Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,
In my direct teaching work with students, a question that frequently comes up is from a smart guy who wonders if he let a “sure thing” just walk away. He’ll encounter a smoking-hot, sweet-smelling hottie, some things will happen like snuggling, making out, etc. He knows he could probably score a home run if he took his best swing at bat, but for whatever reason, he walks.
This thought-provoking e-mail is a case in point:
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Ross, I’m wondering if I missed an opportunity to get laid!
The other day I was flying home from Las Vegas. Normally when I fly I like to read a book, take a nap, and be alone, but my seatmate, Felicia, was really cute and open. She’s from Phoenix and married. I ran some patterns and did some anchoring by touching her arm and face, which she seemed to enjoy. After while she wanted to nap. She tried to get comfortable but kept stirring. So I nudged her and said “Felicia….” as I lifted up the arm rest and moved her close so she could cuddle with me while she napped. I held her close and enjoyed her perfume and her warm body next to me.
After the flight, before I left her at baggage claim, I thanked her for the best plane ride EVER, hugged and kissed her, and handed her my card and said “If I can ever be of service you….be well, Felicia” and walked away from her without another word. Part of it was because her in-laws were picking her up and I didn’t want a scene, but I enjoyed the ability to Sarge, then walk away from a scenario that I know isn’t worth my time.
I wanted to leave her with the memory of the plane ride and let HER wonder about ME, knowing she holds the key to me if she chooses to turn it. On the other hand, I am wondering if I missed out and I should have “gone for it” anyway. Did I let it walk away?
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You’re right – you won’t hear from her again – but that’s not the point. You were able to Sarge and have an enjoyable experience with a sweet-smelling hottie who was open and willing.
Okay, you didn’t get laid. Sounds like you didn’t try. And if she’s “petting the kitty” thinking about you and the plane ride now, that’s not the same as you doing it for her. But I’ll wager it felt good having her snuggling up to you, didn’t it? I bet every guy on the airplane who saw you wished he was a “stud” like you.
Remember: when you practice Speed Seduction® in your pursuit of the women you desire, it’s not about succeeding with the woman you are Sarging on right now. It’s about honing and mastering your skills to claim your results on your next 10 Sarges. If you ask me, you should have kissed her and made out with her, but you didn’t. This experience prepared you for next time this happens – and in your pursuit of girl-getting mastery, it WILL.
So again, you didn’t poke her, but you know THIS plane ride sure beat a poke in the eye!
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS of my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation who claims his results and gets the women he wants.
