Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I recently received this e-mail from a student of mine about how Speed Seduction® helped him “up” his game with women this past New Years’.  No resolution, just motor-vation to success.

Let’s hear him share, in his own words:

Ross, I owe you a huge thank you for all of your free materials. I have never had any consistent luck with women and now it is fantastic. I have been following all of your rules and beliefs when approaching women and they have worked every time. I often find myself grounding a lot more often and this really seems to keep my focus and balance in check.

My New Years Eve started off great. I was at my third and final stop of the night when I say a gorgeous waitress across the room. I got her attention by snickering at her.  Your rule saved me from the start. “When in doubt take a bold step forward.” So I did. She asked me “What are you snickering at me for?” I replied “Because, I think you’re really cute.”  She said the same about me and then promptly said “Don’t go anywhere.” and she returned with her number.  Since the next day we were texting then in the bed room…..

If it was not for your free segment on “shutting down last minute hesitation” I would have been done. She said that “I just met you and we shouldn’t be doing this.” I then stopped to a breath and gently whisper to her “I understand and see your point. I too only want to do things that we are both truly comfortable with.” and bang it was on since then. She has been texting me nonstop and wanting to hangout. The other cool part of the story is we don’t even have much in common, I just seem to keep the patterns that I know working.

THIS IS A TRUE TESTIMONIAL TO ROSS’S TEACHING: She just graduated from a Major big name college with a psychology degree and can read me like a book. But Ross’s patterns slip right through all of her constant analyzing and work every time!!!!!!! This is great! Man I only wish I could view the entire new course, if one video made my new year perfect.

Ross, a true thanks from a grateful fan.

Al Levy
Council Bluffs, Iowa

RJ here again.  Did you catch that last part?

For those of you who still (misguidedly) think that top-notch, intelligent, sophisticated, intellectual women will not get wet, will not be irresistibly aroused, will not want to push forward in a new direction – that’s just not the case.  In Al’s case, the woman is specifically trained to pick up on patterns, persuasion techniques, etc.

The women are waiting.  What in Suzanne’s silk nightie are you waiting FOR?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The good news is – you can have my brand new course.  It’s called “Sexual Aggression Mastery” and it’s chock full of mindsets, skills, and techniques to get you through when resistance (either hers or yours) appears at the “moment of truth.”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We’ve been hearing since childhood about how some guys just have a “way with women.”

For some reason, they’ve just “got it.”  Seems like they can get any girl they want.  They’re always in the company of beautiful women.

Here’s a note from a student that drives this point home:

> I had a friend who was a real natural.
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> He said he would simply put his hand on her hip, and talk to her, while moving her hip about.

No… No… NO.

Look beneath the obvious and see what is really going on.

What is this guy doing with his intent, his will and his energy/vibe?

Get that down FIRST and then look at the pieces of behavior: where he puts his hand and where he moves her body.

How can you get a sinfully succulent co-ed steaming hot for you… so hot she’s turning beet red (in the moment, then all the next day at work)?

Without putting your hand on her hip or dancing with her.  Or even touching her.

I keep pointing at the moon.
You CONTINUE to stare at my finger.

Listen: it’s an axiom in science that if you look beneath the obvious things that people take for granted you will find out things everyone else is missing.

Does time flow uniformly, at the same rate, for all frames of reference? So it appears but in fact, it does not. Einstein looked behind and beneath the “obvious” truth to discover what is really going on.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. “Building Skill At Feel” is a pathway to true masculine power with women.  This is among the many things you learn in Showing Up Attractive, the companion course to Sexual Aggression Mastery.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A major impediment to success in any endeavor – career advancement, building a successful business, becoming a star athlete, discovering a breakthrough in science or medicine, getting the results you want with the hot, succulent, attractive-in-every-way women you’ve always wanted but up until now have not mastered – is in how you look at it.

Students ask me, how can they absorb all the information they need to succeed?  What’s the right way to “study?”

That’s the problem – right there.

We’re not cramming to pass the final exam here.

That’s the wrong metaphor. 

