Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Only one thing pleases me more to hear that a student is kicking ass and taking names when it comes to scoring BIG with the ladies.

What could please me more than that, you ask?

Hearing that a student is actually helping out a fellow student to get amazing results.

Look: when I think back to what an incredibly tongue-tied, nerve-wracked, chicken-chokin’ loser I used to be with women, it makes me want to cry.

So, when a student gets marvelous results, and then helps another student achieve the same, well, I’m proud, delighted beyond delight’s sweet delight.

So, imagine my good feelings when I read the following email, from an attendee of a previous 3-day seminar in London, UK (note: the DVDs he mentions are all inside the Speed Seduction@ Power Pack):

Hi Ross,

I thought the story of what happened last night might be interesting for Some of you – especially the newer SS students.

After the London seminar the Irish lads decided that we should get together and start to really push these skills forward.

After a number of bars we were all off the mark and had already got some great responses. Things  were off to a great start – the guys had gone from not being able to open, to using blurt-outs, intuitive openers, humorous approaches, and some great sincerity, which we learned from the Gold Walk Ups DVD.

The more women that were opened, the further the old beliefs faded. THE WOMEN LOVED THESE CHARMING  GUYS.

I helped one student, Dan, with some of the exercises on your Fear Into Charisma DVD.

Here is the REALLY INTERESTING THING – he got some great smiles, some kino from these women, and out of about 50 approached women, only 2 semi negative responses. The energy was grounded before going out, and his state, energy, and awareness were totally controlled and supercharged.

After this, women were approaching  him, and there was no more fear of approaches – he hit the 100 openers’ mark by the end of the night.

Then came Selig.

This guy was amazing, he really got into the ritual before hand, and we reversed  some of the energy surrounding his former fear of clubs when we arrived at the place.

After a little while Selig had hit 60 approaches. At this stage there was no stopping him.

Selig had moved from being afraid to speak to women, to a guy who was magnetic, charming, intuitive, and dynamic in a little under 5 hours. He broke the 100 approaches mark by the end of the night.

I’m sure the guys will have their own stories to post in more detail, but suffice to say, approaches are no longer a problem.

John Stein – Cork, Ireland

RJ here again.  John, what can I say? A huge “right on” for helping out your fellow Speed Seduction® students.  May you always find women with warm hearts, firm bods, and lots of moist pink relief!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Want to overcome YOUR fear of approaching women and know the 4 different ways to meet them anytime, anywhere, and never worry about what to say?  This is one of many topics we’ll be covering in our Speed Seduction® 3-Day Seminars.

P.P.S. For the “in the box” version that gets you in HER box more often, you’ll want Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Either way, let me know when you top meeting 100 women a night!

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

A few weeks ago I was at one of my local hangouts in LA, working on some e-mails on the WiFi while checking out the bevy of bodacious babes that were swarming the place….and Sarging on a few of them.

My concentration got interrupted by a scene caused by a very desperate looking fellow.

See, this is the type of place where, after you finish your food order, you take the tray up and dump your garbage in the trash receptacle and then leave your tray.

Apparently, he had gotten some hot chick’s number and had accidentally left it on his tray when he tossed it. He left the restaurant, then realized his mistake, and came back hoping to get the phone number back. He was pleading with the manager for help. Coincidentally, the restaurant staff had just emptied that particular receptacle and taken its trash out to the dumpster in the back.

So he said to the manager: “No problem, I’ll just go into the dumpster and dig it out. No problem. It’s the one on top right?”

Manager’s flat-out, no-bullshit, no-messing-around response: “No, you won’t.”

Cut to the chase: guy who thought he was about to score with some babe, walks out dejected, knowing he “blew it.“

Yeah, I’d say he blew it.

He blew it from the moment he set “scoring the digits” as his goal. If this chick was so hot (and hot for him), what stopped him from scheduling a follow up meeting with her, then and there? What stopped him from making his move, then and there? Why did he take what was happening RIGHT THEN and willfully postpone it until an undefined “later” that might (and now DEFINITELY will) never come?

Too many smart guys are programmed into following “dating rituals.” Wait to get her number…wait two days to call her…then wait two days to see her…wait till the end of the date to give her a kiss…then wait till the next day to call her to say it was great…and then wait a day before calling back to ask for the next “date.”

Look: “wait” on THIS.

It’s true, the women ARE waiting. For you. So, champ, what are YOU waiting FOR?

