-if you refrain from taking the meaning that you are a “loser” or that it isn’t worth it or that women are all “bitches” are whatever, then you have a chance at learning to have much better responses to it all.

What does that mean?

It means that what used to stop you or burden you simply becomes fuel for progress, success and learning. And that even the most difficult emotions and frustrating experiences become fantastic tools for self-education, self-knowing, and learning about who you really are and whom you really can become.

You see, because Speed Seduction® isn’t just about a bunch of routines or behaviors that you go out and do, it requires more from you than all the other programs out there. It requires that you learn deeply about who you are, and transform the person you are as you challenge yourself to grow beyond your own fixed patterns and the horrible brainwashing around sex and women that the world has been feeding you.

So it may require a lot more work on yourself than “Double Your Masturbating” or “Misery Method”.

But throwing off your chains and becoming the best you can be is worth it. As are of course, the women.

Off to take my nap now.

Piece, Peace and Hej Dar(it’s Swedish for “see you later”),

RJ