You can’t absorb what you would best aim at having, which is not “information” but SKILL.

Look at it like this:

There’s really no “information” that will, in and of itself, solve your challenges. There IS “potential information” that becomes real when you apply it as SKILL in the real world, through your ongoing PRACTICE and EXPERIMENT with real women in the real world.

You are aiming at the wrong thing. Again, the metaphor sucks. And the one feeds the other.

Repeat after me: F@@K information. I claim my skills.

F@@K absorbing. EMBRACE practicing.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Fans,

Today I was thinking about some of the big “operating system” errors that guys make when they are NOT Sarging and where you can make some huge improvements in what I call “back game”.

By “back game” I mean what you do when you are not actively sarging.

This could be doing your daily meditation practice.

It could be keeping a Sarging journal(mandatory).

But it could also be recognizing when you are doing too much analysis with too little data.

Let’s unpack this further.

Let’s say you’ve done 5 sarges.  You got some seemingly good responses and out of those, you’ve managed to set up 1 good, solid meet up.

Rather than focus on preparing yourself for the meet-up, you start chewing on what happened with those other 4.

Now don’t get me wrong; I want you to keep that journal and review every Sarge, noticing first what you did right, and then what could be improved.

But you need to understand that 5 attempts don’t give you nearly enough examples to extract any conclusive direction or data.

You simply need to do less chewing and more doing.

Rather than trying to take things apart at this stage, go and do at least 5, preferably 10 more sarges.

You might find that correcting your “back game” in this way actually brings more leverage than any tweak you may do in the field, because it gives you more good, real world examples to sift.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S.   OK, chew on this: inside Nail Your Inner Game, you’ll find The Ultimate Sarge Review Process – the simple 20 minute process you’ll use at the end of every Sarge that (among other things) gets you back in the field doing things right, with easy, effortless confidence.  Click here to discover everything inside Nail Your Inner Game now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You’ve heard me say that “online dating” is for the birds.  Speed Seduction® is NOT designed to help you get laid from a personals ad.

At the same time, you also hear me say often that one of the real geniuses of Speed Seduction® is that it doesn’t just give you a bunch of pickup lines; rather, it gives you the tools and the skill mastery to apply the teachings to YOUR situation with ANY woman.

Listen to this student tell you, in his own words, about his success making the “online thing” work for him:

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Hello Ross, I wanted to give your ideas of seduction the toughest challenge possible; bitter men-hating women on dating websites. As a result of using only information from your free products on your site and using only words on MSN, I have given women the most powerful orgasms of their lives.

I have had teenage women squirt and older women send me videos of them masturbating. I have had women fall in love with me simply using your ideas of language. I have had women send me pictures that would make your granny faint. [Well, maybe not YOUR granny!]  I tell them that they need to talk to just me for 20 minutes and the rest is history. Some have such powerful orgasms that they delete me and log of their sites because they’ve never come so hard and they freak.

One young woman ordered me to drive over to her house and sleep with her.

And all of this by using the theories you outline in your free products. I should also point out, that unlike many online PUAS suggest, my profile has a crappy little picture and hardly any information.

This, perhaps, is not how you intended Speed Seduction® to be used, but I am highlighting how your theories can be used and expanded.

No top hats, no vanishing coins and no pictures of me with tons of women, just words and ideas from your free products.  Thank you.

Lee Masters
Birmingham, West Midlands, UK

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RJ again.  First of all, good on Lee!  Lee, I am SO proud of you for claiming YOUR choice and achieving success with women you truly desire.

You’re not the first student who, despite what I teach, have met and had sex with women from the “dating sites.”  It’s all in HOW you apply the skills.

Again, take note of what Lee has said, in his own words, about how this has improved his life.

Peace and piece,
RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Sometimes it’s the seemingly softball questions that really get my creativity flowing.  A student asked me:

“So Ross, how do you suggest us newbie’s work our way to mastery?”

