Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Recently, someone asked me this question: if you acted like a total AFC toward a woman in the past (lots of flowers, expensive dinners, and “dating” prior to any making-out or sex) and predictably got rejected, before you acquired Speed Seduction® skills, can you go back, show her the new “Sargy” you, and win her over with the new you?
Usually, I’d ask… “Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”
But for some guys, whether it’s (as far as he can tell) a sense of wanting to “go back and do right,” a nagging feeling of having failed and wanting a do-over, or whatever, he just can’t get this chick off of his mind.
Is there anything he can do to change her feeling for him? Should he try to bring this one back to life, or should he just move on?
Here’s the thing: you can CHOOSE to change your feelings about the girl.
Actually, as I think about this, the problem is that you invested lots of feeling (not to mention money) in the girl PRIOR to even making out with her, much less f@@king her.
Now listen, and listen up:
Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the words you use to f@@k chicks, although, bless Sargy, that is a big part of it.
It’s also about a different understanding about how the “feelings” process works.
In this case, your “feelings” for the girl didn’t just enter into your body like an arrow shot by Cupid in your ass.
No, you SELF-HYPNOTIZED yourself into the girl.
I’ll bet dollars to dildos you did this by daydreaming about her, whacking off to your perverted little dribble dick fantasies (just kidding about the dribble dick), etc etc.
Please use this as a lesson on what NOT to do, first and foremost.
Remember this: “You never know where you stand with a woman until you make that first serious physical pass, so you don’t consider a woman a serious prospect until AFTER you’ve made love”.
Peace and piece,
P.S. It’s time for you “de-wussify” yourself with regard to this tasty little crumpet from yesteryear who shut you down. Find out how to convert yesterday’s mistakes into today’s pure learning that brings on tomorrow’s seduction success when you Nail Your Inner Game, now.