Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Seeing smart guys like you master the tools and proven strategies that get you all the hot, sexy, desirable women you want is the “payoff” of being a Seduction teacher. As I like to say…

The women are waiting, now what are you waiting FOR???

I recently got a letter from a student who has been talking to a girl for about three months now. He tells me he’s been keeping things mostly casual, running patterns or pieces of patterns here and there and just structuring his language in a better way then what he believes the typical Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) would.

But from what I gather, he really has not been working that hard though. She gives him lots of signs that she likes him, such as texting him about 50 times a day, remembering virtually everything he ever says to her, going out of her way to see him, etc. He tells me she always wants more when he runs a pattern on her, but he pulls back and makes her work for it, like he’s “teasing” her.

He wonders why he hasn’t scored with this chick yet, after three months.

Let’s dissect this.

Uh…first of all, what part of the “Speed” in “Speed Seduction®” did he miss?

The minute I see something like this, I already know what the problem is. This is a thinking that is focused more on not making mistakes than it is on doing what will work.

Guys, here is the real problem with this “talk to a girl for 3 months” approach: it is more focused on getting the girl than it is ON MASTERING THE SKILLS.

Instead, think in terms of every woman you meet as being an opportunity to help someone feel a bit better about their day AND ANOTHER STEP TOWARDS MASTERY OF YOUR SKILLS.

I think this student, and any guy in this situation, would benefit a great deal from reviewing their beliefs about learning. Here are three good ones:

1. ***I*** decide what I learn from every person, event, situation, and action in my life. ****I**** decide what meaning I give things.
2. I will either enjoy the process of getting what I want (or better) or I will enjoy getting what I want (or better) or BOTH.
3. When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

So as far as this chick, what are you waiting FOR? An engraved invitation? I think you know what they say about “those who wait.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

I’ve seen “online dating” evolve from being what guys didn’t admit to using to meet that latest “hot babe,” to being so common that you can barely watch a half hour of TV without seeing a commercial for one of the major online-dating websites.

I know a number of guys who have had success Sarging online. A few told me how they applied my girl-getting techniques to the online scene and used them to screen out the time-wasters, pic-collectors, and c#%k-teasers and score with the “prime hotties” on the “dating sites.” I’ve said before, good on them for making it work and I wish them continued success.

More common, however, is what I received two days ago from one of my students who has, up until now, insisted that the chatroom is just as good as the coffee shop, bookstore, grocery store, pottery class, running club, rock star’s fan club meetings, local networking group, or favourite club for meeting hot women:

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You know Ross, I’ve had some success finding women online, meeting them in person. I’ve gotten laid a couple times and even dated a few. Good times. More often, though, chicks on the dating sites talk a big game about being ready to “go for it” until it comes time to take things to a higher level.

Right at the point where things are ready to progress from a little fun online chat to “things actually happening” is where many women online suddenly change. They’ll make up bulls#%t excuses. They’ll suddenly change from lively chats that could go on all night if I would have let them, to all they say in the chat window is “hi” “ok” “cool” and “bye” without any smiley faces or “lol” or “roflmao” like before. They’ll disappear without a trace. In about 1 out of 5 cases, they suddenly pick some stupid fight, blame it on me, and call me an a$@hole from behind their keyboard.

Even after we meet in person, most of the time it doesn’t take long before they retreat back behind their computer or texting on their Crackberry or i(Don’t-Actually-Talk-On-The)Phone.

Frankly, I’d rather occasionally have some stuck-up chick shoot me down in public while her gal-pals laugh at me than deal with online nonsense anymore. I’ve canceled my online dating profiles and deleted everyone off my IM buddy list who isn’t an actual “real life” friend. For a couple days it was weird with my IM being silent and no “she just winked at you” notifications, but I don’t miss it now. I’m done with work for the day and now I’m off to my regular club to see who’s hanging out tonight.

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I’ve been working closely with this student for two years now. He was playing the online game smart, using it as a means to get her quickly to the next phase (the phone, then an in-person meet). He wasn’t using the internet as a crutch or excuse to avoid taking bold in-person seduction moves himself.

Remember: the anonymity of the internet allows people to pretend without having to face the music.

Plus, you don’t know who she really is, no matter how good she is at typing “just the right things” in the “naughty box.” All those “pics” she sends you that show you how cute and yummy she looks… how do you know they’re really HER? And if they are her, how do you know they aren’t 10 years old, from before she went to hell in a handbasket?

In this 24/7, hectic, overwhelm world where sometimes it’s hard to get out of the office enough to Sarge, the chat rooms and dating sites let you interact with women without having to lift more than a finger or two. It’s tempting and easy – I appreciate this.

But look: save the online chat stuff for women you’ve already been sleeping with for a while, as a way of keeping them tittilated when they’re home alone waiting for you to get back from that 3-day seminar you’re away at and show them even more hot, steaming adventure in person.

All around you, OFFLINE, the women are waiting – what, my friend, are you waiting FOR?

Peace, peace, and here’s LOOKING at her IN PERSON,

RJ

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