If she’s here, now... and she seems interested, now… make your move, NOW. If she says no, fine, move on. But when she says yes (and she’s more likely to say yes because the vibe in the air that has her intrigued RIGHT NOW will dissipate if you go away and try to come back later), the results will sure beat a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

OK, so you’ve met a really hot woman, and things are “looking up”. She just put her coat on and you’re about to walk out with her – the adventure continues!

Just then…like the hammer hitting the anvil….her friend whispers something in her ear. Before you can say “But whaaaaa….?” this new woman gives you a curious look and says “I’m going to stay with my friend.”

It becomes clear within the next 30 seconds that you’re no longer part of the conversation and they’re waiting for you to get the hint that it’s time for you to skedaddle out of there.

Ok so…what the hell happened?!?!?!

First of all: if she changed her mind from wanting to leave with you, obviously something important happened to change that. You will never know what her friend whispered in her ear, nor does it matter to you.

Let me ask some challenge questions:

• Did you interact at all with her friend, and if so, how?
• They were there together, correct? Did they have two cars or one? They may have been dependent on each other for a ride home.
• If this chick you met was with her best friend since second grade, why should she ditch her best friend at the bar to go home with you?
• Conversely, why should the friend of the girl you’re having fun with, left her friend leave? What’s the incentive for her to allow that?
• Did you misread any of the responses you were getting from her? Was the girl you were Sarging on waiting for her friend to “save her” from having to leave with you?
• If you’re a true seducer of women with plenty of choices, not just her, has she seen you with other women?
• What was your social status with her, other than being the random guy that wants a quick lay? She might have needed more social proof before taking the next step.

Remember: a critical component about mastering your girl-getting game is using the clues and vibe she gives you to pique her interest and show her the benefits of going on with you.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

All too often, I hear guys complain with a variation of this theme:

“I just wish I could find a girl who’s right for me. I’ve had so much bad luck with women that I don’t know if I’ll EVER find a woman I want to be with.”

Or, “I’m never going to have this much fun again with someone so hot ever again” (often uttered right after “losing” the “best” woman you’ve ever had, so you think).

Really, now?

Tell you what: let’s break down some numbers.

As of yesterday (April 9, 2010), the United States Census Bureau estimated there are 6,813,600,000 people on Planet Earth.

About half (or 3.4 BILLION) of them are women.

Now, let’s say that only 1 in 1,000 are available, within your age range, or otherwise Sargeable by you. You’ve still got 3.4 MILLION women.

And let’s assume, conservatively, that you can have chemistry with 1% of these women. All said and done, that leaves you 34,000 women who are available to you.

If you were to approach one woman per day until you approach all 34,000…that’s enough women for the next 93 YEARS.

Have you seen at least ONE hot woman today you could approach? Is there some hottie you’ve wanted to put the moves on, but you just haven’t brought yourself to do it yet?

Look up from above your computer monitor, if you’re in a public area, such as a coffee shop or other place where you’re using the public Wi-Fi. If you’re a student in a computer lab, same thing.

Is there at least ONE woman there, RIGHT NOW who looks like she might be worth saying hello to? If not, there’s a 50/50 chance you’ll see one within the next half hour.

Me, I like those odds. And if I don’t get anywhere with the next woman I meet (or claim my choice that I can do better and “Exit, Stage Left”), I’ve got DECADES worth of women who are still out there.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Now you know: almost 100 years’ worth of opportunity is available to you. The “right woman” for you IS there, you just haven’t let her know yet.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Almost every day I get e-mails from smart guys like you who step up to the plate and claim their success with women without using what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze.

The other day I received this very interesting story about the “Sarge that came back to life.” Check this out:

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Hi Ross! I’ve gotta tell you. This one time I was driving a gal home after a particularly hot adventure and we just happened past an accident scene. This guy was lying on the pavement, probably dead, though I didn’t stop to check as the ambulance was already there. Freaked her out!

I made a diversion to a local bar. We had some wine, helped her settle down, then dropped her off. Called her next morning to see if she was OK and used some advanced patterns to get her in the Sargeable frame of mind. Three days later we did the nasty, and then continued for a few months after that.

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It’s all about calibration. Calibrate, calibrate, calibrate! Each woman is different. Each Sarge is different. You have to read the woman, read the situation, and know yourself.

On the other hand, experiences like these CAN sometimes kill the Seduction permanently.

A word of caution: SOME women, despite the performance of being interested in you, really are just NOT in the market for ANYTHING. The fact that a woman is initially responsive doesn’t mean she is really “open” or even CAN be opened. A scenario like the above can be, for her, enough reason to break things off.

