Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

So, you’ve approached and met and are now in conversation with that incredible hottie you just spotted from across the room. You’re in your Sarging “zone” and the rapport is building faster and hotter than the greatest orgasm you’ve ever experienced.

You dig this chick but right now, you’re running late for your appointment / client meeting / dentist appointment / picking up your dog or cat from the groomer and you need to pick this up another time.

This is the “moment of truth,” pal.

Handle it right and you’re off to the races… botch it and your next mind-blowing sex will be with Rosie and her sisters. What do you do?

The following student reports he has been “scoring” with a long string of answering machines:

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Hi Ross, I have to say that your pick up line approach and getting a girl to hand her phone number out is the most unbelievable thing I have seen. I am approaching girls anywhere I see them! Now I am getting women’s numbers, but when I call her I have like zero rapport with her because we talked for 60 seconds before she gave me the number.

What steps do I take to get women to return calls when I call them to ask them out on a date, since women rarely answer their phones and I usually have to leave a message. What’s the best phone message pattern you use to get the best callback response?

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First, let me clarify something. If you’ve spent 60 seconds with a woman and gotten her phone number, you’re not going to be asking her on a date. “Dating” is what you do with women you’re already sleeping with. Unless you’re a “minute man” I don’t think you’ve had sex with her yet.

That said, why are you getting her phone number, then calling her up later to set up a meeting? When you wait till later, all you’re doing is… waiting. Every single day that goes by is 1,440 LOST minutes you could have spent (at least some of) with her, sharing adventures and hot wild experiences.

If you’re doing a “five minute close” on a woman you’ve just met, either because you’re pressed for time or are still mastering your walk-up technique and use the “short and sweet” approach to get her involved, don’t get her phone number so you can call her up later to set up the next step.

Close her on the date and time of the next meeting then and there – BEFORE you move on to otherwise living your life.

First close her, then experience dripping wet sex with her, and then worry about having her phone number… so you can call her the next day before you see her again.

That is what I “call” a plan for Seduction success.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Since enjoying damn near ridiculous levels of success, satisfaction and pleasure with the most amazing women around is something you are highly interested in, then investing in my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System could be one of the best things you’ve ever done.

Among many other things, I teach you three new and different ways to use the initial walkup to open and access the most hyper-erotically responsive aspects of her psyche. Do this instead of getting her damn number so you can call her “later.”

Claim yours, and start picking up the pace and shortening the distance to ultimate Seduction success, now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday on my blog, I told you about my student who had sex with the super-squirting babe who dried up and flaked on a planned meeting.

24 hours before their next scheduled meeting, she texted him with this: “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

He knew immediately (as did I when he told me) that it was a flake, a line of total malarkey, because she didn’t say she was sorry, didn’t immediately offer to reschedule, and tried to hide behind texting rather than calling him.

A few minutes after I wrote yesterday’s Steaming Hot Seduction Secret, I found myself AGAIN in teacher/mentor mode (the place where I thrive). I wrote out a brand-new Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern and e-mailed it to him. As you know, I do my best work when I am hands-on with my students, helping them succeed in their specific situations with women.

[For those who are joining me this Sunday (October 25) for our "Afternoon With Ross Jeffries," I will share this message pattern with you, word for word. And if you can't make it, click here anyway and pre-order the DVD recording of the event, and you'll receive the message pattern too.]

Some of the key points of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern (spoken in my student’s voice) are:

• I’m trying to figure out what’s going on and want to open the opportunity for you to tell me
• I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back (I use this in one of the screening patterns I use when I Sarge)
• I’ve enjoyed being with you and want to hear what’s going on

As a smart guy who is serious about success with the hottest of super-hot, wet women, he called her that evening and she answered the phone. After she tried to play him off and tell him she wasn’t “in the mood to talk” he had her pause and focus on listening, and then he spoke the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern to her, word-for-word.

For a “use a knife to cut the tension in the air” 20 seconds, she was silent. I would venture her previous men have been Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs) and she’s never been in the presence of a real Speed Seduction® Master who powerfully claims his desire, his skills, his success, and his future. Now she was confronted by a man who doesn’t mess around when it comes to getting what he wants, and realized the “game” she is used to playing with men wasn’t going to work on him.

Then she said, slowly, “I’ve given this a lot of thought and I just don’t think we have much in common. You’ll make a woman happy very soon, but I’m just not feeling this. I’m sorry, I’m really bad at this.”

Whether or not this was THE truth, it was, as far as he’s concerned, “her truth” at the moment. And it wasn’t his job to “figure her out.” In fact, in my debriefing with him he said the only part he really heard was when she said “You’ll make a woman happy very soon.”

Like this pattern? Pretty cool eh? It clears things up so you can focus your energy and efforts on women who will be worth your time. That sure beats a poke in the eye!

And again, if you spend this Sunday afternoon with me (or pre-order the DVD if you can’t make it), I will share these, and others of my brand-new, best-of-the-best Seduction/Pick-up/Personal Change Breakthroughs with you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. The goal of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern is to get her to step out from behind her game and claim her truth (if she can). In this case, she couldn’t. This is an indicator of how she would behave toward him if their interactions progressed to “seeing each other” and then “boyfriend/girlfriend.” By using the Anti-Flake this early in the interactions with her – the VERY FIRST TIME she flaked on him, he sidestepped a landmine so he can refocus his Sarging efforts toward finding the RIGHT women for him.

P.P.S. Would you like to get your greedy little hands on word for word seduction patterns, INCLUDING the “forbidden” Gemini and Dark Sun patterns that induce permanent behavioral change in the women you desire, allowing you to mold them to the exact erotic specifications you require, demand and dream of?

Then check out my Frame Control and Sexual Themes DVDs!