Wow. If I were to map it out, I would divide it up like this:

1) Understanding. This means you understand HOW women create their emotions. You get that the key is:

• Women already think and talk to themselves and to others in the Speed Seduction® Language. Meaning the “patterns” and such aren’t something I just made up. They are reflections/restatements of the way women think ALREADY. And that is why they work.
• It’s most important to think in terms of what emotions you want women to feel-what emotional states you want them to be in when they think about you. Get the emotions flowing first and the actions you want her to do will follow.
• Think of womens’ psyches/minds/personalities as a big ship with many smaller compartments. You want to activate/energize those “compartments” that contain her emotions/feelings/imagination for escape, fascination, connection, desire, indulgence, arousal, daring etc.

2) State control. You learn to control your state. That means you develop a good working relationship with uncertainty, confusion and frustration as well as being able to create and design more pleasant, “positive” states like confidence, certainty, etc.

State control isn’t just about how you are when you are with women. It’s about how you are when you review your progress with women, the mistakes you made, the things you did right etc.

3) Rehearsal and practice. You learn a good strategy to rehearse how you want to sound, look, act, re-act. You rehearse this outloud before you go out. You then go out and practice IN THE WORLD, as much as you can, whenever and wherever you can. 

4) Designing your vibe and meaning. You get that the meaning you give your practice in the world is important. That “sarging” women is best viewed as a fun way to improve your skills, not a “do or die” mission that you MUST succeed at. The meaning isn’t, “I hope this works” or “What if I fail?” The meaning is, “Let’s go have some fun and see what I can do in the world with this person.”

You learn to design a vibe that is grounded, out-ward oriented(instead of attending to the dialog in your head) and willing to f@@k it up and have fun.

5) You get the most useful orientation. This means that first and foremost:

• You always notice what has worked, what you are doing right. You do not allow yourself to look at mistakes, feel frustrated etc UNTIL YOU FIRST ACKNOWLEDGE everything you are doing correctly, even the smallest step or element.
• You develop an action orientation. This means when you feel stuck or don’t know what to do, YOU TAKE ACTION IN THE WORLD instead of trying to figure it out in your head. You let your experiments, over time, with repetition and multiple trials, tell you what really works and what you can do.
• You realize the world has no guarantees other than dying, so you determine to design your life and make it worth remembering, rather than let your past, your peers or even your present situation tell you who you have to be, what you can do, and what you can enjoy.

6) You develop a practice that allows you to see where you have been going wrong, without being upset or believing you have to be that way anymore. The practice gets to the point where you see the mistaken/old ways of thinking and acting BEFORE you do them, so you can correct course BEFORE you hit the rocks. In other words, you have a meditation practice.

7) You get the best goddamn coach and guide in the world – that would be me.

Any questions?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. One of the fastest ways to get me is to join my Coaching Program which includes live interaction – “Ask Me Anything” group coaching sessions as well as one-on-one office hours.  Get me fast, get me good, get me live, get me now – click here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here is a screen shot of a testimonial I just got:

Just in case it isn’t clear enough I am also copying the text for you right here…

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Hey, the name’s Melvin Cedeno. And I’ve been studying seduction for a few years, and I’ve read practically every other book in the community and all that. I can honestly say your Unstoppable Confidence course did more for me than everything else combined. I’m from Manchester, New Hampshire in the united states, and it’s a tiny city. I wasn’t 21 so going to bars to meet women didn’t work but we did have some of the top party colleges in the country so we went to those instead.

You helped get my mentality to the practical place it needed to be every night I went out. You became a part of my rituals, my Anthony Robbins for the ladies, and just helped me feel ok with being the best possible choice any woman could make.

I’m currently with my dream girl and before her I slept with 9 woman thanks to your advice. And you haven’t just helped me, I pass on your wisdom to my close friends and I can tell you if you combine all our scores it would tally up to well over 40. I hope this wasn’t too long, I could go on forever.

Thanks again Ross, you truly changed a life here for the better.

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Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want to enjoy the same results as Melvin, I suggest you jump over here right now and check out the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection because the Unstoppable Confidence Course he mentions is included as a free bonus with it!