I can attest that with the WRONG prospect, even when you bring your top girl-getting game, it’s at best an exercise in temporary good feelings that she cannot or will not act upon… but instead will run from.

SOME..WOMEN…ARE…NOT…READY and due to any number of issues, however “responsive” they are, they will NOT be able to carry out the required ACTIONS.

Keep on Sarging, the women who ARE ready are waiting… so what in Debbie’s delights are you waiting FOR?

Peace, piece and I LOVE this job,
RJ

P.S. A critical component of Speed Seduction® mastery is knowing, based on the verbal and nonverbal cues a woman gives you, when her responsiveness is likely to translate into action vs. when it might be best to “Exit, Stage Left.”

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Have you ever found yourself shying away from a Sarge because you worried that she won’t find you attractive? Well, when you “hold back” out of fear that she will shoot you down over your looks, then you’re ripping two people off:

1. HER, because you’re not giving HER the chance to decide if you’re the guy who will take her to new heights of excitement and pulsating pleasure, and
2. YOU, because you’re denying yourself the success with the women you truly desire.

So stick with me for a minute while I’ll explain…

Why You’re C@&k-Blocking Yourself
(And Dissing All Hot Women)
By Letting Your Own Looks Getting In The Way

First, if you reek of f@@king body odor and make people gag and have snot-stains on your t-shirt, YOU ARE IN TROUBLE. Hygiene DOES matter. For goodness’ sake, take care of yourself!

Now that being said, asking if “looks matter” is like asking “do strength and size matter in a fight?”

Sure… all other things being equal. The stronger, bigger guy with equal motivation and skill and determination will almost certainly beat the weaker, smaller guy… UNLESS THE SMALLER GUY PICKS UP A WEAPON AND GETS IN THE FIRST GOOD F@@KING HIT!

Most of the time, if you aren’t (in your own mind, perhaps) fabulously great looking, BUT you take good care of yourself, a woman will be neutral to your look. She won’t rule you out but she won’t be feeling any butterflies or pangs of irresistible arousal EITHER. That’s where your girl-getting game comes in…to create those feelings.

Look: I wish I looked like a movie star. But I don’t. I am who I am. So, am I going to cry in my f@@king chicken soup about it? Or am I going to use everything I DO have to get where I want to go?

Present yourself as best you can physically, take good care of yourself, wear clothes that fit you well RIGHT NOW. Stop c@&k-blocking yourself until you “lose a few” or “get your teeth fixed” or whatever excuse you’ve been making, and instead crank up your girl-getting game and you’ll find out that chicks will, in fact, dig you.

The women are waiting… so what in jumping Jenny’s panties are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Seeing smart guys like you master the tools and proven strategies that get you all the hot, sexy, desirable women you want is the “payoff” of being a Seduction teacher. As I like to say…

The women are waiting, now what are you waiting FOR???

I recently got a letter from a student who has been talking to a girl for about three months now. He tells me he’s been keeping things mostly casual, running patterns or pieces of patterns here and there and just structuring his language in a better way then what he believes the typical Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) would.

But from what I gather, he really has not been working that hard though. She gives him lots of signs that she likes him, such as texting him about 50 times a day, remembering virtually everything he ever says to her, going out of her way to see him, etc. He tells me she always wants more when he runs a pattern on her, but he pulls back and makes her work for it, like he’s “teasing” her.

He wonders why he hasn’t scored with this chick yet, after three months.

Let’s dissect this.

Uh…first of all, what part of the “Speed” in “Speed Seduction®” did he miss?

The minute I see something like this, I already know what the problem is. This is a thinking that is focused more on not making mistakes than it is on doing what will work.

Guys, here is the real problem with this “talk to a girl for 3 months” approach: it is more focused on getting the girl than it is ON MASTERING THE SKILLS.

Instead, think in terms of every woman you meet as being an opportunity to help someone feel a bit better about their day AND ANOTHER STEP TOWARDS MASTERY OF YOUR SKILLS.

I think this student, and any guy in this situation, would benefit a great deal from reviewing their beliefs about learning. Here are three good ones:

1. ***I*** decide what I learn from every person, event, situation, and action in my life. ****I**** decide what meaning I give things.
2. I will either enjoy the process of getting what I want (or better) or I will enjoy getting what I want (or better) or BOTH.
3. When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

So as far as this chick, what are you waiting FOR? An engraved invitation? I think you know what they say about “those who wait.”

Peace and piece,
RJ

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